How to tell if a gal likes a guy?
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hee heeOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:i watch one show...says if .a girl likes a guy..she will wash his underwear for him
so....will you was my underwear? -
haha wat show was it.. wah if the guy never wear underwear then jia lat laio.. kekeke
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Any girl who is a friend, can practically do the above. I think if a girl likes a guy, the guy can sorta "feel" it, but for those "insensitive" guys, they will never know til the girl or someone else tells them.. hmm... so ma fan to be in love.. lolxxOriginally posted by bus:
I know this is a "chicken & eggs" topic but I would like to hear from your views. Thanks for all the comments in advance.
My judgement
1. She will always want to keep in contact with U.
2. very concern about U especially if U fall sick, depressed with life etc
3. Will share with U her secrets....
4. Will help U at all costs.
Any more to add?
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OK then how to justified WHY this gal will do the action (combing her hair near her ears using her hand -- some sort like playing her hair) ONLY ONLY to a particular guy she does not know in public places then?
Another common trick is she will look at the guy using her side eyes (not maintaining a direct look) and when the guy accidentally scan her view on her, she will pretend to look away VERY QUICKLY.
Another Common trick is in a food court, she will pretend to walk round the Food Court searching for food but when coming to meet up that guy, she will walk VERY NEAR AND SLOWLY passing the guy, hoping to collide into the guy so as to be able to strike up a conversation (if given a chance) with the guy!
The same applies to guy right, If a sexy gal appeared in public places, some guys will pretend to walk near to her to have a better look at her! -
Dats a long face... U look liddat...?Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:==^__________________^==
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maybe she's just vain? like it's a habit for her and she just likes doing that? don tell me every girl near you start doing that action then means they like you ah
i guess everyone has different ways la, if 'like' rite, means already noe the person liao.. if i like a guy, most prob. will be concern about him? then maybe talk alot to him lo.. but not too much or he will suspect la..
if it's a crush or obsession, then i will try appearing in place make to see him and let him notice me, and keep peeking at him and look at him when he's doing his stuff or wat.. -
Jialat.......... Like that then next time my underwear I must wash myself liao. Cannot call the maid to wash anymore.Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:i watch one show...says if .a girl likes a guy..she will wash his underwear for him -
I believe it is just a crush or obsession from the gal as it is really difficult for 2 persons whom do not know each other to fall in love just like that.Originally posted by puppylove:maybe she's just vain? like it's a habit for her and she just likes doing that? don tell me every girl near you start doing that action then means they like you ah
i guess everyone has different ways la, if 'like' rite, means already noe the person liao.. if i like a guy, most prob. will be concern about him? then maybe talk alot to him lo.. but not too much or he will suspect la..
if it's a crush or obsession, then i will try appearing in place make to see him and let him notice me, and keep peeking at him and look at him when he's doing his stuff or wat..
It happened to me quite a no. of times in Fast Food Restaurant, Food Court, Public Transports, Bus-Stop, Shopping Centres etc but I am still looking for the right one
There are cases where the gals I met at bus-stops did notice me & guess what,
1. She will start to comb/brush her hair near to her ear using her hand (usual way that all gals do leh)
2. She start to pretend to walk near & near to me!
3. When she is near to me, she will catch a gimpses of me as often as she likes till her bus comes!
4. It attracted the attention of the guys who is wondering who am I to those gals. by the way, I am not a Casannova or thing like that.
If anyone out there interested to know other stories that happened to me, well I am willing to write it down here.
I am just wondering why those gals behave this ways...I can only conclude that it is a crush on me (so thick-skinned, sorry for that)
Other than that, I cannot offer any good reasons for their behaviours -
no offence but those girls are erm....... so erm..... dunno wat word to describe that is not offending
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Hey puppy..... wanna ask u something..Originally posted by puppylove:no offence but those girls are erm....... so erm..... dunno wat word to describe that is not offending
You got crush on me anot? If have, next week start u take over the laundry from my maid k? -
Those gals are quite "up to standards" ones and not those erm erm..... U know what I mean lah... Trust me.
Some of them are with their Girlfriends at the bus-stop or alone (still wondering are they single ones?) & out of a sudden they will come closer and closer slowly
But I am still single (The greatest jokes on earth). -
erm why some gal like the guy dun dare to siad?? it veri funny sia?
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Originally posted by bus:Those gals are quite "up to standards" ones and not those erm erm..... U know what I mean lah... Trust me.
Some of them are with their Girlfriends at the bus-stop or alone (still wondering are they single ones?) & out of a sudden they will come closer and closer slowly
But I am still single (The greatest jokes on earth). X'mas is just round the corner, not! -
den i believe that bus is quite handsome eh?Originally posted by bus:I believe it is just a crush or obsession from the gal as it is really difficult for 2 persons whom do not know each other to fall in love just like that.
It happened to me quite a no. of times in Fast Food Restaurant, Food Court, Public Transports, Bus-Stop, Shopping Centres etc but I am still looking for the right one
There are cases where the gals I met at bus-stops did notice me & guess what,
1. She will start to comb/brush her hair near to her ear using her hand (usual way that all gals do leh)
2. She start to pretend to walk near & near to me!
3. When she is near to me, she will catch a gimpses of me as often as she likes till her bus comes!
4. It attracted the attention of the guys who is wondering who am I to those gals. by the way, I am not a Casannova or thing like that.
If anyone out there interested to know other stories that happened to me, well I am willing to write it down here.
I am just wondering why those gals behave this ways...I can only conclude that it is a crush on me (so thick-skinned, sorry for that)
Other than that, I cannot offer any good reasons for their behaviours -
Wat U trying to imply... All single guys r da greatest jokes???Originally posted by bus:Those gals are quite "up to standards" ones and not those erm erm..... U know what I mean lah... Trust me.
Some of them are with their Girlfriends at the bus-stop or alone (still wondering are they single ones?) & out of a sudden they will come closer and closer slowly
But I am still single (The greatest jokes on earth).
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you r not the noli one that happen like thatOriginally posted by bus:I believe it is just a crush or obsession from the gal as it is really difficult for 2 persons whom do not know each other to fall in love just like that.
It happened to me quite a no. of times in Fast Food Restaurant, Food Court, Public Transports, Bus-Stop, Shopping Centres etc but I am still looking for the right one
There are cases where the gals I met at bus-stops did notice me & guess what,
1. She will start to comb/brush her hair near to her ear using her hand (usual way that all gals do leh)
2. She start to pretend to walk near & near to me!
3. When she is near to me, she will catch a gimpses of me as often as she likes till her bus comes!
4. It attracted the attention of the guys who is wondering who am I to those gals. by the way, I am not a Casannova or thing like that.
If anyone out there interested to know other stories that happened to me, well I am willing to write it down here.
I am just wondering why those gals behave this ways...I can only conclude that it is a crush on me (so thick-skinned, sorry for that)
Other than that, I cannot offer any good reasons for their behaviours
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Hi.
but have you guys encounter cases where sometimes, the girl may reply your sms v promptly but sometimes does not.or thsi also applies to dates...its kinda sometimes in "warm" mode and sometimes "cold" mode..so the guy will be confused as to is this a "red" or "green" light for the relationship or she just aren;t ready at all???
puzzled man..
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Hi,Originally posted by Si|verGer:mayb u shld try to ask her straight wad holding her to be with u lor.. isn't she scare iof getting hurt or ezit she got bf or ezit she still can't 4get her x? it's best to ask directly lor..
sometimes it seems that the gal may just avoid the topic and its kinda of difficult to ask or maybe I did not try harder..and I may feel that if pursue further she may just be agitated and be scared off..and I feel she is too good to miss?? May be time and space is what she needs ?? Its tough to guess what a gal is thinking...sigh..
LGO -
wah biang!! Like that then I like all my friends liao!!
Originally posted by bus:
I know this is a "chicken & eggs" topic but I would like to hear from your views. Thanks for all the comments in advance.
My judgement
1. She will always want to keep in contact with U.
2. very concern about U especially if U fall sick, depressed with life etc
3. Will share with U her secrets....
4. Will help U at all costs.
Any more to add? -
Its oso tough for gals to guess wat we guys r tinking... where infact wat we "want" is VERY simple...Originally posted by lifegoeson:Hi,
sometimes it seems that the gal may just avoid the topic and its kinda of difficult to ask or maybe I did not try harder..and I may feel that if pursue further she may just be agitated and be scared off..and I feel she is too good to miss?? May be time and space is what she needs ?? Its tough to guess what a gal is thinking...sigh..
LGO -
i still think asking her will be the best......Originally posted by bus:
I know this is a "chicken & eggs" topic but I would like to hear from your views. Thanks for all the comments in advance.
My judgement
1. She will always want to keep in contact with U.
2. very concern about U especially if U fall sick, depressed with life etc
3. Will share with U her secrets....
4. Will help U at all costs.
Any more to add?
assuming is the worst thing to do.... -
I am not handsome by the way. Just a normal guy U seen on the streets. It is all the crush and affections between me and the gals lah. Today there is another one. Me & my colleague (female, married) went to the food court and there is this particular gal in skin tight top keep walking to and fro(playing her hair) in front of us. My colleague asked me is the gal my friend/someone I know? I told her -NO. My colleague is curious why she behave like that.
Feeling shy and just nice this gal's friends meet up with her then the gal and the group left us.
Well, if a guy keeps asking a gal for her hands/contact no. etc, she might feel agitated and decided not to associate with U -- worst right? Let's say if a guy wait for a gal, someone out there might be faster than U and U ended up with nothing.
Well, for my encounter with gals in the food court, it is very difficult to know them even if they are still single and say wanted to befriend me. They are also reserved as they might feel that I am a bad guy?
Unless the 2 keep bumping into each other and chances are that things might look good or else, please do not have high hope -
haha.. no way!! me will not crush on you.. you evil evil guy......Originally posted by Spear:Hey puppy..... wanna ask u something..
You got crush on me anot? If have, next week start u take over the laundry from my maid k? -
Dun bluff lah. Last night got doggy at my blk downstair 'woo woo woo' calling.Originally posted by puppylove:haha.. no way!! me will not crush on you.. you evil evil guy......
Is u trying to bio me right? -
Wow, puppylove going after spear?
There is one gal out there whom I kept in contact for about 1 year. we only communicate over the email as she is not that familiar (in the sense know me well) & had doubts over my sincerity(I guess) to her so she did not give my her HP No.
She just told me she just broke up with her 3.5 years relationship(we are just on friendship level).
I think I have a crush on her BUT she is 7 years my junior !! and she just come out to the society to work.
We can chat well when she is working in my company as a temp staff 1 year ago despite our age.
I will still regard her as my friend as I do not want to
1. Keep pestering her for Contact No. or else...
2. I do not want to lose her as a friend (maybe)