If a gal whom U knew not long but she is willing to share...

• bus

  22 Sep 03, 19:52

  her personal things like...her past experience(in details) with her Ex..... does that mean anything?
  
  Is she hinting to the guy she is seeing(both are still single and can chat well)? One thing I am very sure is she is comfortable with the guy and is willing to know him more?
  
  Any comments from the experts?
• KrU

  22 Sep 03, 19:55

  Maybe she is interested to know the guy more... but always start as friends 1st...
• chunyong

  22 Sep 03, 20:11

  some gals like to purposely say such thing, once u get the wrong idea and start to chase, they then reject u....got people chase then they can show off to their friends.....got such people one....take precaution
• MooKu

  22 Sep 03, 20:14

  Originally posted by bus:

  her personal things like...her past experience(in details) with her Ex..... does that mean anything?
  
  Is she hinting to the guy she is seeing(both are still single and can chat well)? One thing I am very sure is she is comfortable with the guy and is willing to know him more?
  
  Any comments from the experts?

  might not necessarily be a hint...
  
  sometimes if the two parties click very well... one of them might just start off pouring out such troubles to the other, those things that they won't just confide in to anyone.
  
  it's like, some problems you have, you'd rather not mention it. but the moment a chance comes that you feel like talking about it, you'd choose to cos it kind of helps to make you feel better.
  
  erm.
• Forever84

  22 Sep 03, 20:18

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  some gals like to purposely say such thing, once u get the wrong idea and start to chase, they then reject u....got people chase then they can show off to their friends.....got such people one....take precaution

  realli?
  got tis kind of ppl meh
  tats so bad
• sh|nY_BoY

  22 Sep 03, 22:45

  love hurts...
  
  
• yamanaka

  22 Sep 03, 22:57

  Originally posted by bus:

  her personal things like...her past experience(in details) with her Ex..... does that mean anything?
  
  Is she hinting to the guy she is seeing(both are still single and can chat well)? One thing I am very sure is she is comfortable with the guy and is willing to know him more?
  
  Any comments from the experts?

  If you'd only known her for a short time and sh'e eager to share her most intimate and private things with you, it could only mean she's trying to let you know,"Boy, you're kind of moving too slowly for my liking; I like you a lot, so step on it and let's get moving!"
  
  In short, you're in luck! Congratulations!
• doghouse837

  22 Sep 03, 22:58

  Originally posted by bus:

  her personal things like...her past experience(in details) with her Ex..... does that mean anything?
  
  Is she hinting to the guy she is seeing(both are still single and can chat well)? One thing I am very sure is she is comfortable with the guy and is willing to know him more?
  
  Any comments from the experts?

  haha
  this type of gers i had a few
  sometimes u will feel damn tired but no choice but to listen
  i think what they need most is someone to listen to them
  listen to their unhappy past. hoping the someone will feel the same with her
  me now headache liao loh
  each night must stay up till around 2 something then can sleep
  even next morning got early lesson
  
• bus

  22 Sep 03, 23:06

  True or not? This happens on my friend but not me Both of them are in their late 20s and maybe they feel like looking for someone who are serious with one another in order to settle down?
  
  Well, I have met the gal, look those decent types who is rather suitable for my friend who is a bit shy type.
  
  I told my friend to show concerns more for her if she is willing to tell him more about her past.
  
  Any more comments?
• X-men

  22 Sep 03, 23:07

  It's an honour to have gals sharing their intimate details with you.
  
  For your case, yah... maybe the gal it dropping hints... or want yr friend as jie mei
• bus

  22 Sep 03, 23:22

  I told my friend to grab the opportunity if can. no harm even if things don't turn out as it is. I believe gals always need time to judge the guy before accepting him.
  
  They had been going out for a couple of time liao. hope things turn out good for the 2. Both are not getting young and since both can click, why not?
• bus

  23 Sep 03, 07:38

  My friend observed this strange behavious recently
  
  If the gal SMS him and he take sometime to respond her, she will responses her SMS very fast(in less than 10s after the SMs is sent)
  
  If my friend SMS her (some simple greeting etc, nothing urgent), she will not respond unless my friend SMS her twice and she will respond, from there, she will chat with him.
  
  I believe the gal senses my friend is serious in her and so "Play hard to get"?
  
  My friend told me that during the last outing, the gal hinted that there are chances to meet up again (they will be going for North Indian food as the gal asked my friend whether he can take spicy food)
  
  So how? what is my friend's chance to seeing her in future?
• chunyong

  23 Sep 03, 16:54

  Originally posted by bus:

  My friend observed this strange behavious recently
  
  If the gal SMS him and he take sometime to respond her, she will responses her SMS very fast(in less than 10s after the SMs is sent)
  
  If my friend SMS her (some simple greeting etc, nothing urgent), she will not respond unless my friend SMS her twice and she will respond, from there, she will chat with him.
  
  I believe the gal senses my friend is serious in her and so "Play hard to get"?
  
  My friend told me that during the last outing, the gal hinted that there are chances to meet up again (they will be going for North Indian food as the gal asked my friend whether he can take spicy food)
  
  So how? what is my friend's chance to seeing her in future?

  abt the SMS part, its true lor, experience b4....
• yamanaka

  23 Sep 03, 21:43

  Responding after only two SMSes surely does not a play-hard-to-get girl make, does it? Sounds like easy meat to me, if you ask me.
  
  Go for it, we're sure you can do it.
• boy in blues

  23 Sep 03, 21:52

  Originally posted by bus:

  her personal things like...her past experience(in details) with her Ex..... does that mean anything?
  
  Is she hinting to the guy she is seeing(both are still single and can chat well)? One thing I am very sure is she is comfortable with the guy and is willing to know him more?
  
  Any comments from the experts?

  she trust you as a friend is all i can tell so far.
• bus

  25 Sep 03, 23:14

  Any comments from the gals? This issue is important as my friend is eager to know what should he do next as he does not want to miss the chance.
• bus

  30 Sep 03, 00:19

  
  
  Hi, All. This is the latest updates from my friend.
  
  He SMS to the gal saying he got good feeling about her etc..... and call her but she did not answer the call last week. Later that night, the gal SMS him asking him" Did u call me just now? I am busy with my work"!!!
  
  The question is " How can she does not know it when her HP has a caller ID function? It seems she did it purposely(I mean SMS to my friend after my friend did comment that he had good opinion/feeling about her). Any explanation to this?
  
  The 2 still keep in contact. The gal did mention that her best friend(also single) like bowling (my friend also like) and she would introduce her friend to him!!! When my friend mention OK, the gal KEEP QUIET!!!
  
  When my friend mentioned that someone introduced another gal to him, this gal immediately ask:
  
  1. Did U ask her out before?
  2. Did the 2 still keep in contact?
  
  When my friend mentioned: " U seem to be very concern about me and the gal"... She quickly defended herself
  
  My friend seeks help from me and I also a bit blur about the situation now but I personally have a few questions
  
  1. From what I describe above, CAN I SAY THE GAL IS ACTUALLY TESTING THE SINCERITY OF MY FRIEND AFTER MY FRIEND CONFESS HIS FEELING TO HER?
  
  2. After my friend confessed to her, she still in contact with my friend, Can I say my friend "Still stand a chance"?
  
  3. What is the position of my friend in this gal's heart?
  
  All are welcome to express your view. Hope to hear from U guys/gals out there so that I can advice my friend. Thanks U in advance.
  
  
• chunyong

  30 Sep 03, 07:17

  Originally posted by bus:

  Any comments from the gals? This issue is important as my friend is eager to know what should he do next as he does not want to miss the chance.

  call back say i love u, then bed her, get her tummy big and marry her. can be found in 'how to marry a gal in 10 days'
• bus

  30 Sep 03, 19:19

  Hi, all. It would be better if someone can provide more constructive advices/suggestions to this tricky situation that my friend is caught in now.
  
  It seems to me that the gal is NOT SURE about my friend and my friend is puzzled over those actions/questions that were being posed by the gal.
  
  Hope to hear from all of U again. Thanks
• oinkoink_pinko

  30 Sep 03, 22:30

  
  1.ya.. the gal is testing ur frenz see if ur frenz is realli like her a not..
  2.i think ur frenz still stand a chance...
  i think e gal got a bit like ur frenz..
  3.i think is still best frenz between them.. but can get closing after some time..
  but not so fast.. take it naturally...
• jeramy

  1 Oct 03, 10:13

  wa lao need to think and analyse so much one meh.. tiring la.. juz follow your heart man, if you think you want to advance the relationship, then juz go ahead man. JUST DO IT!!
  
• bus

  1 Oct 03, 21:28

  Well, it is best to seek opinions from outsider so as to have a better view about the situation.
  
  Hope the 2 can be together eventually. Yes, I agree that it is best to know each other better before any commitment.
• KrU

  1 Oct 03, 21:31

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  call back say i love u, then bed her, get her tummy big and marry her. can be found in 'how to marry a gal in 10 days'

  
• tSuYOshi

  1 Oct 03, 22:18

  hmmm mayb u should ask ur fren to try go after her n see the results
  
  "U nv noe until u tried, even if failed, at least u noe u tried "
• SuRfBoY

  2 Oct 03, 01:55

  Originally posted by yamanaka:

  If you'd only known her for a short time and sh'e eager to share her most intimate and private things with you, it could only mean she's trying to let you know,"Boy, you're kind of moving too slowly for my liking; I like you a lot, so step on it and let's get moving!"
  
  In short, you're in luck! Congratulations!