U prefer sweet decent looking,or stylish sexy looking gals?
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Actually, either will suit me cos its e heart and character that counts...Originally posted by keisha:Just curious, do most guys prefer those sweet, decent, demure, innocent face darlings? (for example - zhu ying)
Or they prefer those stylish, sexy, cool babes who has charecter? (for example - lucy liu)
Just take these two for examples only, easier to compare
I prefer the second kind definately..heeeeeee
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i said wait for us get older .. is not i rush or what..but the thing is...why must we waste those years waiting for both to get older.... u get what i mean? haiz..we truly like each other..but just becos of this family thing..make us cant...WO BU FU QI..i dont admit defeat
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nothing with being friends now mah... like what bear said... if u 2 are meant for each other, eventually will be together...Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i said wait for us get older .. is not i rush or what..but the thing is...why must we waste those years waiting for both to get older.... u get what i mean? haiz..we truly like each other..but just becos of this family thing..make us cant...WO BU FU QI..i dont admit defeat
just don't go so deep into the relationship yet... -
yes...thats what i am doing now..but the thing n what i worried is...how long am i going to wait.. before she can ..i`am afraid one day...might just lose contact or maybe....haiz i dont dare to think too much...feeling that i am really LOST IN loveOriginally posted by the Bear:with good reason, isn't it?
you like each other.. fine.. both of you have a responsibility to fulfil now.. and that is to learn.. fulfil this responsibility!
be friends now.. nothing wrong with that... take your time... if it was meant to be, it'll survive anything...
BTW, i'm 34 this year... just learning to live... many don't even know the difference between living and existing... until you do, i can bet with you, you will not know what love really is...
this is harsh, but true...
you say you love this girl, do the girl a favour.. tell her to study well and get her results.. that is her responsibility, as is yours... do your own part well and help her.. leave the talk of love and other things until later... that, would be showing her your love and respect! -
got ICQ rite?? got HP rite??? nowadays not easy to lose contact lah, last time, yeah... now quite hard lah... u just gotta make the effort to contact herOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yes...thats what i am doing now..but the thing n what i worried is...how long am i going to wait.. before she can ..i`am afraid one day...might just lose contact or maybe....haiz i dont dare to think too much...feeling that i am really LOST IN love -
N what make me more sad is that her family.. mum n brother is actually gaving her restriction now.. checking on her.. her msn log chat n hp...then...if they know or see she with guys..she will get it..dont u guys think they are very cruel people? she is human too..why must be so harsh...Originally posted by kopiosatu:nothing with being friends now mah... like what bear said... if u 2 are meant for each other, eventually will be together...
just don't go so deep into the relationship yet... -
well..now we`re in the same sch la...Originally posted by kopiosatu:got ICQ rite?? got HP rite??? nowadays not easy to lose contact lah, last time, yeah... now quite hard lah... u just gotta make the effort to contact her -
hi shinyboy..
u worry too much
.. just make an effort to remain in contact.. what happens in the future, we'll never know.. many things are out of our control.. but certainly, you can try to remain in contact and you can remain her friend.. these are the things u are in control..
u cannot control how her family reacts.. but continue to support her, especially if her studies are not well.. maybe u can help her in that way.. or just be a listening ear.. if it's meant to be, it will stand the test of time.. -
yesOriginally posted by sillyme:hi shinyboy..
u worry too much.. just make an effort to remain in contact.. what happens in the future, we'll never know.. many things are out of our control.. but certainly, you can try to remain in contact and you can remain her friend.. these are the things u are in control..
u cannot control how her family reacts.. but continue to support her, especially if her studies are not well.. maybe u can help her in that way.. or just be a listening ear.. if it's meant to be, it will stand the test of time.. ur right....i really got no choice but to WAIT.u people are right... -
hey, cheer up!Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yes ur right....i really got no choice but to WAIT.u people are right...
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i will try.2 cheer up thankz ..sinces young till now my life isnt good in anyway..sometimes i am just wondering why am i so unlucky...but how? i still able to make it ..as been a 16 years..and i am still hanging on ...i`am just afraid one day i cant..Originally posted by sillyme:hey, cheer up! -
can one lah... both sides put in effort, no problemOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i will try.2 cheer up thankz ..sinces young till now my life isnt good in anyway..sometimes i am just wondering why am i so unlucky...but how? i still able to make it ..as been a 16 years..and i am still hanging on ...i`am just afraid one day i cant.. -
i'm sure there are good memories u have put away.. try to recall them..Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i will try.2 cheer up thankz ..sinces young till now my life isnt good in anyway..sometimes i am just wondering why am i so unlucky...but how? i still able to make it ..as been a 16 years..and i am still hanging on ...i`am just afraid one day i cant..
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ok....Originally posted by kopiosatu:can one lah... both sides put in effort, no problem 
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yeah, totally agree with u...Originally posted by keisha:yup stay, me too, like those guys who are cool and confident
and not really talking about the looks here, just more of the different kind of gals that guys are attracted to, like the sweet type, or the sexy, stylish type
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Talking about Vivian Hsu and Cheryl Fox.....sigh....
I don't know...
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1st one....Originally posted by keisha:Just curious, do most guys prefer those sweet, decent, demure, innocent face darlings? (for example - zhu ying)
Or they prefer those stylish, sexy, cool babes who has charecter? (for example - lucy liu)
Just take these two for examples only, easier to compare
I prefer the second kind definately..heeeeeee expectation not 2 high -
wah, seems like most people like the first kind huh??
and shiny, seriously, i tink u r too young to handle a relationship also..the gal's parents are just worried for her, u noe, her being a gal..shouldn't studies be your first priority now?? u still get to see her in school so consider yourself lucky..cannot be couples now, be friends first lor...
u would never understand what we are saying, untill you raech our age, then you'll know having a relationship is not tat easy a thing to handle ya know?
concentrate on your studies first, like wat bear and kopi say, if you are fated to be together, you will be together no matter how long tis will take...test your love and patience for her lor
if you don't think for yourself, think for her also, she shouldn't be distracted from her studies..u want her to fare badly meh?? no rite??
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zhu ying? not a v gd exampleOriginally posted by keisha:Just curious, do most guys prefer those sweet, decent, demure, innocent face darlings? (for example - zhu ying)
Or they prefer those stylish, sexy, cool babes who has charecter? (for example - lucy liu)
Just take these two for examples only, easier to compare
I prefer the second kind definately..heeeeeee -
zhu ying not a very good example meh?? y ha??Originally posted by greyskymorning:zhu ying? not a v gd example
tot a lot of guys find her sweet and demure and innocent looking??
sorrie, i not a guy, mayne got it worng..then who u think has got that criteria?? -
of cos not....ya i understand what u all trying to say n mean....TIMe will tell everything..Originally posted by keisha:wah, seems like most people like the first kind huh??
and shiny, seriously, i tink u r too young to handle a relationship also..the gal's parents are just worried for her, u noe, her being a gal..shouldn't studies be your first priority now?? u still get to see her in school so consider yourself lucky..cannot be couples now, be friends first lor...
u would never understand what we are saying, untill you raech our age, then you'll know having a relationship is not tat easy a thing to handle ya know?
concentrate on your studies first, like wat bear and kopi say, if you are fated to be together, you will be together no matter how long tis will take...test your love and patience for her lor
if you don't think for yourself, think for her also, she shouldn't be distracted from her studies..u want her to fare badly meh?? no rite??
think about what we say... -
think to yourself... is she worth the wait...
right now, you're behaving as if she isn't...
relationships take a lot of effort.... a LOT! be her friend.. at the moment.. when it is time, you will know... but at 14 or 15, you have responsibilities..
the word "responsibilities" mean the world... if you think she is worth it, be worthy of her... be worthy enough that she is willing to wait.. be worthy enough to wait and carry out your responsibilities... so that one day, BOTH of you can be ready...
ready for the AWESOME responsibility that is love, mutual respect and COMMITMENT to each other... and if you are meant to be, this relationship will be forever...
a few years compared to forever... think about it...
take some time to think about this... then share this with her.. i'm sure if she thinks you are worth the wait, she will... and if you think she is, you will... for an eternity and a day..
are the both of you ready for this? be honest... for honesty is the cornerstone of every relationship... what more love?Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yes...thats what i am doing now..but the thing n what i worried is...how long am i going to wait.. before she can ..i`am afraid one day...might just lose contact or maybe....haiz i dont dare to think too much...feeling that i am really LOST IN love -
sighhhhhh,Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:Haiz her parent wanna her do well for school..thats why she cant...but this is bad n pain isnt it..Just becos of family...we cant be together....where by its true love..how? wait until both of us get older meh? sigh..
when i am still young, i tok i alreadi know the world, know what is good for me...
bt several years i look back, i realise hw silly i am..
true love to me is something that seem to be near bt canot be reach,
n i reali wonder hw ur define true love?
n hw ur noe ur r truly in love????? -
Alright..thanks for all the reply..
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Gimme Lucy Liu anytime
