Why do gers fall for married man?
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come across a few ladies who are still in their late teens (>20) but their boyfriend... i doubt anyone would have guess it. Married men in their thirties and forties. Initially, like most others, i thought that they are targetting the $$ of these guys. But, later i realised, these guys are actually living off the poor young soul.. its like cheating sex and $$.... damn
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so are u jealous / envy for the men?
or u feel sorry?
if you are in such a position (as a man) would u take it? -
Relax...then get married and got to gt one lor.... Married man tenh to treasure girl better then single man..... The act of siang and sayang them....
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I suppose some gers tend to fall in love with people who they feel they are able to provide support for...
As in...
I know he can't leave without me... So I am with him, besides he loves me... He trusts me and tells me all his problems... he so poor thing, I am the only one he has... blah blah... -
i think it's like a deal... the guy gives her money and the ger gives him the pleasure.... sometimes it isn't what you mention here... I once saw a young ger who is so obvious that she is flirting with this guy... anyone will know that she is throwing herself at him. it could be initially the guy sian the ger and she thinks that he's rich, but later when she ganna makan liao then she realised that the fact is he is a poor guy... but dun know why she still stick with him... maybe cos' she lend him a lot of money and if she dumps him, she can't get the money back loh.... some more who can know the truth... only themselves mah...Originally posted by Yellowz78:come across a few ladies who are still in their late teens (>20) but their boyfriend... i doubt anyone would have guess it. Married men in their thirties and forties. Initially, like most others, i thought that they are targetting the $$ of these guys. But, later i realised, these guys are actually living off the poor young soul.. its like cheating sex and $$.... damn
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But those uncles usually know how to sayang these gals more, not everyone see only $$$!Originally posted by Yellowz78:come across a few ladies who are still in their late teens (>20) but their boyfriend... But, later i realised, these guys are actually living off the poor young soul.. its like cheating sex and $$.... damn -
in what way they can sayang them more than us? give them money go mango buy clothes, go to dome for coffee....Originally posted by BlueMe:But those uncles usually know how to sayang these gals more, not everyone see only $$$!
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as you all know, girls mature earlier than guys. and some girls are more mature than most guys. (not saying that you all guys are childish lah)
the mature girls (or rather some girls who think they are mature or act mature) might find the guys of their same age not mature enough. the guys in their 30s or 40s are those who have been in the society for so long and more or less stabled down.
those girls will feel that these guys are more responsible, mature.... and some might feel that the guys have car, credit cards.... they feel more easier and convenient. and also they feeled pampered.
they usually will fall for those who are kind, caring.... which most of this kind of guys are married.
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but don't you think it look kinda funny to have an uncle beside you? i dun know if gers mature earlier than guys but i do saw some gers who still act like a child in front of their b/f. you know those who whine and throw little temper, speak in a squiky voice. who do gers nowadays want guys who got cars, credit cards... i thought nowadays gers are very successful. some so young can drive BMW, got Mastercard... so this phase of "and some might feel that the guys have car, credit cards.... they feel more easier and convenient" doesn't sustain. those married guys you're referring to here are those who are divorced or those who got wives? if it's the former one, then it's alright but if it's the later one, then don't you think you're a slut? breaking up someone else happy family is a very mean thing to do. just imagine what if it happens to you...Originally posted by eyelash curler:as you all know, girls mature earlier than guys. and some girls are more mature than most guys. (not saying that you all guys are childish lah)
the mature girls (or rather some girls who think they are mature or act mature) might find the guys of their same age not mature enough. the guys in their 30s or 40s are those who have been in the society for so long and more or less stabled down.
those girls will feel that these guys are more responsible, mature.... and some might feel that the guys have car, credit cards.... they feel more easier and convenient. and also they feeled pampered.
they usually will fall for those who are kind, caring.... which most of this kind of guys are married.
anybody wants to chip in some more? -
if the ger is 20+ & the man is in the 40s,it juz seems like u dating ur father...although ppl might say tat luv doesnt matter the age bt there oso someting call generation gap wat...Originally posted by eyelash curler:as you all know, girls mature earlier than guys. and some girls are more mature than most guys. (not saying that you all guys are childish lah)
the mature girls (or rather some girls who think they are mature or act mature) might find the guys of their same age not mature enough. the guys in their 30s or 40s are those who have been in the society for so long and more or less stabled down.
those girls will feel that these guys are more responsible, mature.... and some might feel that the guys have car, credit cards.... they feel more easier and convenient. and also they feeled pampered.
they usually will fall for those who are kind, caring.... which most of this kind of guys are married.
anybody wants to chip in some more?
i still tink most of them is aft the $$$ in the beginning,bt later part,r they realli in luv,i m nt sure...
then its kind of unfair...guys ard their age is looking 4 gf,instead of givin them chance,they prefer 2 gif the ah pek who is married & eventualli there will nt b happiness loh.
still tink tat more easier and convenient is an excuse...in order to be more easy & convenient,$$$ is still the main ting tat made tis happen. -
Married men tend to be more mature. They know how to carry themselves well, and they know how to act, say and behave to gain the trust and love of the girls. Also, they tend to mayke the girl sympathize with them, by saying that they have a terrible wife etc etc, or they're only staying married because of the kids and so on, and they lead the girl into believing that they'll divorce their wives for the girl, which is a load of crap. Sad to say, it still happens. I guess girls just need to wisen up.
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only they themselves will noe the truth i guess
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they song can liao.
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those so-called know how to carry themselves well, care for you, love you are all bullshit. I should say they know how to pretend in front of you, after all they got 20 over years experience of how to sian gers.Originally posted by dazzling_princess:Married men tend to be more mature. They know how to carry themselves well, and they know how to act, say and behave to gain the trust and love of the girls. Also, they tend to mayke the girl sympathize with them, by saying that they have a terrible wife etc etc, or they're only staying married because of the kids and so on, and they lead the girl into believing that they'll divorce their wives for the girl, which is a load of crap. Sad to say, it still happens. I guess girls just need to wisen up.
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yet, for my friend's position, she gave that man money coz' he claimed to have an expensive wife to upkeep.
If im married, i wouldnt fool around. Wouldn't want my children to know that their father is one that is morally crooked. Addition, i find keeping an additional home, tiring. I rather have a simple family structure. -
yaya.. duno y? sumtime married man do hv sum attraction.. mayb they knw hw to handles with gers more than young guys do...Originally posted by Yellowz78:come across a few ladies who are still in their late teens (>20) but their boyfriend... i doubt anyone would have guess it. Married men in their thirties and forties. Initially, like most others, i thought that they are targetting the $$ of these guys. But, later i realised, these guys are actually living off the poor young soul.. its like cheating sex and $$.... damn -
not all older guys r rich n can afford e gers cash or materials..
well sumtimes u can c a young ger with a much older guy but e guy might not hv anytin to give 2 e ger but e ger still happy 2 b with him..
mayb it e feeling, u feel more secure n comfortable w him.. older guy knw hw to treat ger better as in reli treat them with respects n mayb with older guy u tend to learn more things than from a younger guy... -
you wanna hear a joke... there is a young guy at th bar... he notices there was a middle age guy surrounded by a group of pretty and sexy gers... initially he was thinking maybe this middle age guy was buying them drinks but the fact is they're buying him drinks... and he isn't good looking... fat, short and a bit bald.. so he went up to him and ask... guess what is his reply? He shrug his shoulders, lick his own eyebrows and answer "I myself don't know too"....Originally posted by Si|verGer:not all older guys r rich n can afford e gers cash or materials..
well sumtimes u can c a young ger with a much older guy but e guy might not hv anytin to give 2 e ger but e ger still happy 2 b with him..
mayb it e feeling, u feel more secure n comfortable w him.. older guy knw hw to treat ger better as in reli treat them with respects n mayb with older guy u tend to learn more things than from a younger guy... -
older guys know the ropes well to satisfy younger women.
younger women tend to look for guyz ard their age but they often turn out to be inexperienced in handling their emotions n stuffs...
older guys have the upper hand here. as to why they'd spend $$$ them, perhaps this caught your attention at 1st coz wat you SEE contradicts with your views for these younger women after older men. When you dun, it's juz another r/ship of a guy living off the woman. -
married men have nice cars
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I must say men in their thirties are charming...the saying goes..
"Good men are either attached or dead."
I dun think it is money..women want to be loved and older men knows what women need. I think that's the reason. -
Fr wat i observe, i seem to know why younger women r interested in older men. Coz the younger men can never u/stand till they get older (older men then) that women juz need more love, attention, u/standing & a listening ear from them. Maybe young men have been all along mistaken abt women r interested in men for $$$ only (in general)