Hate his guts or simply luv it?
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Hi fellow #zzzzlanders,
If one day u are either wif yr frenz or alone at a shopping mall or place like dat, when one guy approached u wif the intention of befriending you, now wat would yr reaction be like?
Wanna hear yr views and esp on this, do u actually love or hate his guts for doing so?....Guys' views are welcome too...
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LiTeBu|b ©
GalaxyNet #ZzZzLanD
Welcome to Blue_MooN Domain -
no hate ... no luv lah ...
but sure kenna frightened off one ...
and definitely won't agree to let him know me ...
dao hor?? -
I admire his guts.. I don't have such foolhardy courage.. my classmate did it once.. he say it was becos I was ard.. else he dun dare also.. Well this is quite admirable.. not every1 so thickskin ok.. well.. there are so many chio bus out there.. if u dare.. who knows.. u might just succeed.. last time my squadron got 1 sgt whom is this thickskin and managed to marry her..
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Maybe our Joylet is a shy lady leh...
There is a song from Sky Wu...
Zai Ai Qing Mian Qing Bian De Miao XiaoOriginally posted by Joylet:dao hor?? -
Joylet, you jun or not... saw u beo yan yan on the road leh - CloneMe
As for me... I would hem, haw and check whether my zip is undone or not. -
for ur info horr ... i once horrr dare to approach a guy in my poly ok ...
me shy at times but CRAZY most of the time .... i tell u if now see him on the streets i will dig a hole n hide.
Guys if a ger approach u in this manner ... how would u feel? -
If gers approach mi....
I will feel flattered lor...
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Me agree wif Sam.. but I no such luck.. next life then maybe the Q reach me..
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approach only mah wont die.
i last time always approach stranger...... -
MJ we know u damn thick-skinned one lah ...
But usually (for my case) I will not have "good impression" on guys who approach gers on the street lorr :X -
aiya.
u always thing yy.
i last time property agent mah.
always go knock on stranger door la.
/me pat pat joylet. -
*sotongs*....hmmh..
What's the approaching...??
Approaching define think b4 u act, walk slowly towards her...oh...perspires...then asked...
"Chhiiooo Buuu,,..cannn ii daaatee u toonitee??
"Piak"....u gt no 5Cs....
:~~~sob sob...
From that day, on i nv approach anyone liao...... -
who ask u to go for chio bu ??
errr but then again .... everyone's standard of chio bu different horr ...
Sots .. dun be disheartened
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There is the saying:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Qing Ren Yan Ni Chu Xi Shi -
Do or do not, there is no try.
~CloneDa~
Sotongs, there is a person so close to you, that you have not paid notice to...
[This message has been edited by ^3rdWatch (edited 28 April 2002).] -
If the person approach me like that i will definately be kinda shock. But if the person does show sincerity in befriending you, why not? I mean sometimes that is how we know friends rite?
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Hey Hey Hey.....
For the past 2 weeks, I have been mentally prepared to approach ger that i admire next time I come across!! Lots of preparation before the CONTACT eg.. opening speech, how to respond, how to retreats etc...LOL
Rite now , I got some ideas as to go along , will take my plans into actions real soon . Hopfully, watever the outcome, i can improve on my guts , thicken my skin, reduce my shyness and improve my conversation skills!
I believe no risk no gain.
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Tell u all my worst encounter.
i waiting for train at the MRT and 1 Indian guy say he juz came back from London and directly give me his phone number and ask to be friend wif me.
I quickly run into my train. Worst is, he seem in his late 30s. Wah piangz..... -
Wah... Tristal ... u are so charming sia~~~
till today no gers approach mi yet leh~ -
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
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*wide wide smile*
For a start, i define 'befriending you' as a stranger starting talking to me.
I get pleasantly surprised for such 'out of the blue' encounters. I would probably looked bewildered for a while and maybe smile (appear friendly unless of course u r in such a lousy mood that u r ready to 'bite' the next person that irriates u).
I personally do have some interesting encounters with people in lifts, mrt stations, while walking on the road, in taxi rides, shopping malls, in buses, in bus queues, in mrt, at east coast, at book-stands .... etc.
There is nothing to love or hate the person who do that to you, appreciate the effort made by that person. (i beg to differ in situations where this person totally irks you off .... ).
Enjoy the experience, it can put a smile on your face for the rest of the day.
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That was the impression Topazz gave to me when I went to the 1st outing with #zzzzland people.
She was really friendly.
Thanks Topazz.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
and clone remember dun any how mor mor...
later u kana throw into the sea by july.... -
"Peng You Qi, Bu Ke Qing."
I think it means friend's wife, do not molest?
To betray a friend/family is the lowest one can get.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
I dun hate his guts.. No love for him either. will give him the chance though but depending on how he ask. Would prefer direct style.. no need to think of anything witty. jus simple honesty n sincerity. that time my fren on mrt this guy came up to her and say
" hello i am 30 yrs old my name blahblahblha i work where where where.." my fren got such a shock she alighted at the next stop. and the only thing we can rem is he is 30 yrs old.......... my impression was eiher he was so nervous he blabber all the way. in fact i think he is quite dumb. start off with the name first la.. then get number. why blabber so much... but his guts oooo i admire. one day i mus try getting guy's number like this. jus making more frens no harm done.
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i wish not for love that will break my heart in two;I fervently pray jus for lots of money to come into my way.