Sex is not a priority in this marriage
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Sex is not a priority in this marriage
In Singapore, you don't need a Prince Charming, kids or a lot of money for your marriage to last. Three women reveal what works for them, including one who said that sex doesn't play a big role in her marriage.
"Our marriage is great despite the fact that sex isn't really a priority," says Lisa, 32, a brand manager, who's been married to Ben, 35, a lawyer, for seven years.
In the interview with Simply Her, she said:
"Magazines often tell you that a couple needs to have sex often for their marriage to be healthy, which isn't true in reality. My opinion of how much sex a married couple's life should have has changed since I got married seven years ago. A couple can lead a very happy and fulfilling married life without much sex.
"We only have sex once every two to three months because we don’t have time. We have talked about our lack of sex and tried to do it more, but it’s just not very important to us.
“I think couples need to realise that they can’t have it all. It’s in our culture to work long hours, so although you have less time together, it makes you better appreciate the time that you have together.
"For us, sex is just another activity; it’s not a priority. We have more of a spiritual connection, rather than a physical one. We would rather go out for a late movie or take a dip in the pool when we have time. Doing things together as a couple is good enough.”
Go to the next page for Daphne's views on sex's role in her marriage. -
wats there to stomp about this??
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Originally posted by FireIce:
wats there to stomp about this??
A married couple is not having sex?!?!
OMG! MUST STOMP!
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they are mah
just not like rabbits -
We only have sex once every two to three months because we don’t have time. We have talked about our lack of sex and tried to do it more, but it’s just not very important to us.
Singaporean too stress over career, pleasing employer, staying employeable, keeping up with costs of living, reservist's duty etc to think about sex.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
they are mah
just not like rabbitsjust not with each other, lah
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Stomper fail
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It's normal if they are sick of seeing and enjoying each other's bodies all the time.
But I believe they will have more frequent sex life if they are willing to have sex with different partners.
Like that's why married people still go looking for ONS, same reason ...
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No wonder singapore birth rate is falling
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Having sex is irrational.
Another case of capitalism overriding biological need to procreate.
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Originally posted by fudgester:
A married couple is not having sex?!?!
OMG! MUST STOMP!
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the gal look like pig and the guy look like shit... so of cos no mood to have sex lah
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Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
the gal look like pig and the guy look like shit... so of cos no mood to have sex lah
That girl is a brand manager and the guy is a lawyer sia. Don't play play hor -
Originally posted by keeptouch:
That girl is a brand manager and the guy is a lawyer sia. Don't play play hor
Please lah u know how our MM and his daughter in law look like?? lawyer ?? brand manager?? -
everyday see each other at home. see and sex until sian liao. imagine eating your favourite dishes for lunch and dinner everyday. lol.
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
everyday see each other at home. see and sex until sian liao. imagine eating your favourite dishes for lunch and dinner everyday. lol.
You can try different uhhh...... variations.... of food.