What will you do if...
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your bf/gf SLAP you during a quarrel? Will you pretend nothing happen, slap back or immediate break up?
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if gf slap bf, it must bf's fault, must be bf did something wrong, bf loss of face...
if bf slap gf, must be bf's fault, bf cannot control anger, bf loss of face...
either way, guy loss of face..no wonder many gals wanna slap guys
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ho ho ho ho i hope i dun do anything that bad to result in that~!
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Not fair... guy tio slapped no matter who right or wrong...Originally posted by Syusaku:if gf slap bf, it must bf's fault, must be bf did something wrong, bf loss of face...
if bf slap gf, must be bf's fault, bf cannot control anger, bf loss of face...
either way, guy loss of face..no wonder many gals wanna slap guys 
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hahahahaha, life is never fair...Originally posted by loneryu00:Not fair... guy tio slapped no matter who right or wrong...
if its fair, it would be a communist country -
I feel that resorting to violence is not to way to solve anything. But if I kana slap, which BTW has happen before, I will be dam angry and let it pass with a super stern warning... never to do tat again .. and if it happens again.... which is did, I punish her .... hurhurhur !!!
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u know... sometimes i feel the world coddles the females too much. i mean, look, at all those "women rights" la blah blah, they want the same things as we guys but the world is more protective towards the females, for example the quote above. then when we not happy with these kind of stuff, the girls will say we are sexists. i'm not sure i know exactly how to describe wat i am feeling, but well.. anyone sees my point?Originally posted by Syusaku:if gf slap bf, it must bf's fault, must be bf did something wrong, bf loss of face...
if bf slap gf, must be bf's fault, bf cannot control anger, bf loss of face...
either way, guy loss of face..no wonder many gals wanna slap guys 
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aiyah...tv shows give bad impression to many ppl...tis like if gals angry till pt of no return can anyhow slap others one..the other party sure wun retaliate one..bad influence i say, tsk tsk
those who've never slapped another person b4 will be tempted to try out one lor...once they've mellowed then they'll realise there's no big deal in slapping..if u think slapping can change the person/make him docile, u'd better think again...
aiyah..outside got so many stories how the fury of the slap caused numerous breakups..in a r/s must curb temper one..but these slap-happy ppl simply wun listen..it's like u having WMD and no one control u one... -
-______-Originally posted by kopiosatu:hahahahaha, life is never fair...
if its fair, it would be a communist country
Now I noe y I still single... not fair... NOT FAIR!!!
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ok lah, ger slap u
u punch her back lor
nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai -
Women's charter... Ok... WE guys ALL stop here... no more comparing boys & gals... later bcum war of sexes... I dun wanna see dat...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:u know... sometimes i feel the world coddles the females too much. i mean, look, at all those "women rights" la blah blah, they want the same things as we guys but the world is more protective towards the females, for example the quote above. then when we not happy with these kind of stuff, the girls will say we are sexists. i'm not sure i know exactly how to describe wat i am feeling, but well.. anyone sees my point? -
again, this is sexist...
why is there no Men's Charter to protect the men from the women?Originally posted by loneryu00:Women's charter... Ok... WE guys ALL stop here... no more comparing boys & gals... later bcum war of sexes... I dun wanna see dat... -
Well, I think slapping is wrong, regardless of who slapping who. But somehow, I think a guy slapping a girl would result in a greater physical pain due to the force of the slap. Girl's slaps probably feel like ants bites to guys.
I can understand however if the girl slaps the guy if she finds out that he's been cheating on her, or vice versa. Sometimes anger can't be contained. But at the end of it, what is that slap going to change? If you don't like something, then break up lo. -
cannot said it "woman rite"...sometimes guys are more unreasonable than gals. Worse still, use voilent to solve problem like beating wife, slap gf etc...
Life are always like that is onli see how we gtg to handle this stituation...
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Quite true... but lets sae da guy REALLY is innocent? then kenna slap for no reason... Yah... da physical pain is nth... but da emotional pain can be HUGE...Originally posted by dazzling_princess:Well, I think slapping is wrong, regardless of who slapping who. But somehow, I think a guy slapping a girl would result in a greater physical pain due to the force of the slap. Girl's slaps probably feel like ants bites to guys.
I can understand however if the girl slaps the guy if she finds out that he's been cheating on her, or vice versa. Sometimes anger can't be contained. But at the end of it, what is that slap going to change? If you don't like something, then break up lo.
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Well... dat depends on how smart U r in selecting yr bf... if yr bf is a good 1... I dun tink he act as wat U said... if yr bf is a jerk... good luck to U...Originally posted by lv_gal:cannot said it "woman rite"...sometimes guys are more unreasonable than gals. Worse still, use voilent to solve problem like beating wife, slap gf etc...
Life are always like that is onli see how we gtg to handle this stituation... 
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Fear not, nowadays society it seems gals are as violent as men..more gals becoming short-tempered...tolerance as a virtue has been mocked..power rulz liao...Originally posted by lv_gal:cannot said it "woman rite"...sometimes guys are more unreasonable than gals. Worse still, use voilent to solve problem like beating wife, slap gf etc...
Life are always like that is onli see how we gtg to handle this stituation...
so hor..we must not use violence against violence..just that ur stead is being unreasonable doesn't give u the mandate to slap the other party.
if i was the victim, i think i'll most prob leave her..why? the slap shows that she has the tendency to use violence when she cannot get her way. Sure, she may apologise and say she'll never do that again, but there's no guarantee on that promise. I dun realli mind if it's just me, but what happens if she decides to vent her anger on family members in the future? -
Oh dun mistaken, my husband didnt slap me..but some of my friends' bf are so eagar to know how to deal wif these stitution.Originally posted by Syusaku:so hor..we must not use violence against violence..just that ur stead is being unreasonable doesn't give u the mandate to slap the other party.if i was the victim, i think i'll most prob leave her..why? the slap shows that she has the tendency to use violence when she cannot get her way. Sure, she may apologise and say she'll never do that again, but there's no guarantee on that promise. I dun realli mind if it's just me, but what happens if she decides to vent her anger on family members in the future?
sometimes not all ppl can easily gif up a relationship. if cos of a slap and leave her, hmmm... arent show bonds btw the couple is not strong enough.
reali hard to choose the ways... is better dun have this happen lol...
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i dont quite support when guys behave like gentleman blindly.Originally posted by lv_gal:your bf/gf SLAP you during a quarrel? Will you pretend nothing happen, slap back or immediate break up?
though in most cases, guys should just walk away when being slapped.
sticking around and pretending nothing has happened is self-deceiving. trying to reason with the girl at that point of time is always definitely unproductive.
however, if the girl is being mere unreasonable, giving her a taste of her own medicine is not such a bad idea. of course, a subsequent break-up is always inevitable, and so be it. -
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ants bites? u wanna tryOriginally posted by dazzling_princess:Well, I think slapping is wrong, regardless of who slapping who. But somehow, I think a guy slapping a girl would result in a greater physical pain due to the force of the slap. Girl's slaps probably feel like ants bites to guys.
I can understand however if the girl slaps the guy if she finds out that he's been cheating on her, or vice versa. Sometimes anger can't be contained. But at the end of it, what is that slap going to change? If you don't like something, then break up lo.
anyway i agree, ungentlemenly to slap a female -
Originally posted by lv_gal:your bf/gf SLAP you during a quarrel? Will you pretend nothing happen, slap back or immediate break up?
must have done something VERY VERY terrible to deserve that. i'd be asking for her forgiveness. -
I don't agree with arguments in public. But if he slaps me in private, he can forget the whole relationship altogether. Even my parents haven't slapped me before, so who is he to do it?
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Pampered... As to how I view U as, by da way U said how U r treated...Originally posted by Indulgence:I don't agree with arguments in public. But if he slaps me in private, he can forget the whole relationship altogether. Even my parents haven't slapped me before, so who is he to do it? -
i totally agree!!being a gentleman doesnt = being an idiot!!have some self respect,i've seen guys been push-over in front of their gfs...no self esteem...no self respect....worse is if the gal is a BIATCH who will kick him when he's down.Originally posted by www:i dont quite support when guys behave like gentleman blindly.
though in most cases, guys should just walk away when being slapped. sticking around and pretending nothing has happened is self-deceiving. trying to reason with the girl at that point of time is always definitely unproductive.
however, if the girl is being mere unreasonable, giving her a taste of her own medicine is not such a bad idea. of course, a subsequent break-up is always inevitable, and so be it.
and walking away is always a good option if u can....walk away from each other....cool down for a few hours,maybe even a few days....then u will see that whateva u guys fighting about isnt really worth throwing a r/s away....or maybe its time to call it quits....
slapping biting and trying to kill each other is pointless.....will not lead u anywhere at all.
ps:i'm sorry bebe!