will good friends ever become a lover?
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Well, it really depends on the karmic relationship you have with this person..Originally posted by toiletbowl86:i once was told by my friend that when the both of you are good friends,u both will never engage in a relationship with each other.know what i mean?its like u know that someone so long a time that u have nth to explore in him/her.comment.
From friends you can be lovers.. this is where you get to know a person well.. or understand them much more better.. when you are friends..
Whether to be or not to be together.. it really depends alot on the situation itself.. If somehow you dun reeally see the future of you both.. but can only feel that it better off to be friends.. then i think you shall let it remain..
Rather then injure this friendship.. if you know that you really cant get her.. and dun mind jus telling her how you feel.. to get it off your chest.. you may do so..
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Originally posted by xavier1979:I guess not.
When a girl says she only treat you as a 'good friend', it's a signal that she want no more than what is present between the two of you.
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yeah, if only i got another chance again this time.Originally posted by tvdog:I've had that debate with myself many times. And everytime, I eventually gave in and announced my love for my friend.
It's really a test of our friendship and thank heavens, it stood the test - she rejected me every time but we're still pals.
With hindsight now, do I regret expressing myself to her. No. But I should have done it with more flair. -
Time is the best test of everything. Who knows how things will change?Originally posted by edLow:yeah, if only i got another chance again this time.
Unfortunately for me more than 10 years later I'm still crazy about my close friend. But then, you always lament the ones that got away...
But time also changes everything. 5 years later, maybe she put on 10kg!