Older Woman, Younger Man
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Nowadays, there are alot of couples where the gal is older than the guy...how you all feel about it?
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Old as in how wide is the age gap?
Between 1 - 5 years gap, I don't mind.
Above that I will try not to because I am 30.
I like to have children of my own someday.
If my wife has passed her safe 'reproductive age', I won't want to risk her life just to bring another into this world.
The age gap changes accordingly with my age.
Guy Gal
20 30
25 32
30 35
Beyond this, I won't consider us having kids unless she is in perfect health.
People may say that age doesn't matter if you are really in love with each another but there is other things in life that comes along naturally after marriage.
We mature as we grow, our mindset changes, our surrounding changes... who knows what is not acceptable today might be tomorrow and vise versa.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
I dont mind too... if between 2-3 yrs old.
Any taker? :> -
She can onli be at most 1 yr older than mi...
:p
So those ladies who are between 22 to 30 y/o... beware !!! kakakaa :p -
age only mah
nevermind la
as long as can get along. -
Well then MJ..if this lady comes along and is like 5-8yrs older than you...you really don't mind??
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BM ah... let me show the stats for you hor.Originally posted by zzzzland:She can onli be at most 1 yr older than mi... :p
So those ladies who are between 22 to 30 y/o... beware !!! kakakaa :p
Eligible Singapore 22 - 30 year old females.
Approx 250,000.
Singapore 22 - 30 year old eligible females, Chinese.
250,000 - 120,000 = 130,000.
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried Chinese.
130,000 - 55,000 = 75,000 left.
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried, unattached Chinese.
75,000 - 60,000 = 15,000
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried, unattached, not-les Chinese.
15,000 - 10,000 = 5,000
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried, unattached, not-les, fits your criteria Chinese.
5,000 - 4,968 = 32
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried, unattached, not-les, fits your criteria Chinese who is not in your channel.
32 - 27 = 5.
Good luck hunting for these 5 hor.*
* Based on the statistics collected by SDS combined with Clone's wildcard stats.
"Dun be chosers, lest be chosen."
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
errrr .... how did CloneMe come up with the stats huh???
really got so many LES around meh???? :O -
Wow..So many les... ard meh ??
Alamak...no wonder i m still single.. LOL
Any girl that is 1 to 2 yrs older than me shld be ok la...Of coz if older, still look younger than me also OK la...I dun wan to be look like a younger bro.. LOL
As for whether younger girls will suit me, that depends a lot on interest and character...and so call "X" factor loh..
No point having a gf that is young and pretty when she tok things that I had a hard time catching...
I can't stand ladies who are over make-up...lol too unnatural liao...and the perfume turns me off... "ah choo!~!~"
But exception, like special occasion and due work, I can understand la... "you sui bu ai mei" ? -
Wah Clone...your stats really fantastic man....sighzz BM i pray hard hard for you okie!! kekekeke
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MJ rite.. most impt is can get along.. although generally I still prefer younger.. too big a gap I will look like the brother..
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from my own experience...... unless ger oledi 28-30.... den choose guy 25-27... ok...
if ger only 23-25.... guy 20-22.... not ok..... cos the guy still quite childish in thinking and behaviour.....
believe me....... qing shen ti yan...
*sigh* sad sia
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Well Tristal,
I agree with what you said cause its scientiically proven that gals mature faster than guys... hence better dun find a guy who is 5yrs younger than you cause you will have a headache kekekeke -
That's how non-Singaporean partner come into the picture....
Anyway, i agree with ^3rdWatch that ideally she shld be in her 20s if we all intend to have our own kids.Originally posted by ^3rdWatch:BM ah... let me show the stats for you hor.
Singapore 22 - 30 year old females, unmarried, unattached, not-les, fits your criteria Chinese who is not in your channel.
32 - 27 = 5.
Good luck hunting for these 5 hor. -
haha, so do i belong to one of the 5??hahah
Nowadays guys love to go for older gals hah...but for me, i feel that my partner should be older than me, so that he can understand n know how to handle me better..hehhe -
That I definately agree with you Michiko..especially you so sparstic...hahahaha
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Can true love really conquor all? Even it means having to disagree with parents who won't even approve of the relationship?
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No... love cannot conquer all.
I think the moral support from our very own family is very impt cos I am still traditional in Asian family values leh...Originally posted by Hershey:Can true love really conquor all? Even it means having to disagree with parents who won't even approve of the relationship? -
Hmmm... taking into consideration the above criterea...
There is only 2 available ladies in Singapore for BM.
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~CloneMe~
It won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever. -
2 available ladies?? Which is who and who??
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what is "true love" (?)
I used to believe in "True love conquers all" .. but not so now.
I think as long as we live in this world with some other pple (related to us in 1 way or the other) ... then, we need to take them into consideration when making BIG decisions.Originally posted by Hershey:Can true love really conquor all? Even it means having to disagree with parents who won't even approve of the relationship? -
Bern... Dunno leh... like looking for needle in haystack.
If we have to take into consideration of our parents, relatives, friends, region, race, religon etc... we will complicate our search for a soul mate.
Might as well take your own gene and clone a female/male version of yourself.
100% compatiblity guranteed.
Rejecting your own clone is like rejecting yourself.
The most important question you should ask yourself is...
You feel you know your mate well enough to be marry to him/her. After the marriage, will continue to learn to know & understand him/her (good & bad things come what may) for the rest of your life?
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~CloneMe~
It won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever. -
WEll Clone...good question...of course if i marry that particular person, I am hopping to live and learn things together with him but, in life there is no bed of roses, sometimes i feel even though we have both been married, we might not understand each other? Hence you can see the high rate in divorces now?
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true love dun conquer all......
it conquer 1 self only.