most girls are very defensive of themselves

• Cerebral_Assassin

  10 Jul 03, 14:08

  dun u think so?
  
  if not how come they prefer to remain quiet to themselves when talking abt personal issues and also
  they'll only start to open themselves up to u after u start to do it first
  just feel it kindda weird y many r like that
  izzit because they r overdefensive?
• the Bear

  10 Jul 03, 14:12

  what do you expect with weirdos out there?
  
  and in here?
• www

  10 Jul 03, 14:49

  in a way, yes.
  
  in fact, everyone (including guys) have their own way of defending themselves when it comes to talking about themselves.
  
  even when u are talking to a chatterbox, they wont simply pour out everything unless u can make them feel comfortable in the first place.
• zeth_april

  10 Jul 03, 14:49

  issit? ..
  dun think so
• convix

  10 Jul 03, 16:47

  they dun wan ppl to think tt they are beri open and loose if they start the conversation....
• Xiao Long Nu

  10 Jul 03, 16:54

  
• mapp|ezz

  10 Jul 03, 16:57

  erm...image?
  
  mabbe cuz they duno the other party too well..thus more reserved..
• keisha

  10 Jul 03, 17:43

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  what do you expect with weirdos out there?
  
  and in here?

  haha, tats exactly my reason for being reserved i called it, not defensive..
• Forever84

  10 Jul 03, 22:46

  I don't really talk alot to people i don't know because well why should i
  i agree how can you tell all your personal issue to people
• jasmine17

  10 Jul 03, 23:03

  Of cos
• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  11 Jul 03, 10:57

  Hmm...
  No lahx...
  Wat I think is tat the person dunno U long enuff lorx...
  Sometimes pple If U interact with a person, for example, 5 times although U noe him/her for 5 years, he/she still wun open up...
  Eh...
  Wat i mean is eh...
  Try this...
  Come out with her often...
  Then tok to her more...
  As time goes by, she'll open up...
• choco B

  11 Jul 03, 11:01

  It's abit weird to pour out personal problems to total strangers.
• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  11 Jul 03, 11:29

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It's abit weird to pour out personal problems to total strangers.

  Agreed...
  Wat I meant was she'll open up when U noe her long enuff...
  And i meant tat U still contact her and not noe her for 5 years and tok to her only twice~
  lolx~
• the Bear

  11 Jul 03, 11:32

  hi choco
  
  i think sometimes it's better.. as they can give the view of a disinterested party and thus, a really objective view...
  
  

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It's abit weird to pour out personal problems to total strangers.

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  11 Jul 03, 11:33

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  hi choco
  
  i think sometimes it's better.. as they can give the view of a disinterested party and thus, a really objective view...
  
  

  The problem is U still kinda feel weird...
  Esp someone U noe for a veri short while...
  Not some nice nice movie where gers starts confiding in guys the second time they meet...
  lolx~