About our SG GALS and WHITE GALS
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About our SG GALS and WHITE GALS
- Big Apple Boy:
June 16, 2011 at 2:06 am
Big Apple Boy(Quote)
as i have dated both singaporean women and white american women it is fair for me to comment.
i notice that singaporean women are more materialistic on the whole and no doubt there’s this hegemony that a lot of chinese singaporean ladies demonstrate when they have a white guy on their arm.
for me living in singapore for the past 5 years and completely immersing myself in the culture of this city that i have come to call home, i have become all too familiar with the whole white-guy-chinese-girl topic.
oddly enough i have actually gone through several discussions with my singaporean friends on the topic of sarong party girl and will try my best to summarize the main crux of it from the point of view of a white american living extensively in singapore.
firstly, a lot of singaporean ladies argue that their preference in white men stem from the fact that most white men are more geocentric with a worldly view to certain subject matters which makes interesting conversation. i find this point of view difficult to comprehend as i have dated many highly educated singaporean ladies who are unable to relate to these so-called worldly topics of conversation which has left me stifling my yawns all too often at dinner dates.
secondly, some of my female singaporean friends have expressed unhappiness that their male counterparts do not know how a real lady would like to be treated and it seems that only white guys know what buttons need to be pushed.
finally, there is this impression that the color of a guy’s skin is a connotation to his level of wealth, success and aptitude (yes i have some very honest female singaporean friends!).
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I am curious about what "Bhw33" thinks..
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光良 - 童話
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Originally posted by Loor:
I am curious about what "Bhw33" thinks..
Here is my take. Disman, u chow ang mo gow sai, this forum is for Singaporeans. People in this forum define Singaporeans as Indians, Chinese, Malays, other Asians, and those whose skin colour is darker than paper used in a photocopy machine, so
GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS WEB PAGE
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Originally posted by Disman:
About our SG GALS and WHITE GALS
- Big Apple Boy:
June 16, 2011 at 2:06 am
Big Apple Boy(Quote)
as i have dated both singaporean women and white american women it is fair for me to comment.
i notice that singaporean women are more materialistic on the whole and no doubt there’s this hegemony that a lot of chinese singaporean ladies demonstrate when they have a white guy on their arm.
for me living in singapore for the past 5 years and completely immersing myself in the culture of this city that i have come to call home, i have become all too familiar with the whole white-guy-chinese-girl topic.
oddly enough i have actually gone through several discussions with my singaporean friends on the topic of sarong party girl and will try my best to summarize the main crux of it from the point of view of a white american living extensively in singapore.
firstly, a lot of singaporean ladies argue that their preference in white men stem from the fact that most white men are more geocentric with a worldly view to certain subject matters which makes interesting conversation. i find this point of view difficult to comprehend as i have dated many highly educated singaporean ladies who are unable to relate to these so-called worldly topics of conversation which has left me stifling my yawns all too often at dinner dates.
secondly, some of my female singaporean friends have expressed unhappiness that their male counterparts do not know how a real lady would like to be treated and it seems that only white guys know what buttons need to be pushed.
finally, there is this impression that the color of a guy’s skin is a connotation to his level of wealth, success and aptitude (yes i have some very honest female singaporean friends!).
Note: I extract the above statement from Temasek Review.Almost agree.
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wow, you guys are certainly not tolerant of people from other races... would you like the same treatment when you go to other countries and they condemn you?
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I am of Singaporean ancestry but I was born and raised in the USA. Thank God. Singapore girls are so cruel to boys. SG girls have no feelings. They just like to beat up boys. The men of my ancestor's nation are even worse. This anti-boy sexism is really the fault of the men. The men of SG society spoil girls rotten, they give girls whatever they want. These same men are very abusive to boys. This give girls the idea that they can do whatever they want to boys.
In secondary schools of SG, female teachers treat kids equally. It's the men who favor girls over boys. My teen boy cousins -- who live in SG -- suffer so much because of this. One of them tried to end his life by injecting dirty water [from a local river] into the vein in his wrist. He survived but the resulting systemic infection damaged his brain permanently. He is totally helpless now.
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what if you're 'white' and singaporean?
how to stereotype?
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Originally posted by Curious about china:
I am of Singaporean ancestry but I was born and raised in the USA. Thank God. Singapore girls are so cruel to boys. SG girls have no feelings. They just like to beat up boys. The men of my ancestor's nation are even worse. This anti-boy sexism is really the fault of the men. The men of SG society spoil girls rotten, they give girls whatever they want. These same men are very abusive to boys. This give girls the idea that they can do whatever they want to boys.
In secondary schools of SG, female teachers treat kids equally. It's the men who favor girls over boys. My teen boy cousins -- who live in SG -- suffer so much because of this. One of them tried to end his life by injecting dirty water [from a local river] into the vein in his wrist. He survived but the resulting systemic infection damaged his brain permanently. He is totally helpless now.
My cousin's brother's friend's sister'cousin smash his head in the toilet bowl coz he unable to deal with the humilation of being pee on by the girls in his school. He became a vegetable was constantly illtreated by a wicked maid. so sad
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Originally posted by IamVirgin:
My cousin's brother's friend's sister'cousin smash his head in the toilet bowl coz he unable to deal with the humilation of being pee on by the girls in his school. He became a vegetable was constantly illtreated by a wicked maid. so sad
How old was this boy? I sure hope he wasn't below 18 when this happened.
I strongly believe children should be treated in a genderless manner.
The following 3 facts -- when reinforced -- cause my circulatory system to go into shock:
1. Society forces males of all ages to treat girl-children better than boy-children. Society perpetrates this anti-boy sexism in all cultures and has done this ever since humans formed a society.
2. Singapore culture is the most intense in terms of this anti-boy sexism -- especially in secondary schools. This bothers me because my ancestors are from Singapore.
3. There is nothing I can do to change the above 2 facts.
Whenever the above 3 facts are reinforced, I feel strong sensations of fear, sadness, and disgust. Because these 3 emotions are so intense, my endocrine system reacts by putting my circulatory system in a state of shock.
When I'm in shock, here the medical signs/symptoms:
1. Cold, pale, moist skin
2. Bluish discoloration of lips, palms, and nailbeds
3. Muscle weakness and sharp pain in those muscles when attempts are made to contract them.
Will the girl-children and men of Singapore's society please stop being so cruel to sweet innocent boy-children? If not, then my circulatory system will continue to be hit with paroxsymal attacks of shock.
I lay the following blessing on any cruel Singpore girl:
When you grow up and if you have a child, you will have a son. Your son will be so soft, sweet, smooth, silky, creamy, elastic, and cute -- physically and emotionally. He will be polite, serious, calm, innocent and passive. He will keep his hair just short enough so that he doesn't look like a girl.
He will have no elements of anger, aggression, annoyance, drama, boredom, silliness, humor, pleasure, romance, sensuality, or sexuality in him.
At the age of 15, your defeneless boy will be bullied mercilessly by a gang of cold-hearted14-year-old girls, and you be helpless to stop them. These girls will slap, punch, push, hit and smack your son around until his arms, wrists, back, neck, face, and shoulders are covered in bruises. They will pull and play with his soft silky hair until he sobs. One day this girl-gang will lethally injure your son in front of you. He will then crawl up to you in sheer agony -- with tears streaming down his face -- and will utter his last words in an unusally high-pitched voice -- "I love you mom".
But you can prevent this by earning karma points. Simply stop mistreating boys now, and your son won't face the above tragedy.