what gals really want from guys.....
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what's the more appropriate reply then?Originally posted by Gordonator:sensitivity. girls like man who are sensitive with them.
for example if she says, "i'm tired".
as a man, don't reply her with "sit down loh."
or if she says "i'm thirsty".
don't reply her with "ok u go and buy drinks yourself, i wait here. since u are going there help me buy as well."
or if she wears a new dress or have a new hairstyle, she expect u to compliment her on how nice it is how beautiful she looks. never answer her with "oh new dress ah? sorry i didn't notice" or "it looks the same as your other dresses."
in short, girls just wants wants guys to pay more attention to them.
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man always lose de la
just follow what girl says la -
For me, I want Security, Love and Money.
And driving licence and car. -
hello fren, u think too much liao
it will not happen in real life -
If she's tired, tell her, "Come. There is a place to sit, lets sit there."Originally posted by yeehaw:what's the more appropriate reply then?
If she's thirsty, tell her, "What drink you want? I go buy now."
If she got new attire or hairstyle, tell her this, "You make these look good."
Ok... the 3rd one is flattery, but its natural to notice new hairstyle or dresses and comment about it. More than ever its compliment rather than complaint. -
What if she ask u: " do u think i am prettier than yr exs" or " Am i fat"???
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man u r so good in this
but u will make the girl feel more proud
man already lose liao
don make us lose more, man -
If she ask, "Am I fat?", answer her this, "You are always beautiful."Originally posted by NewAge:What if she ask u: " do u think i am prettier than yr exs" or " Am i fat"???
If she attempt to ask, "U tink I prettier than yr exs?", stress her by saying this, "I intend to marry you, what you think?" -
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This one mah...Originally posted by wei84qiang:man u r so good in this
but u will make the girl feel more proud
man already lose liao
don make us lose more, man
I only ans the question, never said I get a gal who will keep asking me those questions, coz:
1. Some questions are invalid to me or her.
2. Normally I be the one to ask her if she want to rest or what.
3. She must be light hearted and cheerful so that she will not be paranoid and ask me these questions many times. -
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I ans the initial questions related to what Gordonator said and how yeehaw asked.Originally posted by wei84qiang:
Its not related to who I wanted to find and my search for specific qualities in the opposite gender. AND the girl I most likely get won't ask me those questions often or ask at all, because that is not very important to either of us for as long as we love each other, can liao. -
i get what u mean...
love is the main thing both party should have -
yup ,both ways
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both parties must have mutual trust.. and try to assist her if u can.
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yup thats rite..
everything lo -
sometimes they will want u to pay more attention to them, by asking u wats so special about her on the particular day.
New hairstyle?
New outfit?
New handbag?
Etc
if they couldn't get the attention from u.. u're in big trouble lol -
i think is paying more attention to them and be there for her whenever she needs u
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Simple
Compliment, security, romanticness and sincerity -
i always pay attention de.Originally posted by Gordonator:sensitivity. girls like man who are sensitive with them.
for example if she says, "i'm tired".
as a man, don't reply her with "sit down loh."
or if she says "i'm thirsty".
don't reply her with "ok u go and buy drinks yourself, i wait here. since u are going there help me buy as well."
or if she wears a new dress or have a new hairstyle, she expect u to compliment her on how nice it is how beautiful she looks. never answer her with "oh new dress ah? sorry i didn't notice" or "it looks the same as your other dresses."
in short, girls just wants wants guys to pay more attention to them.
b4 the girl says shes tired i already ask her if shes tired le if yes then ask her sit down
thirtsy also i ask her first and then ask her to buy herself if she thirsty.
and if wear new dress i will be the first to say very ugly and she looks fat or soemthing.
see i pay so much attention to the girls. but they all dun like me
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may i ask have you had a girlfriend? does she has this qualities?Originally posted by Bontakun:This one mah...
I only ans the question, never said I get a gal who will keep asking me those questions, coz:
1. Some questions are invalid to me or her.
2. Normally I be the one to ask her if she want to rest or what.
3. She must be light hearted and cheerful so that she will not be paranoid and ask me these questions many times.
basically, realistically speaking, everyone has flaws, she maybe light hearted and cheerful but she may require you to do somethings in which you are not willing to. Get what i am driving at?
This is not design and build a girlfriend. if you approach girls with this criteria list in mind, it is highly unlikely you will find one that fits you perfectly.
by the way, character changes. she may not be bothered about those nitty gritty things BEFORE she is with you, but AFTER you 2 get together, who knows, she may be paranoial about how she looks and dresses and wants your opinion in everything.
thus if you keep having this strict attitude of the girl I like will be like "this", imho, its either you wont find someone like this, or your relationship wont last long.
btw, sooner or later you will meet a girl whom you will like so much that you would probably throw much of these criterias out of the window. relationship is really give and take and not i find the perfect one and enjoy the rest of my life. -
Then you ask 'Am I cuter than your ex' or 'Do I perform better in bed than your ex'...Originally posted by NewAge:What if she ask u: " do u think i am prettier than yr exs" or " Am i fat"??? -
some times it varies from one to another
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I think you should tell her the truth if she ask any questions lor. BUt erm.. put it in a nice way
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In a spur of the moment i came up with this:
I don't need jewellery
I don't need flowers
It's your little gestures
That'll keep my heart melted
I seek your affection
Your attention
Your thoughts on the future
Whether you see us together
An innocent cuddle
A lingering gaze
A peck on the forehead
Never in a haste
Call me your dear
Whisper into my ear
Please don't treat me as
Just another girl
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I would like to think most girls do think like that. I mean... at the end of the day, it's about showering her with attention and appreciation.