H, Bros. I fail again
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Last week, my friend is trying to introduce his wife's friend to me. We did exchange Contact No. and I am planning to ask her and my friend+his wife out agin for a makan session.
I SMS to her but she gave me a reply : "Cannot make it, going for friends' chalets."
I tell my friend" Thanks for your effort, it's all over". It is all lame excuses Bros out there. She thinks I cannot see thru her excuse?
How can a person go chalets for the next 2 weeks (agree with me?)
Well, I just don't have that X-Factor to make a gal likes me. I am giving up soon. Enough is enough -
Originally posted by bus:
How old r u? must go for match making session? dun worry lah... if dun have gf is not the end of the world... me also dun have...
Last week, my friend is trying to introduce his wife's friend to me. We did exchange Contact No. and I am planning to ask her and my friend+his wife out agin for a makan session.
I SMS to her but she gave me a reply : "Cannot make it, going for friends' chalets."
I tell my friend" Thanks for your effort, it's all over". It is all lame excuses Bros out there. She thinks I cannot see thru her excuse?
How can a person go chalets for the next 2 weeks (agree with me?)
[b]Well, I just don't have that X-Factor to make a gal likes me. I am giving up soon. Enough is enough[/b]
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Chill out dude, there's still a lot of girls around. -
you are too sensitive
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Knw wat u mean... some gals r like tat.. y not try sms her gd morn, nite 4 a week or so & try chat her up in between.. then can c whether the gal interested 2 b friend wif u... if nt dun waste ur time bro... move on... i understand it can b tiring at times...juz tak a break.. but dun stop trying...
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Well, I just want to take a break (sound so bad) but I have enough of all these nonsenses for sooooooo many years that I can memorise those excuses that they are to give when things did not turn out well. Very standard ones
My friend tells me it might be too early to come to a conclusion but I just don't feel like doing anything from now on. Just treat it as a 3 days fate with her only. By the way she has been single for the past 25 years -- no BF before. She is slim, plain looking --- this type I also cannot get, what hopes do I have in future?
Maybe accompany my Bettas for the rest of my life. -
chill out dude. it's her loss.
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Really sian if U keep hearing those excuses that were dish out to U. Really demoralising
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brother...sometimes things doesn't always work out...let it remain that way....remember "Failure builts character"
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Originally posted by bus:
Last week, my friend is trying to introduce his wife's friend to me. We did exchange Contact No. and I am planning to ask her and my friend+his wife out agin for a makan session.
I SMS to her but she gave me a reply : "Cannot make it, going for friends' chalets."
I tell my friend" Thanks for your effort, it's all over". It is all lame excuses Bros out there. She thinks I cannot see thru her excuse?
How can a person go chalets for the next 2 weeks (agree with me?)
[b]Well, I just don't have that X-Factor to make a gal likes me. I am giving up soon. Enough is enough[/b] very interesting leh..if i were you, sure enjoy some fun with her..ask her out everyday and see how long she can keep inventing new excuses..i like to marvel at other people's creativity. -
its ok la.. i also dont have gf....
life still have to carry on n move ... -
Originally posted by bus:
think too much liao lah u
Last week, my friend is trying to introduce his wife's friend to me. We did exchange Contact No. and I am planning to ask her and my friend+his wife out agin for a makan session.
I SMS to her but she gave me a reply : "Cannot make it, going for friends' chalets."
I tell my friend" Thanks for your effort, it's all over". It is all lame excuses Bros out there. She thinks I cannot see thru her excuse?
How can a person go chalets for the next 2 weeks (agree with me?)
[b]Well, I just don't have that X-Factor to make a gal likes me. I am giving up soon. Enough is enough[/b]
maybe she really going to the chalet and can't make it leh
u only tried once and u giving up?? -
don't give up so easily lah
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Originally posted by bus:
if she can remain 25 yrs single, then i think she'll need some time to get over her singlehood. don't be too sensitive nor sound desperate. just be yourself and try and be a friend first.
Well, I just want to take a break (sound so bad) but I have enough of all these nonsenses for sooooooo many years that I can memorise those excuses that they are to give when things did not turn out well. Very standard ones
My friend tells me[b] it might be too early to come to a conclusion but I just don't feel like doing anything from now on. Just treat it as a 3 days fate with her only. By the way she has been single for the past 25 years -- no BF before. She is slim, plain looking --- this type I also cannot get, what hopes do I have in future?
Maybe accompany my Bettas for the rest of my life.[/b]
anyway, its her loss not yours. you can make it (one)...
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yah think u r giving up too soon.Originally posted by BufPuf:think too much liao lah u
maybe she really going to the chalet and can't make it leh
u only tried once and u giving up??
u shud try to be more thick face a bit and just not be afraid of rejections. maybe she also have been very used to other guys and she has rejected them using same excuses. some pple are touched by sincerity and perseverence so nv give up too soon.
but dun bug her if she really says no. -
dun treat her as potential lar..its like tat one, the more u wan, the more u wont get it, its normal in life lar...just treat her as a normal fren, if she cant make it this time rd, den after a period of time ask her out again lor.....
dun give her the impression tat u wanna woo her..sg gals usually got high ego one, so wat if she just a plain jane??..they still like to play hard to get.. -
sometimes it's not say the ger dun like u
dat's y she dun wan to go out with u
maybe she bz..mayb she dun feel like but this does not mean that she dun like u or wad loh
try asking her a few times...if u ask her 10 times 20 times she dun wan..den u can conclude maybe she not interested..
just once i find it too early to come to a conclusion -
bufpuf's right...
wah piang.. ask once, turn down, get depressed...
ask again after 2 weeks lah...
faint heart never won fair lady -
ya lor...yesterday i ask again liao..agaon kanna reject...haizOriginally posted by the Bear:bufpuf's right...
wah piang.. ask once, turn down, get depressed...
ask again after 2 weeks lah...
faint heart never won fair lady nvm......not giving up yet -
what to do..? some girls are like that.Originally posted by bus:Really sian if U keep hearing those excuses that were dish out to U. Really demoralising -
Hi Bus Bro,
keep trying lah..this one cannot next one loh..there are many gals out there ...the fact that you bother to call/sms a lady for a date is a good start...keep doing this and everytime there's failure , you will become wiser and better prepared next time..
move on...keep scanning..
LGO -
things to ponder:
bus, relaxs... there r lots nlots of gals out there..... it take time n patience to find a true one... be patient... -
move on to your next target man.
i wasted 10 years on 1 gal, keep trying after being rejected time and again until one fine day, i got a real blunt rejection.
so nowadays, if someone is not interested, dun waste your time and $ on that person. -
Wah Lau. How come U spent 10 years just on 1 gal -- is she in the class of Norika Fujiwara/Christy Chung/Claudia Schiffer/Cindy Crawford that make U so serious about her?Originally posted by Gallen1616:move on to your next target man.
i wasted 10 years on 1 gal, keep trying after being rejected time and again until one fine day, i got a real blunt rejection.
so nowadays, if someone is not interested, dun waste your time and $ on that person.
Anyway U have the "Tiao Jian" for gals to take a 2nd looks at U. -
love has reasons reason can never understand...
give it a couple of weeks? her excuse would have run out.. mayhap you have another go then?Originally posted by bus:Wah Lau. How come U spent 10 years just on 1 gal -- is she in the class of Norika Fujiwara/Christy Chung/Claudia Schiffer/Cindy Crawford that make U so serious about her?
Anyway U have the "Tiao Jian" for gals to take a 2nd looks at U.