Advice pls... chat with a gal

• Sharpe

  4 Sep 03, 21:57

  hi 2 all.... some time pretty hard to get gal into a chat...
  I seldom chat with female friends coz hardly had any lady friend....
  
  most of the time chat with guys so pretty bored
  
  Hey guys out there.... how u manage to have a friendly chat with gals i really dun know hehe..
  
  
• freestyle

  4 Sep 03, 23:53

  chat abt things that intrest them or listen to their problems...
  normally gers have alot of problems and they want to share it with someone
• the Bear

  5 Sep 03, 00:12

  talk about everything and anything.. just listen... most people don't listen enough
  
  ask with sincere interest, but never pry.. know the limits.. respect them..
  
  share.. never talk at anyone...
  
  again, can't emphasize this enough... listen, understand and be sincere
• {WuMing}78

  5 Sep 03, 00:26

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  talk about everything and anything.. just listen... most people don't listen enough
  
  ask with sincere interest, but never pry.. know the limits.. respect them..
  
  share.. never talk at anyone...
  
  again, can't emphasize this enough... listen, understand and be sincere

  dude, I am also taking a lesson on how to chat nice with gals. Wana tag along ?
• the Bear

  5 Sep 03, 00:29

  lessons?
  sheesh!
  just be sincere
  
  i wish i can talk to one particular woman who owns the shattered pieces of my heart...
  
  i miss her...
  
  

  Originally posted by {WuMing}78:

  dude, I am also taking a lesson on how to chat nice with gals. Wana tag along ?

• AzRaeL

  5 Sep 03, 09:12

  i dont even like chatting on the phone.
  only person i ever talk to on the phone is my GF.
• boy in blues

  6 Sep 03, 05:02

  Originally posted by {WuMing}78:

  dude, I am also taking a lesson on how to chat nice with gals. Wana tag along ?

  i want..i want..can i tag along?
• sh|nY_BoY

  6 Sep 03, 07:25

  
• kopiosatu

  6 Sep 03, 07:32

  Hey sounds like me! hahahahahaha!
• M©+square

  6 Sep 03, 08:50

  If you really want to learn how.
  Make lots of effort to listen to what they say.
  Lookout for girls of different nature and get used to their language.
  
  Remember the key is to LISTEN
  
  You'll learn alot...
• winning 11

  6 Sep 03, 19:13

  Girls like to talk...so you just listen to what she talk..vice versa....then a conversation has appear..see so easi... lol
• s|nNeD

  7 Sep 03, 00:18

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  lessons?
  sheesh!
  just be sincere
  
  i wish i can talk to one particular woman who owns the shattered pieces of my heart...
  
  i miss her...
  
  

  dun be sad bear, i'm sure you will pick up the pieces of your shattered heart soon enuff...
  
• the Bear

  7 Sep 03, 00:20

  there are times i'm sad, but i'm okay... i love her.. and this is something i do willingly.. and i can't help but love her
  
  

  Originally posted by s|nNeD:

  dun be sad bear, i'm sure you will pick up the pieces of your shattered heart soon enuff...
  

• Sharpe

  7 Sep 03, 17:15

  Originally posted by freestyle:

  chat abt things that intrest them or listen to their problems...
  normally gers have alot of problems and they want to share it with someone

  I see.... how to approach things or create an unstressfull atmosphere which can exactly make both parties feel open and they would happily chat about and would not keep a distance about.....
  
  I would often get replies with yes or no.... that is hard to listen to their problem, or find things that interests them...