Originally posted by harryryan:
i actually was waiting for a gal .... she's from this forum too....the "guys" from this forum will know ... she's attached n i thought i can win her over with my sincerity n even wait for her .......
things did not work out n despite some controversies she still decide her bf was best.... so i decided to move on.... was hard but i did it.... in two weeks.... ha... ha... never settle for anything less than someone who will give their best in a relationship.....
just yesterday we were smsing each other n she was disappointed cos she was hoping that there will be someone who will be willing to wait for her.... cos so romantic....
talking about me is it?Anyway,here's my reply:it's no point if e gy just stands there n waits for u,he must go out there n try out other relationships,if u r meant to be together in the end than it will be sweet.
Truth is if e other party is attached,one should just back away abit.If she really likes u more than her bf,she would break up w him to be u without u asking.... give her choices not headaches......
After reading what you wrote. I felt really sorry for you. And I think that the girl's being a bitch. (my opinion, I'm sorry) But I think she's being unfair cos she wants someone waiting for her somewhere, even after she's decided that her bf's still the best. I mean, WTF??!!

It's true, girls like guys chasing them, they like the wooing part. But it's so friggin unfair to want him to go on waiting and pursuing when she's not going to even give a second thought about giving him a chance. I mean, ARGH! I'm a girl, and I'm not supporting her way of handling things.
Above are my opinions. So I apologise if I've offended anyone