how to tell her/him....
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SMS lo...then if shes online then chat chat...make her happy lor..she happy u also happy what..haha
i`am still trying lor...but she just say..gave me time.. arrz.. 
been trying everyday ..onces she online we will chat..n she is happy whenever i came online..but she still cant accept..say gave me time haiz..she say she likes me...i am a good guy...i shuagi ...but then still..gave me time...i dont know how much longer i needa wait 
sad sia...try n try everyday been trying -
Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:SMS lo...then if shes online then chat chat...make her happy lor..she happy u also happy what..haha i`am still trying lor...but she just say..gave me time.. arrz.. been trying everyday ..onces she online we will chat..n she is happy whenever i came online..but she still cant accept..say gave me time haiz..she say she likes me...i am a good guy...i shuagi ...but then still..gave me time...i dont know how much longer i needa wait sad sia...try n try everyday been trying
if i were you, i won't buy that. she wanna give you time or she just buying time? -
what u mean buying time or gave me time..she do say she likes me..n when she is with me she very happy..but she tell me...gave her time as she is not ready for a relationship...for me.. i will wait lor becos she is really my kinda girl..Originally posted by boy in blues: if i were you, i won't buy that. she wanna give you time or she just buying time? -
Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:what u mean buying time or gave me time..she do say she likes me..n when she is with me she very happy..but she tell me...gave her time as she is not ready for a relationship...for me.. i will wait lor becos she is really my kinda girl.. in previous post u said she wanted to giv u time, now it's she needs more time. which is which?
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wait... she is being honest with you... at least she cares enough for the potential relationship to sort things out to be ready
there are probably some things going through her head and her heart... give her time to sort things out... give her time to get ready...
lots of relationships collapse because they were not ready... i've learnt from bitter experience myself...
in the meantime, i suggest some soul-searching yourself... to get yourself ready too...Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:what u mean buying time or gave me time..she do say she likes me..n when she is with me she very happy..but she tell me...gave her time as she is not ready for a relationship...for me.. i will wait lor becos she is really my kinda girl.. -
oh sorri sorri its she need time...she told me she hasnt ready to start a relationship..Originally posted by boy in blues: in previous post u said she wanted to giv u time, now it's she needs more time. which is which? yupe..so i guess i will just wait lor..also dontknow how long i am to wait.. sigh -
yeah.....i will just wait lor...Originally posted by the Bear:wait... she is being honest with you... at least she cares enough for the potential relationship to sort things out to be ready
there are probably some things going through her head and her heart... give her time to sort things out... give her time to get ready...
lots of relationships collapse because they were not ready... i've learnt from bitter experience myself...
in the meantime, i suggest some soul-searching yourself... to get yourself ready too... -
good to hear
take the time to get ready tooOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yeah.....i will just wait lor... -
Originally posted by the Bear:good to hear
take the time to get ready too
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haha i am actually ready anytime lor...becos i know what she scare of then i always like flirt with her... theres onces on the phone .. hmmz..12+ then was talking about ghost. thingy she very scared then keep saying me.. until she like dont dare to move n turn back..haha...really my kinda girl lor i love her man...Originally posted by the Bear:good to hear
take the time to get ready too
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a relationship's for real... time to be serious.. dead serious...
could be she's worried you're not too serious?
"love" is a very very heavy word... i never used it frivolously in my life... it means more than the world..
are you ready for that? the responsibility of love is heavier than anything i have ever known... and so liberating it scared the hell out of me at one time...
many people think they are ready.. just as many say they are ready... few are...Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:haha i am actually ready anytime lor...becos i know what she scare of then i always like flirt with her... theres onces on the phone .. hmmz..12+ then was talking about ghost. thingy she very scared then keep saying me.. until she like dont dare to move n turn back..haha...really my kinda girl lor i love her man... -
But i`am sure i am much way better than her ex lor... becos she really make a big big mistake...then until today break liao but her ex is still like in her life..if he know she is close with any guy then. there her ex will like want to beat that partiuclar guy up ..but i dont care...if he dare he come n whack me lor... i think she needa more time is becos she dont wanna choose the wrong one again...but she is very happy when with me...Originally posted by the Bear:a relationship's for real... time to be serious.. dead serious...
could be she's worried you're not too serious?
"love" is a very very heavy word... i never used it frivolously in my life... it means more than the world..
are you ready for that? the responsibility of love is heavier than anything i have ever known... and so liberating it scared the hell out of me at one time...
many people think they are ready.. just as many say they are ready... few are... -
make her happy
watch your sixOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:But i`am sure i am much way better than her ex lor... becos she really make a big big mistake...then until today break liao but her ex is still like in her life..if he know she is close with any guy then. there her ex will like want to beat that partiuclar guy up ..but i dont care...if he dare he come n whack me lor... i think she needa more time is becos she dont wanna choose the wrong one again...but she is very happy when with me... -
yeah i always make her happy...recently she say..Msn online so boring...all the guys always say sian sian sian then diam diam never talk..but when i come then not sian liao becos i will tallk with her alot ma...n make her laugh..then she always say i very qian bian.hahaOriginally posted by the Bear:make her happy
watch your six
hmmz watch my six? what u mean..? -
six.. clock..
twelve is straight ahead..
six o'clock is your back...
if he's going to bash you, he may jump you... watch your six...
frankly, somehow i think the lot of you are very young.. are you?Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:yeah i always make her happy...recently she say..Msn online so boring...all the guys always say sian sian sian then diam diam never talk..but when i come then not sian liao becos i will tallk with her alot ma...n make her laugh..then she always say i very qian bian.haha
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i still dont get what u mean lah...Originally posted by the Bear:six.. clock..
twelve is straight ahead..
six o'clock is your back...
if he's going to bash you, he may jump you... watch your six...
frankly, somehow i think the lot of you are very young.. are you?
i`am 16 this year lor...she is 14 her ex is 15. -
Why would you wanna do that...?Originally posted by hata:well how would u tell someone u love and broken up with that u still missed them.. 
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Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i still dont get what u mean lah...
i`am 16 this year lor...she is 14 her ex is 15. he means that guy might pull another pearl harbor on you.. -
orh..i think i figure out what u mean.... watch my six ..isit mean u telling me to becareful becos he might attack me from behind ?? becos six is back...is that what u mean ???Originally posted by the Bear:six.. clock..
twelve is straight ahead..
six o'clock is your back...
if he's going to bash you, he may jump you... watch your six...
frankly, somehow i think the lot of you are very young.. are you? -
huh!!!????Originally posted by boy in blues: he means that guy might pull another pearl harbor on you.. what u mean pull another pearl harbor.. i dont get what u mean la. dont bully me lah.. my english n understanding not so strong la... chim sia~~~ -
digital clock generation..
take an old clock and put it flat on the floor... with 12 in front of you and you standing in the middle of the face... the directions where the numbers are is how someone may describe directions...
3 o'clock would be your right, 9 o'clock would be your left... your 6 is your back...
advising you to watch your back.. in case that idiot tries to bash you by "jumping you" or ambushing you from the back...
and you are 16.. sheesh!
hold on to 16, for as long as you can
changes come around real soon make you women and men!
you're young... way young.... i'm more than twice your age!
be friends.. there's time enough to figure out what love is... just be her friend... maybe later in life, when you've realised how long forever is, you'll know the ramifications of true love... it's forever... and that's something some people go through their lives without even knowing about...
right now, you probably have no idea what mortality is.. humanity, existence and all that.. you'll probably not even read all this...
if you don't, i just hope you read this last bit... be her friend for the time being... maybe in future, when both of you are older and hopefully wiser, you'll be ready for a true commitment..
and this isn't about an old dude telling you stuff... it's just friendly advice... you can take it or leave it
i wish you happiness and wisdomOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i still dont get what u mean lah...
i`am 16 this year lor...she is 14 her ex is 15. -
Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:huh!!!???? what u mean pull another pearl harbor.. i dont get what u mean la. dont bully me lah.. my english n understanding not so strong la... chim sia~~~ see? you have just proven to yourself that you are too young for these games.
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yupe .. just like what i tot of .. attacking from my back.. thanks for the advise.. wow seems like this forum is getting intersting.. meeting different different people of all ages..Guess i am just a xiao di di in here..Originally posted by the Bear:digital clock generation..
take an old clock and put it flat on the floor... with 12 in front of you and you standing in the middle of the face... the directions where the numbers are is how someone may describe directions...
3 o'clock would be your right, 9 o'clock would be your left... your 6 is your back...
advising you to watch your back.. in case that idiot tries to bash you by "jumping you" or ambushing you from the back...
and you are 16.. sheesh!
hold on to 16, for as long as you can
changes come around real soon make you women and men!
you're young... way young.... i'm more than twice your age!
be friends.. there's time enough to figure out what love is... just be her friend... maybe later in life, when you've realised how long forever is, you'll know the ramifications of true love... it's forever... and that's something some people go through their lives without even knowing about...
right now, you probably have no idea what mortality is.. humanity, existence and all that.. you'll probably not even read all this...
if you don't, i just hope you read this last bit... be her friend for the time being... maybe in future, when both of you are older and hopefully wiser, you'll be ready for a true commitment..
and this isn't about an old dude telling you stuff... it's just friendly advice... you can take it or leave it
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yes.. watch your six because he may pull a pearl harbour...
pearl harbour was hit when the US was unaware.. an ambush...
frankly, fighting is an insanely stupid way of "settling" things... only mad dogs and ruffians do that... oh, and immature, childish and maladjusted people fight...Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:huh!!!???? what u mean pull another pearl harbor.. i dont get what u mean la. dont bully me lah.. my english n understanding not so strong la... chim sia~~~ -
yeah.very true lor... but i`am in a seconday sch so i am aware of whats happening .. when ever something or something they both cant agree with each other... they will go out 1 on 1... but...normally it didnt happenOriginally posted by the Bear:yes.. watch your six because he may pull a pearl harbour...
pearl harbour was hit when the US was unaware.. an ambush...
frankly, fighting is an insanely stupid way of "settling" things... only mad dogs and ruffians do that... oh, and immature, childish and maladjusted people fight... its kinda of childish n stupid lor... violences can never slove a problem yeah i totally agree with u..