How long does it take for a gal to go steady/accept a guy?
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Originally posted by andybay:
Chunyong,
I am seeing you later in the morning at uncle Seng's farm, my girlfriend is 23 and I am 32, 9 years different. After meeting us please tell us what you think? Love or money?
She owns a car, I don't but she drive me to work and pick me home everyday. weekends she drive me around anywhere I wanted.
I knew her for 4 days and we go "Steady". Though there are quarrel on and off but relationship still strong.
Bus,
Don't be harsh, not everybody is lucky to strike the right one for the first time, what I mean is fast doesn't mean you sure get the right one. Take things easy, if she is yours why bother steady or not?
Tips, if the girls know that you wanted her to be your steady she will normally play hard to get cause they know you won't run away, if you can take thing easy infront of her, you chance will be higher.
Doesn't matter how your looks, its how "cool" and how confidence you are,be yourself. Good luck!!
Nice to see your GF at Uncle Seng's farm. she is very beautiful and cute. Well, I believe for the 2 to be together, the following are essential
1. Communication between the 2 (1st PRIORITY of all)
2. Shared common interests (not necessary all but some will do)
3. Trust between the 2
I can only think of all these.
As U mentioned, gals tend to play hard to get when she senses the guy is interested in her, [b]it is a test to see how SINCERE/SERIOUS the guy is with the gal.
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ok, after meeting Andy Bay and his GF at Uncle Seng's Fishfarm today, below is my conclusion.
Since she is the rich one, then you, Andy Bay, S71XXXXX-X, is eating 'soft' rice ! Kidding.....eh, teach me how to court girls in 4 days leh....you 2 have common interest in bettas.
betta qing yuan... -
22 need to be gan chiong??? me 26 how??? Must move at speed of light??? I dont think so lor... more haste less speed... just take things slowly lor...Originally posted by chunyong:i 22 liao leh, must gan chiong anot ? -
ha, on same boat eh...
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that depends you are firlting or serious.Originally posted by chunyong:ok, after meeting Andy Bay and his GF at Uncle Seng's Fishfarm today, below is my conclusion.
Since she is the rich one, then you, Andy Bay, S71XXXXX-X, is eating 'soft' rice ! Kidding.....eh, teach me how to court girls in 4 days leh....you 2 have common interest in bettas. betta qing yuan...
Firlting : just agree with whatever the girls are thinking, share same interest do whatever she likes and most important always think ahead of her and supprise her with things that she aspect you to do without saying out.
note : when girls say yes = yes, when girls say no = yes, try harder.
Serious : you won't be so lucky to find out a girl that suite you within 3-4 days (there is but risky), so if you are serious watch carefully, list down the good points and bad points about her each time, if in the whole year, all good points can cover the bad points and you can accept her without changing her bad points, she is the right one.
Agree?
My gf don't really crazy over betta, thats why she sit there never move around.
she can't sit still, likes to go around during weekends.
as for soft rice, well I hope I can but I earn more than her. Just that we don't have money problem of who should pay. -
depends la............
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relax la......Originally posted by Imperfect:22 need to be gan chiong??? me 26 how??? Must move at speed of light??? I dont think so lor... more haste less speed... just take things slowly lor...
wat come will come 1......