A guy having a car seems very appealing to gals
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i do lor, maybe i'm one of the stupid ones??Originally posted by the Bear:you have this misconception that all spouses throw their earnings into a common pool... -
haha, tats correct bear, 'sian' means 'lie'.....Originally posted by the Bear:doesn't this word mean "lie"?
as in:
"if you want to come and lie to me?"
tats y people say 'sian xar bor'...
well, dun disagree that some gals are easily 'sian' *shake head* -
yah lah, i agree got a lot of gals like tat, but not all lor...Originally posted by Inzaghi:ya lar..of cos not all lar..but i think getting less n less...one of my galfrens told me this..now gals dun look for guys with cars, wat they wan is BMW!!...anything less than tat they ask u dun waste her time..
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i guess so.. it's demeaning to think of ladies like that.. someone to be lied to..
nuts.. i'm living in the wrong era!Originally posted by keisha:haha, tats correct bear, 'sian' means 'lie'.....
tats y people say 'sian xar bor'...
well, dun disagree that some gals are easily 'sian' *shake head* -
so much so tat when i wanna know a gal or wat, i look at her..see if she belongs to tat type who will only settle for a beemer n nothing less..Originally posted by keisha:yah lah, i agree got a lot of gals like tat, but not all lor...
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if she belongs to tat type, drop her man..Originally posted by Inzaghi:so much so tat when i wanna know a gal or wat, i look at her..see if she belongs to tat type who will only settle for a beemer n nothing less.. 
tis kind of gals really spoiling the rest of our reputation..
i mean seriously got cars is more convinient, but if dun have dun have lah, can save up together and get one in future or something, can plan together one mah..
n to tink that i can love someone for who he is, w/o giving a damn if he has a career, or car, or education, or money...damn -
no.. just mistaken...
have a common joint account and have one for your own use... he should too.. this will help emphasize that you are a couple, yet you are individuals...
helps with things around the house, and things you want to get yourself with your own budget.. something all your own
some lose their individuality when they marry... not good.. at least in my bookOriginally posted by keisha:i do lor, maybe i'm one of the stupid ones?? -
err..maybe can save time trying to pick her up instead...Originally posted by keisha:if she belongs to tat type, drop her man..
tis kind of gals really spoiling the rest of our reputation..
i mean seriously got cars is more convinient, but if dun have dun have lah, can save up together and get one in future or something, can plan together one mah..
n to tink that i can love someone for who he is, w/o giving a damn if he has a career, or car, or education, or money...damn
i also believe in building together twds a better future instead...like tat u will be more satisfied with the success...but den, how many gals are willing to wait??...not much i guess.. -
totally agree with this...Originally posted by the Bear:no.. just mistaken...
have a common joint account and have one for your own use... he should too.. this will help emphasize that you are a couple, yet you are individuals...
helps with things around the house, and things you want to get yourself with your own budget.. something all your own
some lose their individuality when they marry... not good.. at least in my book
never lose ourselves just once we get hitch..
the common and individual account thing is a wise habit lor -
I GET wat u guys are talking here...Originally posted by eggyoke:how come you still dun get what we're talking here.... so wat if s'pore got the best airport in the world, so wat if s'pore got the best transport in the world.... those gers out there dun care.... "you want to sian me, you got a car then talk to me... if not, go away..." the best is those two seater cars... do you know this cruel fact?
wat I'm trying to say is....
NOT ALL gals are like tat.....
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got lah, got gals out there who are willing to wait and build a future with you one..me is one example...but maybe i waited for the wrong guy lor...Originally posted by Inzaghi:err..maybe can save time trying to pick her up instead...
i also believe in building together twds a better future instead...like tat u will be more satisfied with the success...but den, how many gals are willing to wait??...not much i guess..
as for you all, maybe you guys went for the wrong gals lor...
see, C100 is protesting about sterotyping here, so i'm pretty sure she is also one who is not like what you all have meet that give you tat kind of impression lor.. -
open your eyes big big next time..so u guys see any gal like tat, run for your dear lives..keke
look for all the tell tale signs that the gal you are interested in might be like what you all say lor...
personally, i dunno why a lot of gals depend on men to be driving lor...i see guy friends around me, all slowly start buying their own cars and all, but the gals all waiting for their bfs to get a car, or get a bf who has a car...cannot work hard and get one ourselves meh?? maybe gals are just not motivated enough to do that, i am lor, but just that not earning enough only...
and seriously, if a couple get together, even the guy don't drives, can slowly build up, save up to get a car, if they think it necessary lor..key word is, open your eyes bigger to find a gal like tat, who will be willing to save up for a future with you lor.. -
so you mean it's normal for a husband to share his money while the wife to keep hers? if that's the case, then might as well have a mistress... anytime can break off, dun need to get a divorce.... since you make the vow to be with him well and illness, poor and rich..... then you should share the burden... am i right to say tat?Originally posted by the Bear:you have this misconception that all spouses throw their earnings into a common pool...
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some do... ever heard of the joke that has a cruel morsel of truth in it?
What is yours is mine..
What is mine is mine..
some do think like that...
which is what is probably happening to my colleague...
read my post above to Keisha about my philosophy to money management between a coupleOriginally posted by eggyoke:so you mean it's normal for a husband to share his money while the wife to keep hers? if that's the case, then might as well have a mistress... anytime can break off, dun need to get a divorce.... since you make the vow to be with him well and illness, poor and rich..... then you should share the burden... am i right to say tat? -
yeah, not all only about 99%... and the 1% is those that are married...Originally posted by keisha:yah lah, i agree got a lot of gals like tat, but not all lor...
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tats as good as saying all single gals r like tat..tat is a very unfair statement.....Originally posted by eggyoke:yeah, not all only about 99%... and the 1% is those that are married...
if i were to say 99.9% men are only after women for sex, the 1% are gay, u tink its fair to u all?? -
errr..i think gay is more than 10% lar...Originally posted by keisha:tats as good as saying all single gals r like tat..tat is a very unfair statement.....
if i were to say 99.9% men are only after women for sex, the 1% are gay, u tink its fair to u all??
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ok lah...*piak!*Originally posted by Inzaghi:errr..i think gay is more than 10% lar...
u dun ka jiao hor -
aiya pain pain....Originally posted by keisha:ok lah...*piak!*
u dun ka jiao hor
not ka jiao lar, stating a fact mah.. -
yah yah, i noe you stating the fact, i agree wth you that there are more than 1% of gays...Originally posted by Inzaghi:aiya pain pain....
not ka jiao lar, stating a fact mah..
but i stating the logic wth him mah...we gals don't sterotype all guys, then you guys don't sterotype all gals too..cos not everyone in this world is the same base on our sexes..
maybe we shoudl start a battle of the sexes forum -_- -
too many battles between the sexes, causing too many broken hearts and wounded feelings already...
no.. i would not like that.. the gentleman side of me would not let meOriginally posted by keisha:yah yah, i noe you stating the fact, i agree wth you that there are more than 1% of gays...
but i stating the logic wth him mah...
maybe we shoudl start a battle of teh sexes forum -_- -
no bear, battle fo the sexes, cos since we are having debates like that, but just that its all over different forums..might as well have a proper forum for that...Originally posted by the Bear:too many battles between the sexes, causing too many broken hearts and wounded feelings already...
no.. i would not like that.. the gentleman side of me would not let me
keke, but sure got quarrel one, so better not.. -
there will never be a conclusion on the battles lar..if a gal can list down 10 bad pts about a guy, the guy can do so to..in the end gals still like guys n guys still like gals, no matter wat.....of cos, there're lotsa disappointed one who decided to become gays better..Originally posted by keisha:yah yah, i noe you stating the fact, i agree wth you that there are more than 1% of gays...
but i stating the logic wth him mah...we gals don't sterotype all guys, then you guys don't sterotype all gals too..cos not everyone in this world is the same base on our sexes..
maybe we shoudl start a battle of the sexes forum -_-