Zhao Sai?
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Yeah, it's the last thing I want to happen to me. But if that's the case then maybe the relationship wasn't worthwhile to begin with. Though I know I love him but I can't swear that I won't Zhao Sai.Originally posted by www:haha. but skinnybean does has a point.
the last thing u want is your bf doing such thing to you, isnt it?
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haha. everyone has their own mindset and their unique way of jusitifying and living their lives, which denies me to say that you are completely wrong.Originally posted by Indulgence:Yeah, it's the last thing I want to happen to me. But if that's the case then maybe the relationship wasn't worthwhile to begin with. Though I know I love him but I can't swear that I won't Zhao Sai.
but one thing for sure. to have a ideal relationship (the way many people has defined), basic trust is always one of the core components.
having said that, your tendency of heading astray (be it that you are left alone or not) show minimal effort to achieve the core component mentioned above.
thats all i have to say. i rest my case. -
i rest my case too
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no lar.. u wun feel lonely, coz there will always be me ard =)Originally posted by Indulgence:Hey hey, I'm just being honest here.
I can commit, I don't have a problem with that. But when I'm left alone for a long time, without him around, I admit I'll start feeling lonely. -
Ehh... That maybe one of the possibilities to flirting around, but dun you find it quite wierd to have a girl as a boyfriend...? If she thinks that a girl would make a better "boyfriend", then why let the guy stay by her side in the first place??Originally posted by glove:so would it be also considered zhao sai if a gal has a long going steady boyfriend, also likes another gal and the gal likes her ?
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May not be a reason to flirting around, Moderator... Flirting has its definition in having two or more parties involved in a relationship that meant only for two; a guy and a girl...Originally posted by www:basically, it means your gf/bf ditch u for someone else.
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Yes, i agree with you and it means cheating... If i were in the same circumstances as you i will also look around for a better person who will treat me better... Ok, since you put it that way, den i believe you have no faith in guys anymore, right...?? And definitely i dun consider you as a b*itch cos i noe for sure, you are not the one in the wrong unless you did something dats unforgiveable...
Originally posted by Indulgence:
Oh yes, i forgot this is e words coming out from a guy's mouth and no other mistaken gender....
Zhao Sai, in my terms means cheating, I don't know about you guys.
But honestly, I think I would. Cos [b]I cannot be alone. I know that's very unfair to him and cheap of me. But I'm being honest. I can't be left alone for a long time, say about a month.
Cos after that I get lonely and then I'll tend to "look around".
So I can never maintain a long tem Long distance relationship.
Sorry if I sounded like a slut, but I'm just being truthful and contributing my opinions.
Added: But if I really love him, I'll be struggling to refrain myself from zhao sai"ing".[/b]
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I agree...Originally posted by www:second that.
i guess if one has the tendency of heading astray, one should not give his/her partner the impression that he/she can commit, right from the start.