I don't understand this attitude. Just because she's plain-looking means she must be grateful for any attention any male pays her? What ever happened to independent free choice? Why is she deserving of the "play hard to get and high ego" label, was she very rude when she turned your invitation down?
The issue here is not rejection.
I think the problem is that you view getting a girl, like a test or a challenge; you feel the need to prove that you're capable of getting one, and that it says something about you if you succeed or fail.
But relationships are not like this - often it's a combination of chemistry, timing and just plain luck. It doesn't mean that she's a b|tch if she turns you down, or you're a loser if you get turned down. Not every No is a snub meant to offend, especially if you have no grounds to prove that she means to insult you.
It just means you haven't met someone who's receptive to your positive qualities yet.
Anyway, in the early stages of the dating game one shouldn't expect that everyone WILL DEFINITELY say yes to any invitation. You're hardly even friends, just acquaintences. You shouldn't feel hurt since there's hardly anything invested in this friendship in the first place.
Originally posted by bus:
I tend to agree with the last few sentences:
[b]sg gals usually got high ego one, so wat if she just a plain jane??..they still like to play hard to get
I wonder is it because they are "made in Singapore" product and so must play hard to get and have high ego. Just cannot tahan their attitude.
Plain Jane also so difficult then how? [/b]