heart matters
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hi ,i 'm a troubled newbie here , would like "seniors" out here 2 give advice, thxs
me taking the UOL programme , got to know a gal from china in my second year, she is popular , pretty & smart . but she din have bf, got to know her well only begining tis year, went for chalet , eat lunch etc .. then she was admitted 2 hospital recently. when i visit her , found out recently got bf
my gang told me 2 give her up , but i perservere,we still chat as normal til i gave her a gift the day after her B-day .i intend 2 declare 2 her abt my feelings , but she rushing 2 c her bf after a whole day of her belated B- day celebration , i gave her a recorded vcd of my declaration < stupid me >
from then , din reply my sms and speak coldly on the phone
.. end of story , so the issue is should i
1> give her up , be frens , mayb got chance in future
2> still chase her , best man win
3> treat her as stranger -
Suggestion: -Originally posted by Luna_sky:hi ,i 'm a troubled newbie here , would like "seniors" out here 2 give advice, thxs
me taking the UOL programme , got to know a gal from china in my second year, she is popular , pretty & smart . but she din have bf, got to know her well only begining tis year, went for chalet , eat lunch etc .. then she was admitted 2 hospital recently. when i visit her , found out recently got bf
my gang told me 2 give her up , but i perservere,we still chat as normal til i gave her a gift the day after her B-day .i intend 2 declare 2 her abt my feelings , but she rushing 2 c her bf after a whole day of her belated B- day celebration , i gave her a recorded vcd of my declaration < stupid me >
from then , din reply my sms and speak coldly on the phone
.. end of story , so the issue is should i
1> give her up , be frens , mayb got chance in future
2> still chase her , best man win
3> treat her as stranger
Don't give up on the friendship yet.
If she's cold towards u, then let it be. Anyway, what's done is done.
If she calls u, then answer her calls. Otherwise, don't call her at all.
Try to ignore her for these time period. Don't contact her.
Let her have her freedom and cooling period.
No choice, u have to respect her decision in the end... -
option 1. period.
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i agree...Originally posted by www:option 1. period. -
yupe 1.....gave both of u some time.. be fren first....*just hope that someone dont snatch away.
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well guess option 1 is still the best
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dun chase china gal dude.... even at e same age they have gone thru much more...... so u better dun jump in blind dude....i have been burnt b4 so beware....
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gif her up dude, but stay as frens....
well there are so many other fishes in e ocean....
so... why worry....?
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yeah... mayb , thxs for the enlightenment
need tis cooling down period too .... then
search for my new love
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