Guys ar Guys
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Why is it when they are in the wrong, they sometimes refuse to apologise adn even saythat it is the womens' fault??
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gt meh??? nt realy lar..some guys dn do tatOriginally posted by Hershey:Why is it when they are in the wrong, they sometimes refuse to apologise adn even saythat it is the womens' fault?? -
It all depends on his character or upbringing...
usu for guys, they dun admit their mistake (esp, when it is in the public wif his gerger & other frens)..
perhaps it is MCP or male ego issue lor...
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Yeah lar...the EGO thingy again...sighzzzz....MCP and EGO so big meh?? Sometimes just don't really understand lor....so BM....are you also very MCP???Originally posted by zzzzland:It all depends on his character or upbringing...
usu for guys, they dun admit their mistake (esp, when it is in the public wif his gerger & other frens)..
perhaps it is MCP or male ego issue lor...
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To be a guy to trash on another guy... hmmm...
However on the fair side, it has to something to do with the testosterone found in the male of the species.
Failure to admit to one's mistakes has nothing to do with sex.
It is just being stuborn. -
Okie...so its is guys to be like that since its found in the testosterone....hmm.....sounds like an excuse o meyou know??Originally posted by CloneMe72:To be a guy to trash on another guy... hmmm...
However on the fair side, it has to something to do with the testosterone found in the male of the species.
Failure to admit to one's mistakes has nothing to do with sex.
It is just being stuborn.
Anyway on the failing to admit mistake is due to stuborness....that one i can agree on it... -
Hehehe...Life is just one short period....Who is wrong who is rite dun need to be so calculative one lah...Most impt just be objective, dun just say tat you are guy must apologise 1st.....Sometimes even when the guy is willing to eat the humble pie and apologise liao, the ger still feel not happy...so like that whose fault issit? The guy for making the mistake or the ger for being so unforgiving??? That's y life is such a short period of time, not pt pointing fingers at each other. It takes just one min to get angree, but a long time to forget....so if you can just left go of that one min....you save a long time of suffering.... 
Life is short, play hard, work hard, and do what you want.....Eventually it's yourself.... -
Inject yourself with the hormones and you willl think like us guys... it's mother nature's fault.
Originally posted by Hershey:
Okie...so its is guys to be like that since its found in the testosterone....hmm.....sounds like an excuse o me you know?
Anyway on the failing to admit mistake is due to stuborness....that one i can agree on it... -
there are sensitive guys out there....
just that you havent met one thats all.... -
I thought that's more applicable to girls...?Originally posted by Hershey:Why is it when they are in the wrong, they sometimes refuse to apologise adn even saythat it is the womens' fault?? -
Inject myself with male hormones....hmmm..okie why not like that...i inject myself with male hormones and you with female hormones..then you know how bad it can get when you have to have monthly sickness, PMS and stuff.....Originally posted by CloneMe72:Inject yourself with the hormones and you willl think like us guys... it's mother nature's fault. -
Nah....nowadays...more applicable to guys....Originally posted by Devil1976:I thought that's more applicable to girls...? -
i have a guy fren that apologises to his girlfren no matter whose wrong or right. he say very sick of his girlfren becoming angry then not happy show face so he say jus say sorry then everything will be fine.. haiz then he will become unhappy because he always have to give in... n his girlfren taking him for granted at times. haiz
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Guys and Gers got their fair share of been stubborn ... just that they are in different ways ...
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True true...maybe its all boils down to the person.Originally posted by nick34:Guys and Gers got their fair share of been stubborn ... just that they are in different ways ... -
Talking about guys....sometimes my guy wants me to change certain behaviour or things cause he feels it will be good for me or i will look good in it...so gals, do your guys often do this to you? Guys, is it true that often you would want to mould your partner to be someone you prefer her to be or aceept whoever she is??
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I think there is a difference between 'suggesting' and 'insisting'. If your guy INSIST, then got problem lah. if the guy 'suggest' and u refuse to take suggestion and he gets angry, thats equilvalent to INSIST tooOriginally posted by Hershey:Talking about guys....sometimes my guy wants me to change certain behaviour or things cause he feels it will be good for me or i will look good in it...so gals, do your guys often do this to you? Guys, is it true that often you would want to mould your partner to be someone you prefer her to be or aceept whoever she is??
Anyways, there is a chinese saying that says "Nan Wei Zhi Ji Ze Si, Nu Wei Zhi Ji Ze Rong" meaning 'man will die for person, who understand him; AND woman will beautify for the person who makes her happy'
SO~ man, go make your girlfriend happy, she will look pretty for you .. hehehehehe
AND~ woman, go understand your man, and he will do anything for you!!
Cheers~~ -
Advise from a wise and married man.
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i think in an arguement there is no right or wrong..
diff ppl have diff point of view..
so if both stubborn like me and my gf... fight for 2 yrs still cannot solve...
its not a matter of who's fault it is or who should apologise... but who is more mature enough to save the situation..
btw saying sorry doesn't really have to mean that i'm at fault..
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agree with you that saying sorry does not mean that you are at fault...but if everytime a problem happens, you keep saying sorry, it will not solve it rite? What is most important is to solve the problem and not brush it off just by saying sorry because you do not want any arguments.Originally posted by -=[ChEeZe]=-:i think in an arguement there is no right or wrong..
diff ppl have diff point of view..
so if both stubborn like me and my gf... fight for 2 yrs still cannot solve...
its not a matter of who's fault it is or who should apologise... but who is more mature enough to save the situation..
btw saying sorry doesn't really have to mean that i'm at fault.. -
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Yoz.. Looks like all the ppl r here..
Well i hope i am not too late in joining u guys..
Sorry.. haven been able to log in irc these days.
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True..but gals are creatures that can be jealous easily? Anway if the guy compares it one or two times..maybe still acceptable..what is the guy keeps comparing...won't you feel frustrated? If your gal keep comparing you to other guys...how would you feel?? One should accept their partner for who they are and not for what you want them to be.Originally posted by mushroom_soup:think tat if the bf gives suggestions on behaviour or dressing etc etc, it is alrite la. but it is definitely an MCP thing if he compares u to another gal and says that she is behaving nicer than u or looks nicer than u etc etc...
an opinion fr moi