Life
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Life is very unpredictable
You will not know what is going to happen or what you have now will be with you in the future. What matters most is to be happy now, even if you're alone.
Being alone may not be a bad thing. At least for me now, I know that it's not easy to find true love and also to have the kind of respect and love from my other half.
Why settle with someone whom you don't love but just to have someone in your life? Keep searching. Heaven will provide only the best for you!
At least I know that I have my family and true and close friends. That matters too! If you have found your true love, congratulations! You're really blessed. But it doesn't stop there. You have to continue to maintain it and make the love grow. True love will never end.
Sometimes...
Sometimes in your life you might feel lonely. It's that time when you are all by yourself thinking for once in your life that you want to have someone to share your life with.
Sometimes you wonder what life would be like to have that special someone again. And sometimes you wonder whether if ever you will find the right person.
But what is right and and what is wrong you wonder.
How can you tell when you have met that person? How do you know that it will last? How can you tell that he or she will not change?
Sometimes when you met that someone, he will change as time goes by. Everyone changes you say. But if that somebody is really that someone you have been looking for, one thing should never change and that is his or her love for you.
You have heard of the famous saying "Through thick and thin" but most couples could not survive that period.
You have heard "Love conquers everything" Does it really? In search of love you sometimes get confused between infactuation and true love.
Infactuation is the thing that will not survive "thick and thin" and neither will it "conquers everything". How then you asked yourself, can you tell the difference.
Ask yourself, did this someone stick to you no matter what how many of your bad sides have you shown to him or her. Can you call this someone and ask for help or favour and he or she and you will not fear "no" as an answer. Can you rely on this someone no matter what state is he or she in, be it angry or sad, happy or dissapointed.
He or she is always willing to hear your problems. Can you look into this someone's eyes and you feel that you understand him or her or suddenly you know what he or she is thinking.
There is no need for anyone to speak.
The list of questions to ask yourself would be endless.
The bottomline is to remember that true love is a perfect balance between two people. It's not one sided. It's a perfect harmonious compliments between the two.
Sometimes, the best way to obtain true love is not to wait for true love to come to you but to search for it. And not by going to everyone and asking "Are you my true love?" but by giving him or her the gift.
The gift of love. It is only by giving your love to someone that you will find love lifted to new levels that you never dreamt possible. And when you have found your love... it is by giving that you will sustain your relationship. Never stop giving, ever...
Sometimes but not all the time, you shouldn't take people for granted for sometimes people are blind and not notice the extraordinary of the ordinary...
Sometimes you have to love that someone just enough coz that someone you love might be someone you hate and hate that someone just enough because that someone you hate might be someone you love someday...
Sometimes life takes a very interesting turn... what you never expect, happens and what you expected, never...
[This message has been edited by zzzzland (edited 04 April 2001).] -
hi Blue Moon,
came to "peng chang" after seeing your advertisement.
wow, you wrote all these during office hours ah ?! naughty eh......
anyway, i agree with most of the above. sometimes that's what i say to "kai dao" my frens also but unfortunately i realised that i do not practise what i preached. so mabbe i need someone to "kai dao" me as well
perhaps we should not think too much and too deeply and compicate things. just try to enjoy everyday as it is. life will be easier and we will feel happier......enjoy life as it is now :p -
Wah...beri beri cheem...Thou I understand wat bm and Jave are trying to put across,I think Jave ended very well,jsut live life as it is...the rest leave it to fate.Haii like mi like tat almost 1/3 of my life is over and I haf yet to achieve anything at all..
Realli Liang Xiu Qing Feng Kou Dai Kong Kong..Hahah..
Wen Shi Jian Qing Wei He Wu,Zhi Jiao Ren Sheng Si Xiang Xu... -
Wah...beri beri cheem...Thou I understand wat bm and Jave are trying to put across,I think Jave ended very well,jsut live life as it is...the rest leave it to fate.Haii like mi like tat almost 1/3 of my life is over and I haf yet to achieve anything at all..
Realli Liang Xiu Qing Feng Kou Dai Kong Kong..Hahah..
Wen Shi Jian Qing Wei He Wu,Zhi Jiao Ren Sheng Si Xiang Xu... -
Life is simple.
Nothing chim.
Live with a purpose.
Lead a simple life and be contended in life.
Eat when u r hungry.
Sleep when u r tired.
Work when u hv no $$$.
Kiss when u find yourself mouth itchy.
:X stop blah...blah... when u find yourself
too talkative.....oooh..just like me.
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With Love,
Sotongs -
"Never Give Up"
When things seem difficult
& life uphill
Dun look too far ahead,
Keep plodding on
& inch by inch
The Road will shorten,
Till the roughest patches will be past & gone
And you will look back,
Surprised & Cheer
To find that you left so many hills behind
And very soon the tedious climb will stop
& you will stand trimphant
At the TOP
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"A great man must be mindful of nine things"
To see beyond what he looks
To listen beyond what he hears
To be gentle in looks
To be respectful in manners
To be true to his words
To take pride in his works
To ask when in doubt
To think of the consequences
when in anger
To think of Justice & Fairness
when accepting an advantage
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[This message has been edited by jAnY (edited 18 April 2001).] -
Your Life Holds
Unlimited Potential
and Wonderful Dreams
You have the ability to attain whatever you seek; within you is every potential you can imagine.
Always aim higher than you believe you can reach.
So often, you'll discover that when your talents are set free by your imagination,
you can achieve any goal.
If people offer their help or wisdom as you go through life, accept it gratefully.
You can learn much from those who have gone before you.
But never be afraid or hesitant to step off the accepted path and head off in your own direction if your heart tells you that it's the right way for you.
Always believe that you will ultimately succeed at whatever you do, and never forget the value of persistence, discipline, and determination.
You are meant to be whatever you dream of becoming.
~Cloneme~ Dreamer