uhh... one colleague has a bad attitude, and i swear is about 150 to 170 kg (serious!) is married...
i've never seen her but the office people say that she's pretty, intelligent and nice... and that he's good and nice to her...
everyone has someone.. just gotta look out for her

if you sit on your hands lamenting what you cannot change, you will never find her

p.s.
if it was easy, would you value her as much?