ways to show someone u love how much u care and love her/him
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heheh tiam la u blardy alien
even unconsciously i dont keep points. After doing or giving anything to my love one, i'd be happy and contented to know i've shown my appreciation and love to her. I won't give another thought about "ohhh this is the 10th pressie i gave her this week. I bet she's sooo in love with me"
and ppl who keeps on giving and doesn't get anything in return is not because of the "sub-conscious" points! Its because their partner doesn't appreciate what he/she has been doing for him/her and is not commited to the relationship!
10 TOLERABLE years??
you sei alien ar... say good things about u but u like that...
tranquility, actually alienera is a donkey who has only annoying qualities 
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Stop promotin each other lar.... i always tink most gals ve a better taste than most guys...Originally posted by alienara:LOL, maybe you should get to know ordinary guy, i won't say that he's pretty looking nor bad looking either. should be quite pleasant looking... *looks around*
hey, i'm a guy alright.....
how would i know if he looks handsome or not? girls have very...very.....ummm.....different tastes as far as I've observed -
*pokes at his head*
*looks at the expanse of how far his heart goes*
*points at tranquility with one hand and the unseen end of his heart with the other*
big enough for ye?? xp
yes actually allan pease and the author of the book men are from mars do share some similar theories. however, through watching my family alone I have seen that these theories are proven true. So I'm quite sure that these theories would apply to a majority of the humankind in this world. -
hmm... i donno whether that is a compliment or not.. but usually when this donkey talks about me always bad wanOriginally posted by alienara:LOL, maybe you should get to know ordinary guy, i won't say that he's pretty looking nor bad looking either. should be quite pleasant looking... *looks around*
hey, i'm a guy alright.....
how would i know if he looks handsome or not? girls have very...very.....ummm.....different tastes as far as I've observed
and thank goodness i'm not pretty
tranquility - alienara is... alien looking...
heheh j/k j/k, ok lor -
Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:
Haha... an eng spoken donkey ... tats sumtin new.... me goin 2 call d SPCA nw...
10 TOLERABLE years??
[b]you sei alien ar... say good things about u but u like that...
tranquility, actually alienera is a donkey who has only annoying qualities
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U v.dramatic ler...Originally posted by alienara:*pokes at his head*
*looks at the expanse of how far his heart goes*
*points at tranquility with one hand and the unseen end of his heart with the other*
big enough for ye?? xp
yes actually allan pease and the author of the book men are from mars do share some similar theories. however, through watching my family alone I have seen that these theories are proven true. So I'm quite sure that these theories would apply to a majority of the humankind in this world.
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SPCA? no use wan laa... they give one look at him straight away place him under the rejected sectionOriginally posted by TrAnQuILiTy:Haha... an eng spoken donkey ... tats sumtin new.... me goin 2 call d SPCA nw...
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LOL!!!!Originally posted by TrAnQuILiTy:Stop promotin each other lar.... i always tink most gals ve a better taste than most guys...
well it depends. I've seen some rather eye catchings gals that are with...ummm....not so good looking guys and sometimes I wonder...
Anyway, tranquility you seem to be someone interesting. If you're bored and have nothing better to do, do send me an email at
[email protected]
yeah, i'm quite sure that i look better than ordinary guy
yes, i've a healthy view of myself. -
Malnutrition donkeyOriginally posted by OrdinaryGuy:SPCA? no use wan laa... they give one look at him straight away place him under the rejected section -
Tats y "Luv is blind".......Originally posted by alienara:LOL!!!!
well it depends. I've seen some rather eye catchings gals that are with...ummm....not so good looking guys and sometimes I wonder...
yeah, i'm quite sure that i look better than ordinary guy
yes, i've a healthy view of myself.
Poor ordinary guy, he is far from extra ordinary.... -
Become what women "want"
Here's a nice exercise in observing feminine nature. Suddenly become a "nice guy." Be the sensitive, caring man women are always longing for. But this time, overdo it. Always tell her you love her, say, 10 times a day. Pick her up at work and stay glued to her. Become a pushover and always do as she says, speaking to her in a cute baby voice.
If you can do it, cry. Share your "feelings" with her, making up exaggerated yet believable sentiments. Call her every 20 minutes. In essence, stifle her space with your mushy, intolerable lack of masculinity. She'll be desperate for a real man in no time.
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ure never sure of anything wan laa...Originally posted by alienara:yeah, i'm quite sure that i look better than ordinary guy
yes, i've a healthy view of myself.
heheh... well i am ordinary in some waysOriginally posted by TrAnQuILiTyTats y "Luv is blind".......
Poor ordinary guy, he is far from extra ordinary....
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thats too much already ler...Originally posted by Bum Ble Bee:Become what women "want"
Here's a nice exercise in observing feminine nature. Suddenly become a "nice guy." Be the sensitive, caring man women are always longing for. But this time, overdo it. Always tell her you love her, say, 10 times a day. Pick her up at work and stay glued to her. Become a pushover and always do as she says, speaking to her in a cute baby voice.
If you can do it, cry. Share your "feelings" with her, making up exaggerated yet believable sentiments. Call her every 20 minutes. In essence, stifle her space with your mushy, intolerable lack of masculinity. She'll be desperate for a real man in no time.
heheheh!!!
but being in love can really change u for the better or for the worst. -
1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
Shouldn't be a problem
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
Erm... still okay...
3) Always ask of her well-being
Hmmmm... yeah ok
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
I think i rather save it for birthdays... i don't have that much money
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
Well the person you love will look good everytime, no matter how ugly she is to others
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
This... i confirm cannot fufill
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original.
Remembering is one thing...
Planning... hmmmmmmm too much for someone like me
8 ) Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
I have very bad fashion sense...
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
Wah! this one i also confirm cannot do... i dunno how to write poem.
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
Everything my fault, hahaha!
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point.
I think i'd be first to apologise... dunno y... have a feeling
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
I'll be playing football
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
I'm a lousy counsellor...
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
Applies to male students right??? I'm working, no time for anything... except for football
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
Easy, ok no problem
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys
)
Hmmmmmmm... actually you don't love a person for SEX right? -
hehe thats good la kopiosatu
the gifts and presents thing doesn't have to be bought la
u could make her a gift or do something nice for her
the treating her as a princess... every little things count wor =/
u could open the door for her, or carry her when there is a puddle in front of her or something -
OopsOriginally posted by OrdinaryGuy:lol @ silvergal & yixun
if you really love someone, all these are very easy to fullfill leh =/
tranquility - still got out there wan la, but nowadays ladies always look for a bf who is popular or good looking
outward appearences is not everything
lejabron, u pressure ure gf for sex??? wahhh
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*coughs*Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:thats too much already ler...
but being in love can really change u for the better or for the worst.
Yes...usually for the better...
unlike *cough* someone *cough**cough* i know....
sorry...coming down with a real bad cough.... -
errhmmm....
heheh... well i am ordinary in some ways
some ways??
LOL, soz ordinary...
but THIS donkey knows how to hit back..
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lol @ lejabron
alienera - go buaya somewhere else la. I change for the better and i am UNIQUE in some ways -
LOL
ok larh...won't mock u anymore...
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that's i even have a princess to carry, hahahaha!Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:hehe thats good la kopiosatu
the gifts and presents thing doesn't have to be bought la
u could make her a gift or do something nice for her
the treating her as a princess... every little things count wor =/
u could open the door for her, or carry her when there is a puddle in front of her or something
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OMG!!Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
3) Always ask of her well-being
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original. Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point/
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys )
These are some of my ways, but if you wanna add in and share other ways pls do so. I hope this helps some of you shy ppl out there
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lol @ boyishboy
up to you lor
actually if u're really in love, no need to see this also i'm sure u do some of the things without being asked
treat every gf you have as if they are you're first gf
thats how it is for me
though i only had 1 gf so far hehe -
i've got zero... IF i ever get one, i hope she'll be the lastOriginally posted by OrdinaryGuy:lol @ boyishboy
up to you lor
actually if u're really in love, no need to see this also i'm sure u do some of the things without being asked
treat every gf you have as if they are you're first gf
thats how it is for me
though i only had 1 gf so far hehe -
ehhh...then how about ure other thread about "have u ever felt like giving up"Originally posted by kopiosatu:i've got zero... IF i ever get one, i hope she'll be the last
sounds like u had a gf