tinking of EX
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juz wan to noe anyone here ever tink of ur ex when u already haf a relation???
example- u broke off wif ur 2nd gf/bf,u r nw alone.
do u ever got thr intention to find ur 1st???in tis case can b any of ur ex...
wat r the chances tat u will go back & the chances of patching back???
for my case,i dnt noe y i seems to keep going back.
might b fang bu xia or dnt noe m i consider eat(chinese) qing.
tink mi consider myself stupid bt i m sure mi is confused.although mi got a few stead b4,dnt noe y i keep tinking of my first.
sometimes would tink of second cos we had the longest time together.to u all,i seems like v hua xin bt i juz dnt noe y i m like tat...
seems realli lost...........
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Dear FB,Originally posted by FiRe_BLaDe:juz wan to noe anyone here ever tink of ur ex when u already haf a relation???
example- u broke off wif ur 2nd gf/bf,u r nw alone.
do u ever got thr intention to find ur 1st???in tis case can b any of ur ex...
wat r the chances tat u will go back & the chances of patching back???
for my case,i dnt noe y i seems to keep going back.
might b fang bu xia or dnt noe m i consider eat(chinese) qing.
tink mi consider myself stupid bt i m sure mi is confused.although mi got a few stead b4,dnt noe y i keep tinking of my first.
sometimes would tink of second cos we had the longest time together.to u all,i seems like v hua xin bt i juz dnt noe y i m like tat...
seems realli lost...........
My best advice to you would to just keep yourself busy and hang out with friends and family and don't let yourself just sit and brood about the whole situation. You also have to realize that the only thing you can do now is to just learn from the whole experience and make positive what seems very negative to you. Also, just be patient with yourself as the only thing that's really going to fix things up is TIME.
Love is merely an emotion produced by chemicals in your blood. If you want to forget her, you can think in terms of pride
"Are you really going to let some chemical in your blood rule you forever, make you so miserable?"
Start reasoning that way and you will soon find yourself over her.
Don't be too fickle minded. Forget the past, cherish the present and you will treasure the future.
Cheers -
been trying v hard.since my sec sch time till nw.
tink the most regret in my life at tis moment is losing my first stead.
i tink i m decieving myself 2.i always take fate as an excuse.
by tinking,we got to same sec sch,both join band,in same section,same year become leaders of our section,r prefects.tot everyting will end aft cos wnt meet her often so wnt tink of her.
then she's looking 4 a pt job,then ask mi to recommend her in.didnt reject so wrking in same company.we study the same course,except tat she study in poly,mi in ite...i tot her results would bring her to better course as i tink she is a hardworking gal.bt juz to bad,her O's was nt gd.bt of some many engineering course,pian pian heng heng her 1 is same as mine...
hiaz...v stress....
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Originally posted by Master -_-:
Yup! I partially agree with this as well. Hai... who likes rejections? No one.
Dear FB,
My best advice to you would to just keep yourself busy and hang out with friends and family and don't let yourself just sit and brood about the whole situation. You also have to realize that the only thing you can do now is to just learn from the whole experience and make positive what seems very negative to you. Also, just be patient with yourself as the only thing that's really going to fix things up is [b]TIME.
Love is merely an emotion produced by chemicals in your blood. If you want to forget her, you can think in terms of pride
"Are you really going to let some chemical in your blood rule you forever, make you so miserable?"
Start reasoning that way and you will soon find yourself over her.
Don't be too fickle minded. Forget the past, cherish the present and you will treasure the future.
Cheers[/b]
But since you're so confused...maybe try to consult some close friends or people you can trust. Keeping yourself busy and going out with friends to be happy... this kind of "plessure" will only last you for a very short period of time. It's like getting yourself drunk and having a hangover the next day. Therefore, it's not a solution to run away from your problems. Instead, you have to face it and deal with it. You have no other choice.
What's done is done brother... now is the time to move on and start everything afresh. Erase the past from your mind - free your mind. Start planning for the future. I believe you will have a good future ahead. So start cherishing this moment and build a future for yourself. One must have an objective in life. But if a person have no goals, no plans, or no objective, that person will always go back to his past, brooding over things and not benefit from anything.
Seriously, I think it's now time to re-build your self-confidence, your mindset about the things around you, and your character... etc... perhaps, by doing so... you may encounter another group of girls coming into your life?? Who knows?! By then I think you TAO TIAH (headache) already ah... hahaha...
By the way, no such chemical called love. Love is not a chemical, it's a creation.
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I'm the type that think that if it's meant to be then it's meant to be. It's cliche, but probably true. So if the both of you are meant to be, then someday somehow you'll still be together. For now, there doesn't seem like much you can do ain't it? Stay happy.
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love is a chemical that is also found in Chocolates...if u wanna feel love...go eat chocolate.
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Personally, I'll never stop thinking about her. I gave my heart to her and it's something that's hers for eternity... shattered or not.
That's why I'll walk life's journey alone. It is not fair for whomever I should enter into a relationship with. I would be thinking about someone else when I'm with her.
I guess it's a personal decision.
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I pray hard for that to happen to me... I miss her. And think about her all the time...
words from a song about a heartbreak..
I don't think of you no more
Except for everyday or two
I don't think of you no more
Except for in between the sun and moonOriginally posted by dazzling_princess:I'm the type that think that if it's meant to be then it's meant to be. It's cliche, but probably true. So if the both of you are meant to be, then someday somehow you'll still be together. For now, there doesn't seem like much you can do ain't it? Stay happy. -
thx 4 all ur encouragement guys...
i will try 2 move on... -
You're welcome. Stay happy. It's not easy to move on sometimes and it really does take time, but you'll make it.
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some move on, and take a long time... but they will never ever forget or stop loving their ex...
some of these are broken, some find some way to live their lives, some, like me, find a weird sense of serenity... i did some soul-searching, and honestly came to the conclusion that if she wanted me back, i'd run, no, Sprint to her! i'll always be in love with her... and will have no one else beside me if it was not her... but if I never win her hand again, i'll be content that she showed me love, and what it means to live, showed me my humanity, and show me how to love.
there are some like me.. you're right, it's not easy to move on, but we do eventually... with a sad smile, an aura of strange contentment yet there is longing... it's strange... love plays strange sport with us...
i rant on... and think of her fondlyOriginally posted by dazzling_princess:You're welcome. Stay happy. It's not easy to move on sometimes and it really does take time, but you'll make it.