Chance or Choice
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When we meet the right person to love, when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen. I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love...
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly. -
hello? dont be so sentimental can? a bit not used to it..
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Very thought provoking indeed.
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i think he copy and paste from somewhere one lah!Originally posted by www:hello? dont be so sentimental can? a bit not used to it.. -
hahaha. i know lar. but try imagine kopi walks over to you and tell u all these love love stuff.Originally posted by edLow:i think he copy and paste from somewhere one lah! -
chim.. need some time to absorb
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BRAVO!!!Originally posted by kopiosatu:When we meet the right person to love, when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's
choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen. I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love...
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.
Din know u had the intellectual power to concoct the above... -
hahaOriginally posted by www:hahaha. i know lar. but try imagine kopi walks over to you and tell u all these love love stuff. -
err..i think the story is trying to tell u two things..Originally posted by oceanic:chim.. need some time to absorb
1. mai tuz liao!
2. chin chai lar.. -
bravo....*clap*clap*clap*
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u see me faint lor...Originally posted by www:hahaha. i know lar. but try imagine kopi walks over to you and tell u all these love love stuff.
Den everyday burn joss stick pray to god... and I will start going to church every Sunday for morning prayer. -
www why must you say until so low class?
hehe... but very good summary. lol -
thanks for the summary.. was kinda of lazy to readOriginally posted by www:err..i think the story is trying to tell u two things..
1. mai tuz liao!
2. chin chai lar..
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Originally posted by Tamade Extreme:
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of course lah~!!!! wah piang ehOriginally posted by edLow:i think he copy and paste from somewhere one lah!
for ur reading pleasure nia -
lolOriginally posted by www:err..i think the story is trying to tell u two things..
1. mai tuz liao!
2. chin chai lar.. -
chey.............Originally posted by kopiosatu:of course lah~!!!! wah piang eh
for ur reading pleasure nia
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we were very worried for u tat why have u become so sentimental and emotional all of an sudden.Originally posted by kopiosatu:of course lah~!!!! wah piang eh
for ur reading pleasure nia
So have u CALL her? -
call her lor.. don't wait for chance.. it's your choice Originally posted by edLow:we were very worried for u tat why have u become so sentimental and emotional all of an sudden.
So have u CALL her? -
Not me!!!! I'm asking her if he has call her again!Originally posted by sillyme:call her lor.. don't wait for chance.. it's your choice -
i know it's directed to kopi
Originally posted by edLow:Not me!!!! I'm asking her if he has call her again! -
love an imperfect person perfectly...i dunnoe...im totally imperfect and he loved me perfectly...(well, at least i tink so)
anyway, u r gettin so sentimental...is anything the prob?
its ur chance for makin ur own choice...get it? Originally posted by kopiosatu:When we meet the right person to love, when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen. I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love...
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly. -
i just cut and paste this from email lahhhh~!!!!
i am not sentimental!!!!!
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muahahahaha, too late pal too late~~ anyway, when are u gonna Find Her to get her number? and then to Call Her??Originally posted by kopiosatu:i just cut and paste this from email lahhhh~!!!!
i am not sentimental!!!!!
