give him a break?Originally posted by Hakimura:ehhh... give e guy a break will you?? Zhao sai means flirt...
i do flirt before when young cos i find it fun, but now i think is bo liao... i will do it when she is unfaithful to me![]()
Originally posted by Indulgence:I was wondering... if your bf confess to you tat he had cheated on you but claimed that he did struggled very hard to stay faithful tho' finally failed.. will that be of any consolation to you??
Zhao Sai, in my terms means cheating, I don't know about you guys.
But honestly, I think I would. Cos [b]I cannot be alone. I know that's very unfair to him and cheap of me. But I'm being honest. I can't be left alone for a long time, say about a month.
Cos after that I get lonely and then I'll tend to "look around".
So I can never maintain a long tem Long distance relationship.
Sorry if I sounded like a slut, but I'm just being truthful and contributing my opinions.
Added: But if I really love him, I'll be struggling to refrain myself from zhao sai"ing".[/b]
second that.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:I was wondering... if your bf confess to you tat he had cheated on you but claimed that he did struggled very hard to stay faithful tho' finally failed.. will that be of any consolation to you??
chim ....Originally posted by glove:so would it be also considered zhao sai if a gal has a long going steady boyfriend, also likes another gal and the gal likes her ?
Originally posted by Indulgence:
Zhao Sai, in my terms means cheating, I don't know about you guys.
But honestly, I think I would. Cos [b]I cannot be alone. I know that's very unfair to him and cheap of me. But I'm being honest. I can't be left alone for a long time, say about a month.
Cos after that I get lonely and then I'll tend to "look around".
So I can never maintain a long tem Long distance relationship.
Sorry if I sounded like a slut, but I'm just being truthful and contributing my opinions.
Added: But if I really love him, I'll be struggling to refrain myself from zhao sai"ing".[/b]
Wow .. sure or not ?...Originally posted by the Bear:hmmm...
myself... when i love her, it's forever... and i'll wait forever and a day for her if it is necessary..
and if we're not meant to be together, i'll walk life's journey alone...
a heart given to someone, cannot be taken or given back... it's forever..
shouldn't you be more concern about how people here manage to stay faithful to their partners than about the zhao sai experience??Originally posted by Hitakogi:From wat i have seen,
no poeple here zhao sai b4 har?
why no people care to tel their exp here?![]()
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hmm i was wondering whether the guy would be more mad if her gf zhai sai to a gal,Originally posted by the Bear:where got chim?
some woman likes his girl...
again, i say.. gay, straight or bi, should respect partner enough to tell him/her/it..
after that, whatever they decide is their own business...
Originally posted by Hitakogi:Wow .. sure or not ?...![]()
It would. But I think I would still leave him in the end.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:I was wondering... if your bf confess to you tat he had cheated on you but claimed that he did struggled very hard to stay faithful tho' finally failed.. will that be of any consolation to you??
Hey hey, I'm just being honest here.Originally posted by www:second that.
i guess if one has the tendency of heading astray, one should not give his/her partner the impression that he/she can commit, right from the start.
Tat's les!Originally posted by glove:so would it be also considered zhao sai if a gal has a long going steady boyfriend, also likes another gal and the gal likes her ?
haha. but skinnybean does has a point.Originally posted by Indulgence:Hey hey, I'm just being honest here.
I can commit, I don't have a problem with that. But when I'm left alone for a long time, without him around, I admit I'll start feeling lonely.
Originally posted by BlueMe:Tat's les!
making a commitment means you will go thru ups and downs together, good or bad times and distance should not make a difference. There might be times if your bf might need to be away (attachment, work, etc), and being commited means you will have to stay faithful despite being lonely. And anyway, cheating on bf is not the only way to cure loneliness, you can always go out wif platonic frens.Originally posted by Indulgence:Hey hey, I'm just being honest here.
I can commit, I don't have a problem with that. But when I'm left alone for a long time, without him around, I admit I'll start feeling lonely.