Money! Money! Money!
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If both of husband and wife are working, is it still necessary for the husband to give money to his wife?
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yeah regardless of the earnings, i felt that husband should give money to his wife ....Originally posted by DeadPoet:If both of husband and wife are working, is it still necessary for the husband to give money to his wife? -
I think most couples will usually separate the expenses between themselves.
eg the husband pays for everything concerning the car, the wife pays for food / utilities / household stuff etc.
Otherwise, they might open a joint account that each will put in a certain sum every month for all general expenses.
In such cases, then I don't think the husband needs to "give" the wife any money.
On a side note, money is sometimes the cause of marital problems. Better to resolve and state clearly who pays for what and how it is paid etc before a couple gets married. -
I will give when I know she is really broke after spending on the neccessary.....
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no, why must give? unless both put their accounts together then it's a different story.Originally posted by DeadPoet:If both of husband and wife are working, is it still necessary for the husband to give money to his wife? -
Originally posted by Kismet:
How true. As far as I know, not sometimes but one of the major cause of marital problems.
On a side note, money is sometimes the cause of marital problems. Better to resolve and state clearly who pays for what and how it is paid etc [b]before a couple gets married.
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Many couples donÂ’t realize it when they signed on the dotted line. Marriage need planning, esp the financial aspect of it. -
me no need hubby to sarport me
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Have to, it is the 'norm' of the society.Originally posted by the.raven:no, why must give? unless both put their accounts together then it's a different story. -
Hmm... my wife said that too in the past.Originally posted by FireIce:me no need hubby to sarport me -
But what if she spend on the unneccessary?Originally posted by Troy437:I will give when I know she is really broke after spending on the neccessary..... -
My practise is to giver her all the money. She'll settle all the bills n payments. But bros out there better make sure ur partner can be trusted.
I prefer to let her have the money to give her one form of assurance in the relationship. N i'm always lazy to pay bills n withdraw money.
Chinese saying: nan ren you chian jiu hui xue huai, nu ren xue huai chai hui you chian.
Men with money will be bad boys, whereas girl who are bad will get more money
I'm already very notti already so better not to have too much money! -
what is spent is spent .... cannot let her go hungry riteOriginally posted by DeadPoet:But what if she spend on the unneccessary?
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You give her all the money??? That is really unwise my friend.Originally posted by Origami:My practise is to giver her all the money. She'll settle all the bills n payments. But bros out there better make sure ur partner can be trusted. -
Originally posted by InnoHippo:what is spent is spent .... cannot let her go hungry rite
Not that serious lah. -
Originally posted by DeadPoet:You give her all the money??? That is really unwise my friend.
I dun really mind.....
She hardly spends....in fact I spend more than her! -
Then give her money oni enough to eat...can't watch her starve right?Originally posted by DeadPoet:But what if she spend on the unneccessary?
Cannot sukah sukah give...she thinks my money come easy...then we will both starve one day... -
Spend on her.Originally posted by Origami:
I dun really mind.....
She hardly spends....in fact I spend more than her! 