Hi people, this is my first post, I'm not sure whether this is the right place to post, but I think it's better to ask the girls themselves.
I'm a 18 year old guy, currently still studying. There are certain things that I think is better to talk about with strangers than with friends.
I have this problem, 1 by 1, I keep on see my friends getting attached, and left me single. I've bad experience with my ex gfs, now when I look at pretty girls, I always have the perception that they just get into a relationship because of money, appearance and career.
Some times when I try to work on my studies, I cannot concentrate as I always wonder why am I single while some of my friends seems to be happily with their gf. I hate to be lonely, but I'm afraid that it might hurt again.
Some of my friends tell me instead of getting myself hurt, why not let the girls be the one to get hurt? But to me, any temporary relationship (those play play type one, fuk the girl and the next day don't recognise them) seems to be a waste of time to me, I prefer to have a permenant relationship with the correct girl.
Maybe some might laugh at me, cuz i'm a guy, can play but dun wan to play. But what I'm wondering about is that if a girl want a permenant relationship, how would they decide when they are looking for the correct guy?
u need Geylang....
gals will look for the best and everything possible....
most gers will go for $$$ n we have seen the termites swooning round JN....
why must get attached just for the sake of company?
if thats the case i think u better stay single..you still don't have the right mindset..
Originally posted by Fcukpap:gals will look for the best and everything possible....
most gers will go for $$$ n we have seen the termites swooning round JN....
not my fifi....
TS,sounds like u're just going thru one of the 'side-effects' of puberty,raging hormones... Just don't think about it and things will be ok,i think... Of cuz,it takes immense will power
Be yourself. Improve yourself in your image/appearance or whatever. Be more sociable, key thing. Start to have those facebooks/friendster etc. Drop hints to the girl you like. K basically thats all for now. =)
Originally posted by TTFU:Be yourself. Improve yourself in your image/appearance or whatever. Be more sociable, key thing. Start to have those facebooks/friendster etc. Drop hints to the girl you like. K basically thats all for now. =)
Drop hints,but don't make it too obvious all at once,it just scares girls off,and gives u a desperate feel
Originally posted by TTFU:Be yourself. Improve yourself in your image/appearance or whatever. Be more sociable, key thing. Start to have those facebooks/friendster etc. Drop hints to the girl you like. K basically thats all for now. =)
Drop hints,but don't make it too obvious all at once,it just scares girls off,and gives u a desperate feel
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it happened during my sch days too lol....all we see are studies and girls. So myopic huh. Just get a gf la, why all this yes and no, no and yes here.
my lagness makes me post 4 times.... godlike connection i having
TOPIC* ts... let me get this st8, u actually wants a gf bcos u have no company? k tats juz low n needy dont u tink?... look if u juz wanna enjoy yr life....u have frens rite? go enjoy wit them. no need to force yrself to find a gf for the sake of yr company. Its like as if u use a girl like a xbox. play wit her then off the console once ur done.