This is the traditional wedding vowsÂ…with a fatal twist.
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“I give you this ring, wear it with love and joy. I choose you to be my wife/husband: to have and to hold, from this day forward. For better, for worse, for richer for poorer; in sickness and in health; to have and to cherish, as long as we both shall live.”
Now read the below added to the above,
"If I were to die before you, I want to do so knowing that you continue to live. You'll have to promise that's what you'll do."
What would you feel if your mate ask you to do the above on his/her deathbed (assuming your kids are all grown-up).
Should my mate demanded of me such a promise, I would have been destroyed. I could not bear to see her die and not join her, but I would have hated to violate my promise to her. So please do not make me give such an oath.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
then clone u read in mandarin lor
the yang guo and xiao long niu oath.
wen shi jian, qin wei he wu.......
who wanna continue for me?
[This message has been edited by mahjong (edited 16 May 2002).] -
I got read b4!
Wen shi jian,
qing wei he wu,
zhi jiao sheng si xiang xu?
Tian nan di bei shuang fei ke,
lao chi ji hui han shu?
Huan le qu, li bie ku,
geng zhong gen you chi er nv.
Jun yin you yu,
miao wan li ceng yun,
qian ri mu xue,
shuang yin xiang shui qu?
v=stands for the u with 2 dotz on top
and i 4got the nxt stanza =X
*dodges rotten tomatoes, eggs etc*
Dun kill me if got mistakez either!
*dodges old TV set, spinning choppers and various bits of metal*
[This message has been edited by licnep (edited 16 May 2002).] -
huwah
pencil u really got "lead" leh....
*kowtow to Qian Bi*
hmmmm... unless there's some "xin yuan" dat we have yet to complete/accomplish, if not i would rather die b4 he does or die together.... :p -
Too bad, usually the lifespan of ladies is at least 10 years longer than the gents.Originally posted by jAnY:hmmmm... unless there's some "xin yuan" dat we have yet to complete/accomplish, if not i would rather die b4 he does or die together.... :p
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Luckily... for that fact.. to see one's love die is too much to bear..
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Now for the real thing...
Well firstly I would not expect my loved one to do that for me coz it's totally impractical. Wad i feel is that as long as we have been through life together and lived it well and happy together, the meories and chances given to me will forever be remembered and cherished. It doesn't matter who leaves first. What we have been through is good enough.
Personal opinion though...NOW DUN KILL ME!
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Ok... ok.... dun argue liao...
go to the url below to check who will live longer
http://test.thespark.com/deathtest/ -
It doesn't matter who dies first...because when both parties have already reach old age, they should be prepared to know that one day eventually, humans will die...let us just live with this and when it happens let's put it that maybe the other partner is at another paradise, happy and looking forward to receive you when its your time?
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die got as light as feather or as heavy as tai san.
so just live happily
becoz no matter happy or sad
life still continue.
so just make yourself happy -
I agree MJ...as long as you are happy and have not done anything that is wrong to your conscious...that is already good enough
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wen xin wu guai???????
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I think wat matters is how u feel when u r with your love one....
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.
"People will forget what you said or did...
But people will never forget how you made them feel..."