U prefer sweet decent looking,or stylish sexy looking gals?
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Just curious, do most guys prefer those sweet, decent, demure, innocent face darlings? (for example - zhu ying)
Or they prefer those stylish, sexy, cool babes who has charecter? (for example - lucy liu)
Just take these two for examples only, easier to compare
I prefer the second kind definately..heeeeeee
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the first type....
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if you fall in love with THE ONE, would it matter which type she was?
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yah true, if you fall in love wth a gal, it doesn't matter which type she is..but you'll sure be drawn to a certain type before you would notice her and fall in love rite?
first type ah?? think most guys would go for that huh?
maybe i should start putting on a sweet innocent face..keke
if the other way round, i would be attracted to guys who are cool, stylish, and who has a charecter. definately not drawn to those who tried too hard, ya know? especially trying too hard to pick up gals, will appear to be quite desperate lor, my opinion lah, no offense to anyone k..cheers
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girl, that would be a charade.. be yourself, otherwise, it'll just be a lie...Originally posted by keisha:yah true, if you fall in love wth a gal, it doesn't matter which type she is..but you'll sure be drawn to a certain type before you would notice her and fall in love rite?
first type ah?? think most guys would go for that huh?
maybe i should start putting on a sweet innocent face..keke
if the other way round, i would be attracted to guys who are cool, stylish, and who has a charecter. definately not drawn to those who tried too hard, ya know? especially trying too hard to pick up gals, will appear to be quite desperate lor, my opinion lah, no offense to anyone k..cheers -
quite true, guys juz like innocent seet type of gal, sighhhhhhhh. bt too bad i dun carry this type of looks, maybe shld go try...lolOriginally posted by keisha:yah true, if you fall in love wth a gal, it doesn't matter which type she is..but you'll sure be drawn to a certain type before you would notice her and fall in love rite?
first type ah?? think most guys would go for that huh?
maybe i should start putting on a sweet innocent face..keke
if the other way round, i would be attracted to guys who are cool, stylish, and who has a charecter. definately not drawn to those who tried too hard, ya know? especially trying too hard to pick up gals, will appear to be quite desperate lor, my opinion lah, no offense to anyone k..cheers
bt i guess after spending sometim together, guy will notice tt the characters n personalties matter more than looks ba..
Guys wise, i prefer guy who's cool n confidence, nt attractin attention... -
i prefer those sweet looking types.
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yeah, i know, me kidding only..and i'm not the sweet and demure type, and i can never fake it manOriginally posted by the Bear:girl, that would be a charade.. be yourself, otherwise, it'll just be a lie...
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yup stay, me too, like those guys who are cool and confidentOriginally posted by [S]tay:quite true, guys juz like innocent seet type of gal, sighhhhhhhh. bt too bad i dun carry this type of looks, maybe shld go try...lol
bt i guess after spending sometim together, guy will notice tt the characters n personalties matter more than looks ba..
Guys wise, i prefer guy who's cool n confidence, nt attractin attention...
and not really talking about the looks here, just more of the different kind of gals that guys are attracted to, like the sweet type, or the sexy, stylish type
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sweet decent looking..all types n kinds of girl exist on earth..
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yeah...THE ONE....now i know whats actually happening...sigh..Originally posted by the Bear:if you fall in love with THE ONE, would it matter which type she was?
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huh? i dun get what you saying, shiny boyOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yeah...THE ONE....now i know whats actually happening...sigh.. 
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probably lamenting a lost love?
we all have our crosses to bear... i love a girl but she's not with me now, even though i'll forever be hers and my heart will forever be in her possession...
i miss her terribly...
that's my cross to bearOriginally posted by keisha:huh? i dun get what you saying, shiny boy -
bear, i lost a man i love too, and he's with someone esle now..he says he got no time for me, but now he got time for another gal..tat sucks too..i'm bearing my own cross too..Originally posted by the Bear:probably lamenting a lost love?
we all have our crosses to bear... i love a girl but she's not with me now, even though i'll forever be hers and my heart will forever be in her possession...
i miss her terribly...
that's my cross to bear
but all i can say is why don't we all focus on our future tense, and not past tense..ain't saying its gonna be easy, but i'm sure trying damn hard..
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Heh, then again don't we wear masks to interact with people around us everyday?
I think the trick for girls is to know when to appear weak, and when to be strong.Originally posted by the Bear:girl, that would be a charade.. be yourself, otherwise, it'll just be a lie... -
definately the first
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we do wear masks... i wear a cheerful bear mask...
however, with the ones we love, everything comes off... we stand vulnerable...
i do not believe in tricks in a relationship... it only complicates matters, causes frustration, anger, bitterness and ultimately, it is still a lie, a fraud and a sham...
would you want your man to present a false facade to you?
then don't do it to him... from a man... it hurts like hell when you realise she was not what she said she was.. she lied, and did not respect you enough...Originally posted by choco B:Heh, then again don't we wear masks to interact with people around us everyday?
I think the trick for girls is to know when to appear weak, and when to be strong. -
i look to the future too with or without her...
my road will never be easy and i'll be called foolish by many.. however, being honest with myself.. i can only follow my heart... something i should have done from the start...
heck! it's one of the lessons she taught and i'm thankful for it.. as i have never been happier in my life... yet without her, never sadder...
it's almost a paradox... but it is true..
love has reasons reason can never understand.. and i'm only starting on my journey of self-realisation... the first step was honesty...
and i've never felt so alive!Originally posted by keisha:bear, i lost a man i love too, and he's with someone esle now..he says he got no time for me, but now he got time for another gal..tat sucks too..i'm bearing my own cross too..
but all i can say is why don't we all focus on our future tense, and not past tense..ain't saying its gonna be easy, but i'm sure trying damn hard..
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well bear...mine is...she like me too...n i like her as well...but the problem here is...Haiz....she cant....becos her family dont allow her...so what u think i should do....just let this 2 love bird die off becos of some problem like family dont allow her? sigh..why like that...
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life is not fair... if it was... it'd be a communist countryOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:well bear...mine is...she like me too...n i like her as well...but the problem here is...Haiz....she cant....becos her family dont allow her...so what u think i should do....just let this 2 love bird die off becos of some problem like family dont allow her? sigh..why like that... -
in many ways, what has the family got to do with her lovelife?
unless she's very young.. are you?Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:well bear...mine is...she like me too...n i like her as well...but the problem here is...Haiz....she cant....becos her family dont allow her...so what u think i should do....just let this 2 love bird die off becos of some problem like family dont allow her? sigh..why like that... -
tats gd for you bear keep it up tat way..
shiny, ur tis gal very young ha?? izzit her parents worry cos she too young to be in a relationship??
kopi, wat u say its true, this world ain't never a fair place.. -
well ok..she is 14+..the reason why her parents actually dont let is becos she isnt getting good result..but she is really a nice girl..althought she has got 2 ex..but she has learnt from it..n now we really like each other but she cant becos of her family...u think its FAIr to be like this....Originally posted by the Bear:in many ways, what has the family got to do with her lovelife?
unless she's very young.. are you? -
Haiz her parent wanna her do well for school..thats why she cant...but this is bad n pain isnt it..Just becos of family...we cant be together....where by its true love..how? wait until both of us get older meh? sigh..Originally posted by keisha:tats gd for you bear keep it up tat way..
shiny, ur tis gal very young ha?? izzit her parents worry cos she too young to be in a relationship??
kopi, wat u say its true, this world ain't never a fair place.. -
with good reason, isn't it?
you like each other.. fine.. both of you have a responsibility to fulfil now.. and that is to learn.. fulfil this responsibility!
be friends now.. nothing wrong with that... take your time... if it was meant to be, it'll survive anything...
BTW, i'm 34 this year... just learning to live... many don't even know the difference between living and existing... until you do, i can bet with you, you will not know what love really is...
this is harsh, but true...
you say you love this girl, do the girl a favour.. tell her to study well and get her results.. that is her responsibility, as is yours... do your own part well and help her.. leave the talk of love and other things until later... that, would be showing her your love and respect!Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:well ok..she is 14+..the reason why her parents actually dont let is becos she isnt getting good result..but she is really a nice girl..althought she has got 2 ex..but she has learnt from it..n now we really like each other but she cant becos of her family...u think its FAIr to be like this....