Taken For Granted
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In reference to this topic...
there's a list, but have u ever felt you've been taken for granted?
sure, you do whatever's on that list, but the other half just takes and doesn't give a single thing.
how would you feel if you were in that situation? -
In this world where got fair wan...
haiz......
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well i've seen ppl give and give... but the other person just takes and takes, not only that... the taker even asks for things from the giver...Originally posted by _AbSoLuT_:In this world where got fair wan...
haiz......
sometimes i dunno why the giver stays on with the taker... sure the giver stays for love... but from a 3rd person POV, i pity the giver... -
a relationship is a 2 way thing. If the other doesn't respond, it just shows how much his/she's commited to the relationship. Most of the times, relationship such as this doesn't last for long
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sad to see that the person giving is trying his/her best to maintain it... the other half just takes it for granted that he/she will still be there.Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:a relationship is a 2 way thing. If the other doesn't respond, it just shows how much his/she's commited to the relationship. Most of the times, relationship such as this doesn't last for long -
*rub eyes*
unusual topic... i mean unusual kinda topic from the thread starter..
anyway, it seems like in many real life cases, givers tend to give more and more, hoping that one day that the takers will realise and start appreciating it...
TGG -
what's tgg?
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tan gu gu
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Sorry to hear that... but I guess no one else can help this person except him/herself ... Hope that he/she will snap out of it soon and move on ...Originally posted by kopiosatu:sad to see that the person giving is trying his/her best to maintain it... the other half just takes it for granted that he/she will still be there. -
so you're saying that the giver should stop hoping the taker will change no matter how much the giver has given?Originally posted by www:tan gu gu -
i won't suggest to them to break up... coz i believe ppl should work things out... anyway i dun like to see breakups...Originally posted by realitybites:Sorry to hear that... but I guess no one else can help this person except him/herself ... Hope that he/she will snap out of it soon and move on ...
but maybe there'll be a point where i just tell the person giving to wake up and find someone else -
Please dun get me wrongOriginally posted by kopiosatu:i won't suggest to them to break up... coz i believe ppl should work things out... anyway i dun like to see breakups...
but maybe there'll be a point where i just tell the person giving to wake up and find someone else I m not suggesting a breakup....
Paiseh.. missed out an important bit...
Would suggest that the giver communicate with the taker ..... and if all else fails... then I guess the giver's gotta move on... -
in most case, yes. i dont like the idea of spoiling someone nor do i like the idea of shortchanging others.Originally posted by kopiosatu:so you're saying that the giver should stop hoping the taker will change no matter how much the giver has given?
to relate my comment to how you started off, just look at how some girls test their bfs' love by judging how giving-ly they are. -
the thing is the taker is a stubborn piece of sh!tOriginally posted by realitybites:Please dun get me wrong I m not suggesting a breakup....
Paiseh.. missed out an important bit...
Would suggest that the giver communicate with the taker ..... and if all else fails... then I guess the giver's gotta move on...
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realitybites... that used to be my old nick
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Originally posted by www:
yeah... some keep saying their bf so good, buy for them this and that... but seriously, how is that guy going to maintain that for years to come IF they get married?
in most case, yes. i dont like the idea of spoiling someone nor do i like the idea of shortchanging others.
to relate my comment to how you started off, just look at how some girls [b]test their bfs' love by judging how giving-ly they are.[/b]
my way of thinking is, during courtship the guy shouldn't put on a false show, and make the girl think he is going to do it all the time.
he should just be himself and if the girl can't accept the fact that he doesn't do what she expects, that i think is that the girl has high expectations and is too materialistic...
anyway, back to topic...
the taker is a bloody stubborn piece of sh!t... what should the giver do? -
Aiyo...Originally posted by kopiosatu:the thing is the taker is a stubborn piece of sh!t
Come to think of it ...there's really nuthing much anyone else can do except to hope for the best for this giver....esp If the giver's not bothered by the fact that he/she is taken for granted.... -
well... i'm just observing...Originally posted by realitybites:Aiyo...
Come to think of it ...there's really nuthing much anyone else can do except to hope for the best for this giver....esp If the giver's not bothered by the fact that he/she is taken for granted....
the taker is beginning to get on my nerves.
selfish bastard...
don't understand why people can be so selfish and self centred...
the person who loves them most is giving their all and they just take it for granted. -
ok, let's come clean. what did your boyfriend do this time round?Originally posted by kopiosatu:yeah... some keep saying their bf so good, buy for them this and that... but seriously, how is that guy going to maintain that for years to come IF they get married?
my way of thinking is, during courtship the guy shouldn't put on a false show, and make the girl think he is going to do it all the time.
he should just be himself and if the girl can't accept the fact that he doesn't do what she expects, that i think is that the girl has high expectations and is too materialistic...
anyway, back to topic...
the taker is a bloody stubborn piece of sh!t... what should the giver do?
to answer your question, what kinda relationship are u talking about here? -
siao liao lah, u found out!.. its YOU!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!Originally posted by www:ok, let's come clean. what did your boyfriend do this time round?
to answer your question, what kinda relationship are u talking about here?
ok nevermind
girl = giver, guy = taker -
aiyo.. thats simple.Originally posted by kopiosatu:siao liao lah, u found out!.. its YOU!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!
ok nevermind
girl = giver, guy = taker
just refuse sex. how hard can that be?
i mean when a guy wants sex so badly, he will go to the end of the world for it. thats when he starts giving. -
Sad to say... I was once a giver... until recently it juz daunt on me that I've been such a fool and that I've have had enough...Originally posted by kopiosatu:well... i'm just observing...
the taker is beginning to get on my nerves.
selfish bastard...
don't understand why people can be so selfish and self centred...
the person who loves them most is giving their all and they just take it for granted.
I've turned a deaf ear to all the kind advices that my friends have offered...maybe some ppl juz have to learn it the hard way like I do...
Whatever the outcome, I m sure ur friend will be contented to know that he/she has got a friend like you
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Originally posted by www:
hahahahahaha~!!! there's no sex involved!!!
aiyo.. thats simple.
just refuse sex. how hard can that be?
i mean when a guy wants sex so badly, he will go to the end of the world for it. thats when he starts [b]giving. [/b]
somemore the guy goes and msg other girls... yada yada yada...
but the girl still wants to be with the guy.
the thing is the guy treats the girl not bad before they were together...
that's y i feel guys should just show the girl what he can offer for a long time, not for just that short while -
i just don't like ppl to break up... u try so hard to get together, and let stupid things like this tear u apart... wtf man.Originally posted by realitybites:Sad to say... I was once a giver... until recently it juz daunt on me that I've been such a fool and that I've have had enough...
I've turned a deaf ear to all the kind advices that my friends have offered...maybe some ppl juz have to learn it the hard way like I do...
Whatever the outcome, I m sure ur friend will be contented to know that he/she has got a friend like you -
?????Originally posted by kopiosatu:i just don't like ppl to break up... u try so hard to get together, and let stupid things like this tear u apart... wtf man.