love in working place.
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I kind of like a girl in my working.
althought she is kind of tomboyish.. but don't know why.
i still like her.
but there a big problem is there she is very close with a senior ten years older both of us.
(although HE is marry.. but think he have intention on her)
so how?? -
If u really like her, tell her ur feelings loh... dun waste the chance or u will regret it later...
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but i scare that if I tell her and she don't like me..
how am i going to face her when i go work???
anyway.. and if she complain to the senior .. how??
by the way.. i did hint her to her...
and she kind of avoid me already.... -
No need to feel paiseh lah... complain complain loh... wat can he do to u? if she avoid u liao then u more or less know how she feels... but dun give up...Originally posted by zerowtf:but i scare that if I tell her and she don't like me..
how am i going to face her when i go work???
anyway.. and if she complain to the senior .. how??
by the way.. i did hint her to her...
and she kind of avoid me already.... -
some friend put it crudely:
Don't dip your wick in company ink...
but if you are really smitten by her, go ask her out for coffee, drinks, dinner.. you know? stuff like that.. date her... respect her and win her respect...
see how after that
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How she avoid U? My guessOriginally posted by zerowtf:but i scare that if I tell her and she don't like me..
how am i going to face her when i go work???
anyway.. and if she complain to the senior .. how??
by the way.. i did hint her to her...
and she kind of avoid me already....
1. she is very cold to U when U send emails in the office
2. when meeting U in the office, she will pretend to walk extra fast or pretend did not see U
3. Even when trying to talk to U, she will talk in a very fast manner and walk away ASAP
Am I right? Well, I experienced it before and I made an effort NEVER go after someone in the office due to the Stressness U are facing now. The best is to go after someone from outside your office. It will be better as U can avoid all the problems/stress U are suffering now. -
thanks...
anyway.. sometime she really annoy me.
some fo the days... she will come and talk to me ...
ask me for help in working ...etc...
then someday she will ignore me totally at all.
will be very very friend with those colleague around me.
and didn't even bother about me at all... -
she could be overcompensating because she's uneasy with either her own feelings towards you, or your feelings towards her...
aiyah, go be her friend lah who knows, may be the start of a wonderful relationship Originally posted by zerowtf:thanks...
anyway.. sometime she really annoy me.
some fo the days... she will come and talk to me ...
ask me for help in working ...etc...
then someday she will ignore me totally at all.
will be very very friend with those colleague around me.
and didn't even bother about me at all... -
"Tian ya he chu wu fang cao, he bi dan lian yi zhi hua"Originally posted by zerowtf:thanks...
anyway.. sometime she really annoy me.
some fo the days... she will come and talk to me ...
ask me for help in working ...etc...
then someday she will ignore me totally at all.
will be very very friend with those colleague around me.
and didn't even bother about me at all... -
just happen that i like this kind of flowers
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I told U liao, some gals after U declared yourself to her, she will either accept U or U will be punished into the "cold Chamber" and she will be very heartless as not to give U a 2nd look.
She will be very nice to those around U BUT NOT U -- I wonder if she did it purposely or out of some personal reasons.
Don't care lah..she is tomboyish, not those "up to standards" one. U can find someone even better than her. -
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Yo amico, think you can keep on trying as long as you feel like it till she say something. -
yah.. Parka's right.. just don't call her "dude"
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almost the same situation as mi, but not in the workplace though.....
except that the guy is not married
well...life juz carry on...... -
juz relax...dun rush tings out.
will turn out bad....
ask her out first then slowly observe hw she feels abt u & react accordingly loh. -
sigh... i did ask her out on my b-day...
she said she not free...
as that day she having a chalet with a group of girl friends.
although me very sure that there not guys in the chalet,
but stil quite sad loi. -
you're getting paranoid...
ask her out for coffee lah.. wah piang! asking her out on your birthday is, like something damned heavy!Originally posted by zerowtf:sigh... i did ask her out on my b-day...
she said she not free...
as that day she having a chalet with a group of girl friends.
although me very sure that there not guys in the chalet,
but stil quite sad loi. -
well.. she don't like coffee....
anyway.. she and me got lot of differents.
she like pets... which i don't.
she drive car but i ride bike.
she don't like crowded place like disco or pubs...
but i like...
she and me is very opposite loh...
maybe that why i was draw to her loi. -
Ever heard that opposites attract?Originally posted by zerowtf:well.. she don't like coffee....
anyway.. she and me got lot of differents.
she like pets... which i don't.
she drive car but i ride bike.
she don't like crowded place like disco or pubs...
but i like...
she and me is very opposite loh...
maybe that why i was draw to her loi. -
ya... but don't have any place of interest to ask her out lei.
those i find interesting .. mostly she don't like ..
so how? -
Rome wasn't built in a day...
find out!Originally posted by zerowtf:ya... but don't have any place of interest to ask her out lei.
those i find interesting .. mostly she don't like ..
so how? -
i scare if i try ask her too often.
she will avoid me.... -
the answer to why she acts as she does is quite easy to understand if yuo think of it the other way around.
ie, if a girl you didnt like started giving YOU the signals that she liked you.
You would want to avoid her, smile, not chat too long on anything besides work related things....just so you dont give her the impression that you like her.