What do you think of guys who "spoil market"???
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The Survival Of The Fittest...
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Originally posted by Doenitz:Guys who know the gal is attached yet try to spoil market by wooing her
i don't get it..what's that gotta do with market? -
Originally posted by *evanesence*:Never try to be the 3rd party... just imagine how things would be if you had a partner and someone just came to snatch him/her away from you...
As for those who's partners had left for someone else..
look more towards the bright side, maybe you would find someone better? Rmb when a door of happiness closes, another opens, but most of the time u are too busy feeling sorry for yourself to realise that...
i beg to differ..simply because he saw her first will not convince me they should be together instead.
but only for the 2 conditions that #1 he loves her more than i do, and #2 that she will be happier with him than with me.
if i love her more than he does, the devastation of losing her is greater on me than on him..from an objective perspective. -
Originally posted by nefnuy:If she leaves you then she feel that he is better (for her) than you are...
No point having her around and wishing in her heart that she shouldn't have been with you.. Cos not she's attached and stuck to you cannot go out with him right??? Isnt this what I said earlier on?!?!
BTW, im a GIRL...
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Originally posted by *evanesence*:
My bf feels the same as u... As for me, Im not too sure cus he's really faithful to me... Not that im unfaithful..
Anyway, I believe that what's meant to be will be... If he wanna leave, no point in beggin him to stay... as his heart is already with her...
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hahahaOriginally posted by the Bear:if she's with someone else, and you have fallen for her, SUCK IT UP and suffer...
it isn't love when you go and cause her misery.. which will come from breaking the heart of someone she will care for.. even if it isn't love...
if it is love, you will wait even if it is in vain...
then there are bastards who will move in no matter... i recommend these people to take a long walk off a short pier into a sea full of sharks...
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well, u see from a diff perspective from me.. I nv liked being the "bad" gal.. the 3rd party... If he's attached, then he's considered TAKEN & UNAVAILABLE to me...Originally posted by boy in blues: i beg to differ..simply because he saw her first will not convince me they should be together instead.
but only for the 2 conditions that #1 he loves her more than i do, and #2 that she will be happier with him than with me.
if i love her more than he does, the devastation of losing her is greater on me than on him..from an objective perspective.
I cant bear the tot of breaking another gal's heart by taking him away from her.... cus im a girl too and I know how much it hurts... -
You can't control external factors, only yourself. The important thing is to build a relationship that's strong and happy enough, so that either of you won't consider anyone else.
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And why should he do that? His target's boyfriend is a total stranger and inconsequential. He doesn't owe the boyfriend anything.
You cannot trust the men hovering around your girl... but you should have confidence in yourself, your girl and your relationship.Originally posted by Doenitz:.I feel that if someone is interested in an attached person,he/she should consider how his/her romantic interest's partner feels... -
Tests that what it is...
dun need to worry if you trust your ger man and yourself.
den spoil market? ha ... u seriously need to think about the relationship. seems to me like you not committed enough...
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its not guys who do that... even lesbians do that too... they purposely want to be third party to spoil others' relationships...Originally posted by Doenitz:Guys who know the gal is attached yet try to spoil market by wooing her
i have going steady with my girlfriend for quite some years then this ntu lesbian gal came to befriend my girlfriend through some social activities... she knew my girlfriend was attached to me but she still goes ahead wooing my girlfriend... and all the while i thought this ntu lesbian gal was just merely a close friend to my girlfriend... she used my busy times to woo my girlfriend while i was kept away in hectic trainings and overseas training during my national service thus causing my girlfriend to fall for her...
if i had not discovered the matter, i think i would have lost my girlfriend to this ntu lesbian gal unknowningly... the current situation of us is my girlfriend wants to leave her but the ntu lesbian gal refused to accept it by threatening to kill herself... leaving my girlfriend stranded in the middle between the two of us... also causing our relationship to be very strained... it is still a deadlock for us now and i don't know how it will end off... i love my girlfriend thus i forgive her for silly blunter made while i was not in singapore or with her...
my advise or message to all guys and gals out there : please don't go spoil a happy on-going relationship of others. -
Originally posted by naughtee:its not guys who do that... even lesbians do that too... they purposely want to be third party to spoil others' relationships...
i have going steady with my girlfriend for quite some years then this ntu lesbian gal came to befriend my girlfriend through some social activities... she knew my girlfriend was attached to me but she still goes ahead wooing my girlfriend... and all the while i thought this ntu lesbian gal was just merely a close friend to my girlfriend... she used my busy times to woo my girlfriend while i was kept away in hectic trainings and overseas training during my national service thus causing my girlfriend to fall for her...
if i had not discovered the matter, i think i would have lost my girlfriend to this ntu lesbian gal unknowningly... the current situation of us is my girlfriend wants to leave her but the ntu lesbian gal refused to accept it by threatening to kill herself... leaving my girlfriend stranded in the middle between the two of us... also causing our relationship to be very strained... it is still a deadlock for us now and i don't know how it will end off... i love my girlfriend thus i forgive her for silly blunter made while i was not in singapore or with her...
my advise or message to all guys and gals out there : please don't go spoil a happy on-going relationship of others. I've nv liked lesbians or bis... but if a gal fell for me, my bf wun have to worry about anything... -
Originally posted by naughtee:its not guys who do that... even lesbians do that too... they purposely want to be third party to spoil others' relationships...
i have going steady with my girlfriend for quite some years then this ntu lesbian gal came to befriend my girlfriend through some social activities... she knew my girlfriend was attached to me but she still goes ahead wooing my girlfriend... and all the while i thought this ntu lesbian gal was just merely a close friend to my girlfriend... she used my busy times to woo my girlfriend while i was kept away in hectic trainings and overseas training during my national service thus causing my girlfriend to fall for her...
if i had not discovered the matter, i think i would have lost my girlfriend to this ntu lesbian gal unknowningly... the current situation of us is my girlfriend wants to leave her but the ntu lesbian gal refused to accept it by threatening to kill herself... leaving my girlfriend stranded in the middle between the two of us... also causing our relationship to be very strained... it is still a deadlock for us now and i don't know how it will end off... i love my girlfriend thus i forgive her for silly blunter made while i was not in singapore or with her...
my advise or message to all guys and gals out there : please don't go spoil a happy on-going relationship of others.
My sympathy is with you. -
WEE-U-WEE!!!Originally posted by *evanesence*:I have confidence in my relationship, my boyfriend and our love for each other...
Do you?
/me whistle! -
How would you feel if I purposely try to snatch your partner away???Originally posted by choco B:And why should he do that? His target's boyfriend is a total stranger and inconsequential. He doesn't owe the boyfriend anything.
You cannot trust the men hovering around your girl... but you should have confidence in yourself, your girl and your relationship. -
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i tot its call 3rd party.. got people steal ur gf isit.. come come gather gather..all go whack him...
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...... u say until girls are very cheap like that lahOriginally posted by kopiosatu:i dun like guys like that... all must queue up take turns mah~
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:WEE-U-WEE!!!
/me whistle! heehee..... -
Such things cant be controlled... U cant control another's emotions....Originally posted by Doenitz:How would you feel if I purposely try to snatch your partner away???
And in the end, It's still up to your gf...
If she chooses to leave you for another guy, it's her choice..
respect her decision...
Doesnt mean that if she wants to leave you, it must always be becus there was a 3rd party after her...
Ur remarks make you sound like you're an insecure guy...(no offence at all)
In a relationship, u must have trust... (of cus, i noe tt u aint in one now tho' but im just trying 2 get my point across)
Else what's the point of being together..
Sure sometimes, we love our partners so much that we fear abt 3rd parties getting in between us... but ultimately, if our partner chooses to leave, there's nothing much we can do..
As I've said before.. no use begging, since his/her heart is most probably with the new partner and no longer with you...
What will be will be.... -
different people has different views so just be it
some people are asses some people are not
some people do bad things but think they are not in the wrong
some peple do good things but other people think he/she is in the wrong so how?
wat to do?
just have your own opinion and dun get swayed by other people's words even thou how logical and correct it is.
most importantly is to have your own thinking and principles -
put it this way:Originally posted by *evanesence*:
To them it's all's fair in war and love..
As long as she isnt married, there is still a chance for him..
As long as he/she's not dead, got chance -
hmmm.....as long as she is unmarried for me....i respect the covenant of marriage.