To Love Or Not to ??
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You Never Lose By Loving
You Always Lose By Holding Back -
Oh...no..
I'm not holding back.
I'm just not being attracted.
So I choose not to move..
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With Love,
Sotongs -
Yoda once said...
"Do, or Do Not... There is No Try." -
"The human HEART can SEE what the @@s cannot SEE & FEEL what the mind cannot UNDERSTAND."
"tO LuV SomEOnE u LiKe iS sO EasY......tO bEinG LuV By SomEOnE iS So DiffCuilt"
"fate determines who comes into our lifes ... but the heart determines who stays.."
"To love is to give your heart to someone who would appreciate your love and everything that you've done."
"tHe hArDeSt pArT oF lOvInG u iS nOt hOw mUcH i gEt hUrT. iT's wHeN i cAn'T sHoW u hOw mUcH i lOvE u hOw i fEeL bEcOz' uR hEaRt aLrEaDi bElOnGs 2 sUm1 eLsE"
"Giving some1all ur love is nv an assurance that they'll love U back! Dun expect love in return; just wait 4 it 2 grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in Urs."
"if that someone in ur heart is willing to take the risk and wait for you,that love u have, will be the one u searching for a lifetime... "
"i wish i m a teddy bear... no matter how FAT i m, pple still hug me... the older i get... the more valuable i'll be ..."
"Love is not blind - It sees more and not less, but because it sees more it is willing to see less"
[This message has been edited by jAnY (edited 17 April 2001).] -
It is infinitely more exciting to live a life of catastrophic failures, than a life of could haves, should haves and would haves
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A Gift Rare And True By Angi Eads
You came to my life in my darkest day.
No longer had I strength to carry on.
The mask I showed the world had slipped
And I had lost my will to be strong.
Searching my soul brought me nothing.
I wanted no more from the world
Than to be alone, an uninvolved stranger.
But, by not seeking, I found you.
A ray of sunshine entered my life.
A glimmer of dawn and days to come.
I discovered meaning, true meaning,
As I had never before found in myself.
I found hope, joy, love and laughter.
But also tears, self-doubt and longing.
I yearned to let my thoughts be revealed,
Yet I feared the loss of your light.
My joy in you flew high, but yet,
Revealing that joy brought sadness.
Would I lose that which I love by loving
or lose it by not loving enough?
Questions, never answers, filled my heart.
I doubt not my love, only the showing of it.
Yet it is a risk I gladly take
For I would rather lose by loving than by not.
To love and not give it freely
Is a crime I refuse to commit.
To love and not speak of it
Is a waste of beautiful words.
To love and not show it openly
Is to deny a precious gift.
Love is never given easily
So should not be lightly dismissed.
Love is a special emotion.
Found rarely and not often returned.
Blessed are those who love without question,
Without demanding love in return.
Loving while still unloved
Is the proof of profound depth.
This is the ultimate sacrifice,
To give of yourself with no demands.
To you, dear heart, I give my love.
Freely, for it's not meant to bind you.
Fully, for it is deeply felt.
Faithfully, to be your anchor
Through all storms.
Eternally, for it will never die.
I give to you of myself willingly.
Accept as you wish, light or serious.
I have spoken, the choice is yours.
Take time to consider fully
The meaning of these few lines.
They are only a part of all I have to give.
Yet I understand your reluctance.
Time is one thing I give you gladly,
For I took time I needed too.
Come to me when you are ready.
My heart will always be waiting.
This is my gift to you.
Yours ~CloneMe~ -
huwahhhhhhhhhh.... cheem....
Joylet can i borrow your dictionary?
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Wah Clone...very chim leh....simple topic u must post bombarstic reply...scared siah...
My england not powderful..All i know is that when i love, i know someone somewhere will love me back....
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I only know.. if one is to love.. its best that one give it all.. listen to Michael Bolton's "Completely"
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jany: u may borrow my dictionary ... i placed it on the shelf next to the toilet next to the 2nd staircase ... *grin*
XAV: did not know u soooo ..... "kang kai"
give ALL ahhh ... hmmm ... scarly give all, no return ... u cry cry ah!
but well ... "wen shi jian .. qing wei he wu?" ... hahaha -
isn't it supposed to be the way.. for the one I love I would..
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Yah for when you love someone, you would never expect anything in return rite xavier??
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take a look at the URL below.
I think communication is important lor.
If you never communicate, you never noe wat the other person is thinking.
http://www.itoh.com/flash/booke.html -
agreed.Originally posted by jAnY:take a look at the URL below.
I think communication is important lor.
If you never communicate, you never noe wat the other person is thinking.
http://www.itoh.com/flash/booke.html -
No man/woman is an island.
We are social creatures in an neverending cycle of life.
Thus go love, be loved and in love.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
wahhhh CloneMe sounds so ...... "flooded with love"
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Jany
I agree with u dear .. 2-way communication
IS important ...
and hopefully the other party really understands WHAT you are thinking ...
mis-communication is a dangerous thing :X
Cheerio~ -
life is short.........
live happy and die healthy. -
I recently brought a fountain pen, the ink leaks, thus got ink mah... squirt some ink at joylet.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
haha..spastic..it doesnt mean that wen u love a person u will understand that person manz fully..love is so blind that it can blind wat u cun see...that u will do stupid things that u will later regret..waste time..
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yah michiko .. u're rite ... when u love someone doesn't mean you understand them .. they might not understand u either.
it is like life ... sometimes, errr MOST of the time, we won't understand why certain things happen ..
I guess all that matters is how we handle them ... when they happen.
And .. waste time or NOT ... depends on urself lorrr ... if you think it is waste of time then IT IS lorr .. get wat I mean?
Cheerio~
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"I love you - those three words have my life in them." -
I always believe that life is a learning process ... it applies to our schooling days, working in the society and BGRs.
It is not a waste of time...
I can learn something new...
Human always learn things the hard way....
haizzzzz
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Yeah i agree with BM...everyday is a challenge and every mistake is a lesson learned so i dun find that a waste of time...
michiko...learn somethings from BM kor kor okie...spastic
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haha.. i think i rather spend my time on something more useful n practical..hehe
Remember:
AI QING BU NEN DANG MIAN BAO LAI CHI okz!!
All those bullshit about just love itself no use onez..in the end still have problems like money lah..Best to depend on yourself nowadays...women should be independent!!^__^v -
Michiko seems to be a very frustrated woman... must be dunno where to 'tao liang' hokkien.
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~CloneMe~
It can't rain all the time. -
Maybe Sam would like to help her out?