More graduates(gals) are willing to marry lower educated guy
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...contradicitng from previous 1....any links? 
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so long as they don mind each other...why not?
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this is reported in the news. Well, maybe this is a good signs?
But But But..the divorce rate had hit the ceiling
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education is not a problem if u choose not to see it as one........
u are marrying the person, not the paper -
yar...adding to this...paper is juz leveling up the standards of living.....Originally posted by FireIce:education is not a problem if u choose not to see it as one........
u are marrying the person, not the paper -
ok... does this couple match ?
Totally chiobu 10/10 (got figure + chio + personality ) with U
Totally yandao 10/10 ( no need to comment ) w/t U but have passed the SOF( special operation force ) test and is eligible to join the SOF and have participate in some amatuer anti-terrorist operations ..
(From my point of view + experiance not all SOF personels have an U degree.. )
What do you guys think ? compatible ? Ratings out of 10.. -
Originally posted by bus:
So how now? Any comments on this issue? Will it workout?
if u were a graduate(gal)..would u mind a guy like Mr Creative Technology? -
Eh... All this talk abt graduates shld marry people of their calibre is just a scheme to preserve the gene pool.
I say, people shld not be constrained by social norms and be restricted in their choice of lifelong partners. -
Ok i was thinkin on the lines of
Uni Grad - Old man -no education. -
this "gene pool" thing is scary...
i've seen semi-sentient regurgitators who do not even understand their text come out of universities with great results.. and i've seen brilliant people who can't get a break with anything because they didn't do well in the rigid education system...
but back to the topic, isn't marriage about love?
and in love, what does qualifications gotta do with anything?
society has screwed up and made difficult the lives of so many... like some people i know about.. she's a exec and he sells fish in the market... lots of pressure from lots of people who have no right to say anything... to me, they have every right to hold their heads up! both are making honest livings and love each other, what right does society and evil bastards around them to say they cannot see or love each other?Originally posted by xavier1979:Eh... All this talk abt graduates shld marry people of their calibre is just a scheme to preserve the gene pool.
I say, people shld not be constrained by social norms and be restricted in their choice of lifelong partners. -
Originally posted by HuaZheLei:ok... does this couple match ?
Totally chiobu 10/10 (got figure + chio + personality ) with U
Totally yandao 10/10 ( no need to comment ) w/t U but have passed the SOF( special operation force ) test and is eligible to join the SOF and have participate in some amatuer anti-terrorist operations ..
(From my point of view + experiance not all SOF personels have an U degree.. )
What do you guys think ? compatible ? Ratings out of 10.. tired.. -
Hi, I love every sentence that U write BUT it is our society that resulting in all these. Our society basically don't give U a 2nd chance at all. Imagine a guy who is not educated and a gal who is a graduate.Originally posted by the Bear:this "gene pool" thing is scary...
i've seen semi-sentient regurgitators who do not even understand their text come out of universities with great results.. and i've seen brilliant people who can't get a break with anything because they didn't do well in the rigid education system...
but back to the topic, isn't marriage about love?
and in love, what does qualifications gotta do with anything?
society has screwed up and made difficult the lives of so many... like some people i know about.. she's a exec and he sells fish in the market... lots of pressure from lots of people who have no right to say anything... to me, they have every right to hold their heads up! both are making honest livings and love each other, what right does society and evil bastards around them to say they cannot see or love each other?
For the guy: people around him will say:Wow, the gal is a graduate and can U support her? This put the guy in a very pressurised situation
For the gal: people around her and even her parents will say: That guy got no future, don't waste your time.
In this end, this relationship will fail/never take place at ll due to all these pressures from the society etc.
How realistic/"Xian Shi" this society had become. This is also part of the reasons why more and more people are staying single. a lot of things can be achieved in th 1st place but due to all these pressure, people choose the easy way out...stay single. -
*Claps*Originally posted by the Bear:this "gene pool" thing is scary...
i've seen semi-sentient regurgitators who do not even understand their text come out of universities with great results.. and i've seen brilliant people who can't get a break with anything because they didn't do well in the rigid education system...
but back to the topic, isn't marriage about love?
and in love, what does qualifications gotta do with anything?
society has screwed up and made difficult the lives of so many... like some people i know about.. she's a exec and he sells fish in the market... lots of pressure from lots of people who have no right to say anything... to me, they have every right to hold their heads up! both are making honest livings and love each other, what right does society and evil bastards around them to say they cannot see or love each other?
WOohOooooooOooO!
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You lead your own love life - everyone has different definition. Its ok for an uneducated guy to marry a female graduate, PROVIDED every other factors is suitable (character compatability, feelings, chemistry, communication, etc) and one very important point -Originally posted by bus:Hi, I love every sentence that U write BUT it is our society that resulting in all these. Our society basically don't give U a 2nd chance at all. Imagine a guy who is not educated and a gal who is a graduate.
For the guy: people around him will say:Wow, the gal is a graduate and can U support her? This put the guy in a very pressurised situation
For the gal: people around her and even her parents will say: That guy got no future, don't waste your time.
In this end, this relationship will fail/never take place at ll due to all these pressures from the society etc.
How realistic/"Xian Shi" this society had become. This is also part of the reasons why more and more people are staying single. a lot of things can be achieved in th 1st place but due to all these pressure, people choose the easy way out...stay single.
The both of them has to look at the same direction. People can say what they want - either one get affected, this relationship will be chaotic.
What the society has become, has little to do with your own love definition. You must have to will to improve (that's for sure), but forget about adapting to whichever current trend - its a vicious cycle.
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y not? as long both party r v in luv n provided e guy is willing 2 work hard shld nt be a probOriginally posted by bus:
So how now? Any comments on this issue? Will it workout?
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dat a sad tin... tot marriage is suppose 2 be a lifelong commitment! but then still gt many ppl tk it v lightly juz like a game..Originally posted by bus:this is reported in the news. Well, maybe this is a good signs?
But But But..the divorce rate had hit the ceiling
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cos these days pple tolerance level is getting lower n lower...Originally posted by Si|verGer:dat a sad tin... tot marriage is suppose 2 be a lifelong commitment! but then still gt many ppl tk it v lightly juz like a game.. -
hmm, i think they said 75 female grad doing tat..but hey, only how many %??.....Originally posted by bus:
So how now? Any comments on this issue? Will it workout? -
Originally posted by xavier1979:Eh... All this talk abt graduates shld marry people of their calibre is just a scheme to preserve the gene pool.
I say, people shld not be constrained by social norms and be restricted in their choice of lifelong partners. I think all this just depend on fate.
WHo knows that the next Einstein is born from a non-grad. -
Well...
many graduates are not at all smart, or clever or knowlegeable wat...
human beings shouldn't be judged on our education level. -
true... being a grad doesn't make u a better human beingOriginally posted by ^MaRcUs^:Well...
many graduates are not at all smart, or clever or knowlegeable wat...
human beings shouldn't be judged on our education level. -
yaya haizOriginally posted by Inzaghi:cos these days pple tolerance level is getting lower n lower... -
well...Originally posted by Si|verGer:yaya haiz
i feel that esp so in singapore leh...
everyone seems to be so hot headed, hot tempered...
Is singapore that fast pace?
sometime really kept asking myself -
it is... years pass by so fast... look, its the weekend already~ and i just played football last week... seemed like yesterdayOriginally posted by ^MaRcUs^:well...
i feel that esp so in singapore leh...
everyone seems to be so hot headed, hot tempered...
Is singapore that fast pace?
sometime really kept asking myself