Someone else's shoes?

• lexelle

  2 May 00, 03:26

  HiakZ~
  
  Have you ever try putting yourself in someone else's shoes?
  
  How close were you to the person's feelings?
  
  Are you really sure you can feel what he/she feels exactly?
  
  
  
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• t|rEd

  11 May 00, 15:38

  dun think i would be able to feel completely wat she feels, but at least, i know how i would feel, if the person targetted was me.
  and from there, i guess i can sorta try to comfort/empathise her????
• Benson

  11 May 00, 23:39

  i dont mind if his shoes are comfi to put on.
  
  but got to make sure he dont have Hongkong foot first.
  By the way, my size of 8 1/4 i think..
  hmm or issit 7 3/4..
  any doner? Pls onli good shoes...
  bad shoes didnt apply...
  
  this is cool...free shoes
• lexelle

  11 May 00, 23:55

  t|rEd:
  
  Yeah... but can you really comfort the person?
  
  Benson:
  
  *laughs hilariously*
  
  Thanks for the perk~!
  
  
  
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• t|rEd

  12 May 00, 01:36

  Lex:
  not sure, but there's no harm in trying i guess.......i mean, i would try lo, keep persisting......mayb i'll be more irritating, than comforting, but who knows?
  
  benson:
  speaking of shoe sizes, there's this guy in my class who's wearing size 14!!! it's the biggest available shoe size ion the shop, dunno bout the whole of singapore, but his feet is.....*gasp* just imagine, it's more than twice of mine......2.5 times i think...
• lexelle

  13 May 00, 04:31

  t|rEd:
  
  Keep it up being such a friend~!
  
  
  
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• t|rEd

  14 May 00, 01:53

  thank u. =)
  i'll try.
  
  "Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too"
• Maxine

  14 May 00, 11:53

  mmm...guess it's pretty diff huh? i tink i read somewhere tat usually the person in trouble tends to hate the person cormforting him to say stuff like "i really understand wat u going thru" or "i know how u feel..." coz he wld most likely feel misunderstood or feel tat how cld u possibly understand exactly the emotions and feelings going thru his mind when u r simply not him...mmm...am i making sense here
  
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  oh well, whatever, never mind...
• lexelle

  15 May 00, 11:24

  t|rEd:
  
  Good to hear that.
  
  Maxine:
  
  Nice views, different ppl react to different types of comforting methods.
  
  
  
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• Benson

  16 May 00, 11:59

  aaaaaaa......
  where is my free shoes??????????
  help the needy pls......
  hurry while stock last
  onli 2 bear foot availiable
• lexelle

  17 May 00, 16:50

  Benson:
  
  You need free shoes? Apply to the salvation army lah...
  
  
  
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