well,i get tis from my email which i found it is meaningful.. esp to those who r in e heartache struggling to wake up..
When we fail in our relationships, we ask ourselves what went wrong.
>
> There are times when nothing was wrong. Sometimes love just naturally fades
> away and this happens to people who are simply not meant for each other. I
> know it is difficult to comprehend why relationships suddenly take
> unexpected turns. But, it always happens. People we treasure are taken away
> from us for a reason . Sometimes we have to stop asking why and just accept
> our fate. If there is certainty in that end, then we should stop being
> bitter and just be thankful that for once, we have loved and shared our life
>
> Sometimes we are holding on to someone whom we think is still there but has
> really been long gone, or was just looking for a decent way out of your
> relationship. You know how men can get away with words. There is nothing
> wrong in loving someone. You may be able to bear the pain when love begins
> to hurt. And when it hurts, you may still be able to give even more. You may
> be even able to love until it hurts no more. But what good does it bring you
> when the person you love shows no respect for what you feel and makes lame
> excuses for his inability to love you back. Love isn't love until you give
> away. But love will only have life when it is shared by two people who
> believe in its meaning, by people who share one goal, one commitment, and by
> people who are selflessly loyal to each other.
>
> God's ways aren't always easy and painless. Some are meant to open our eyes
> to what we do not see. Some are meant to make us realize what we stubbornly
> refuse to understand. But all of them will always be meant to make us
> stronger and better persons. We just have to trust Him on that. you may find
> your way to the farthest planet and still remember the one you love.
> Distance has little to do with forgetting. This healing should begin in your
> heart. Acceptance is the first step to recovery.
>
> Once you have learned to understand that this is where it ends then it is
> the only time when you will learn how to move on with life without having
> to stop every time you are reminded of the bitterness of the past.
muahhaaa.. nvm nx time u got fren heartache den mayb can try to console them 
