What do you think? Please offer your views.
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January 2002-May 2002
I got to know this gal a while ago and she piqued my interest.So I tried(still trying) to "get to know her better". Met with some resistance at first,but gradually I thought perseverance was finally about to move mountains.Just when I was experiencing a bit of success after trying really very hard,I found out that she was attached...I was bitterly crushed but Life still went on.I told myself that I'd still keep in contact with her (which I did)while keeping my options open and also seize any window of opportunity that came my way.So I waited...
31st May 2002
When she told me that she had broken up,I thought my breakthrough had finally came...3 hours later,Senegal beat France 1-0...Anything is possible now!!!
World Cup month
I rooted for all the underdogs-Senegal,Turkey,Ireland,South Korea.Why? Because my situation was(still is) pretty much like theirs so I could identify with them.For once,it really seemed that fairy tales can come true...I never felt so uplifted since I watched "The Shawshank Redemption".
July 2002
She told me she is attached again.I didnt expect her to get attached so soon again and the guy she only knew for a few months.Furthermore,she said the present relationship is very stable unlike the previous one.The window of opportunity closed as soon as it opened...
August 2002
I wanted to see her one last time before I go for SEP.She said her boyfriend would not be happy if we meet too often.Often? I meet her once every 2-3 weeks or more...So I am the sacrificial pawn yet again.Anyway I won't be seeing her for a few months till I come back from SEP.I think that would be a good break for me.
So what am I going to do about this situation? Like the first time-Keep in contact with her while keeping options open and wait for any window of opportunity to open again.
Any of you guys ever been in this predicament before?
"Geology is the study of Pressure and Time.That's all it takes,really.Pressure...and Time..."
Ellis "Red" Redding(Morgan Freeman) in The Shawshank Redemption
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Yo man
I understood it hard to be on the waiting list
and she taking u for granted( i guess )
so why not leave her behind and move on with life
Good gals are all around.
put in some effort and u will find a gal as good or better than her
that my 5 cent thou
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Now I am content with keeping in contact with her through email-her boyfriend does not allow us to meet at all...It hurts like a knife piercing through your heart but Life still has to go on...
Get busy living...or get busy dying...
For the second time in my life,I'm guilty of commiting a crime-parole violation.
Of course I doubt they'll toss up any roadblocks up there...not for an old crook like me.
I find I'm so excited I can barely sit still or hold a thought in my head.
I think it's the excitement only a free man can feel-a free man on the start of a long journey whose conclusion is uncertain.
I hope I can make it across the border.
I hope to see my friend and shake his hand.
I hope the Pacific's blue as it has always been in my dreams.
I hope...
Ellis "Red" Redding(Morgan Freeman) in The Shawshank Redemption -
Keep on looking. Sooner or later you are bound to find the right one. Or anyone that comes along your way.Originally posted by Doenitz:Now I am content with keeping in contact with her through email-her boyfriend does not allow us to meet at all...It hurts like a knife piercing through your heart but Life still has to go on... -
yah man... the forest is full of trees...
why get sad over one??
anyway think she is onli using you as a sub or maybe just to spite her boy boy...
who can be so petty as not to let her gerfren meet up with a guy fren?? -
Just dun get lost in the forest.
Happens all the time.....
(Bet you dunno what i tokin about....kekeke!) -
Doenitz,
I know it hurts to not only lose someone you love. But not being able to meet the other person freely because she is now attached would hurt me even more, putting myself in your shoes. But I feel if she really takes your friendship seriously, she would meet you anyhow. Can simply keep it from her boyfriend right? Although it might not be politically correct but that's the way to keep the friendship going.
Perhaps she was feeling lonely when she asked you out or something. Enjoy your break from this girl, you will definitely feel better and someone new and interesting might come your way, who knows?
Take care of yourself and all the best. -
The concept of yoyo... applied in a relationship such as this... gives u hope and leaves u down in the dumps...
you can choose to cut the string...