The power of love
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If your parents for some reasons, disapprove your relationship with that someone special, will you still go ahead?
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yes.
cos im dotter
it's going to be "po chu qu de shui" anyway -
depends on the reasons why they are against the relationship.
love is blind ..... outsiders can give a better insight at times
usually, dont sound pleasing though -
True. To some extend it is easier for women to go ahead with the relationship, but really not that easy for the men, especially if he is the eldest or the only son.Originally posted by FireIce:yes.
cos im dotter
it's going to be "po chu qu de shui" anyway
Sometimes men have to make the painful decision of 'breaking off' with their parents in order to pursue their loves.
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In most cases they think your gf/bf is not suitable for you and you are to blinded by love to see it.Originally posted by InnoHippo:depends on the reasons why they are against the relationship.
love is blind ..... outsiders can give a better insight at times
usually, dont sound pleasing though
Another common reason is there are some conflicts between them esp. between the mum and the gf. -
hey.. they should never...
coz good or bad for you, it's still your life... -
Unfortunately many parents don't think it this way. They have their own ideas of what is good for you and what is not.Originally posted by the Bear:hey.. they should never...
coz good or bad for you, it's still your life...
Their intentions may be good but in such cases, well .... -
parents like to say they eat salt more then u eat rice
i tell them.......too much salt no good, wait kena kidney problem -
true, that it's easier for women. as for me, i could be very stubborn when it comes to my choice. no matter how bad my parents dun like him, if i still wannabe with him, my parents cannot do anything. bcos the more they say NO ! the further i'd go. and they know it well.Originally posted by DeadPoet:True. To some extend it is easier for women to go ahead with the relationship, but really not that easy for the men, especially if he is the eldest or the only son.
Sometimes men have to make the painful decision of 'breaking off' with their parents in order to pursue their loves.
but once..my mum told me that she prayed to God that she wanted me to broke up with my bf...and not long after that..i broke up. and yes, my parents were rite. some of my exs (that they dun like) are exactly (even worse) as they predicted (not suitable for my daughter). and my parents..although they dun like him (hate him to the roots), they still dun show their feeling to him. i must thank my parents for that. for not making my exs felt terrible infront of them. and i must kicked my exs ass for acting terrible infront of them.
as for my bf..well..i told him if they dun like me, they must have good reason for that. and u better ask them what it is. bcos i never wanna break family ties. i'd rather walk away fm him, rather than he has to pick between his family or me
and as for parents... i know that they want the best for their children. and they are welcomed to give comments and suggestions. but i still dun understand why they still (sometimes) force us to follow their order. it's us the one who's in the r/s, not them. why do they have to make us suffer ???? WHY ?????? oh well..maybe we know one day when we become parents. i just hope that i can be as nice as my parents. -
Originally posted by FireIce:parents like to say they eat salt more then u eat rice
i tell them.......too much salt no good, wait kena kidney problem
You tell that to your parents? -
Sometimes parents are right but sometimes parents are wrong also.Originally posted by Maya061:true, that it's easier for women. as for me, i could be very stubborn when it comes to my choice. no matter how bad my parents dun like him, if i still wannabe with him, my parents cannot do anything. bcos the more they say NO ! the further i'd go. and they know it well.
but once..my mum told me that she prayed to God that she wanted me to broke up with my bf...and not long after that..i broke up. and yes, my parents were rite. some of my exs (that they dun like) are exactly (even worse) as they predicted (not suitable for my daughter). and my parents..although they dun like him (hate him to the roots), they still dun show their feeling to him. i must thank my parents for that. for not making my exs felt terrible infront of them. and i must kicked my exs ass for acting terrible infront of them.
as for my bf..well..i told him if they dun like me, they must have good reason for that. and u better ask them what it is. bcos i never wanna break family ties. i'd rather walk away fm him, rather than he has to pick between his family or me
and as for parents... i know that they want the best for their children. and they are welcomed to give comments and suggestions. but i still dun understand why they still (sometimes) force us to follow their order. it's us the one who's in the r/s, not them. why do they have to make us suffer ???? WHY ?????? oh well..maybe we know one day when we become parents. i just hope that i can be as nice as my parents.
At the end of the day, you have to decide for yourself what you want, who you want to love. If it works out, then everything is okay. If it doesn't work out, then you will have to bear the hurt, the pain etc.
Life and love is unpredictable.
Whatever it is, follow your heart. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, at least you have given it all and tried your best. That is the best thing you could have done for yourself. To give yourself the opportunity even if the odds were against you.
If you didn't follow your heart but chose instead to follow blindly whatever your parents / friends say, then you would never know what could have been had you done what you wanted in the first place. There is no guarantee that following your heart will always be the right thing to do but hey, life would be meaningless if everybody followed a life plan determined by his/her parents only. -
hmmm, i wil try to prove my parents r "wrong", hahaha..even though next time if the r/s not working well, i oso can't blame anyone except myself, then parents wil start to make noise. lik "tell u oredi, this person cnt mak it, c lah, serve u rite - bu ting lao ren yan, chi kui zan yan qian", wahaha
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Originally posted by 101wish:hmmm, i wil try to prove my parents r "wrong", hahaha..even though next time if the r/s not working well, i oso can't blame anyone except myself, then parents wil start to make noise. lik "tell u oredi, this person cnt mak it, c lah, serve u rite - bu ting lao ren yan, chi kui zan yan qian", wahaha