Would You Mind?
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Guys...would you mind if your partner tells you one day that she is not a virgin, had many sex partners before and even an abortion? She is willing to change everything for you...would you still accept her?
Gals...would you mind if one day your guy tells you that he has been fooling around your back since day 1 he knows you and now wants forgiveness. Will you forgive him even if he changes? -
I think it all boil down to the amount of bond between the couple.
Time is the best factor to show....
Honesty and Trust is the key to a long-lasting relationship. -
Hershey said "Gals...would you mind if one day your guy tells you that he has been fooling around your back since day 1 he knows you and now wants forgiveness. Will you forgive him even if he changes?"
FOOLING around ... hmmm ... in the first place I won't even wanna have such a guy as my friend. -
Well Bm, let me tell you this..true..honesty is the key to a long-lasting relationship..but have you ever trusted someone you loved so much that when he/she betrayed you, your world just collaspe?
I have that kind of experience before...and it happened in my 8yr relationship...when I found out the truth, my whole world just came crashing down..well everything might be over for a long time but hey, I cannot forget what has happened...till today, I still cannot 100% trust my guy..like they say...MEN...cannot be trusted... -
Guys...would you mind if your partner tells you one day that she is not a virgin, had many sex partners before and even an abortion? She is willing to change everything for you...would you still accept her?
dun look back...
history is for people to study..
create our love history is more important than studying her history. ( but she cannot repeat her history
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"Gals...would you mind if one day your guy tells you that he has been fooling around your back since day 1 he knows you and now wants forgiveness. Will you forgive him even if he changes?"
WHAT! fooling ard since day 1!!!
Aint we suppose to be faithful to one another?
I dun think i can forgive him coz he might wan to repent now but who noes when he will start fooling ard behind my back again!
"A leopard can never changes its spots"
I think i would rather give up the relationship to prevent him from hurting me any further. -
jAnY .... seems to have similar thinking / concept as me ...
"A leopard can never changes its spots"
I don't know why .. but it just seems easier for me to trust a girl than to trust a guy.
maybe 'cos of all those movies, news ... stereotyping maybe ... hmmm .... -
if u keep thinking of the past
u can never advance.. joy -
Dear Joy,
'coz we same horoscope mah ;P
MJ,
If you noe dat it is dangerous to play wif fire, would you wan to take the risk again?
Once a person has gone thru a bad experience, he/she will always think twice when face with the same situation again. -
yes jany..
i dun play with fire
but i need fire everyday.
to keep myself warm, to cook ( though i dunno how to cook but i know we need fire )
so if u scare to get near fire sooner or later u will scare of cold and die of hunger.
water can carried a boat, and also can capsize them. -
“I think it all boil down to the amount of bond between the couple.
Time is the best factor to show....
Honesty and Trust is the key to a long-lasting relationship.”
Naïve is all can say of the BM’s paragraph.
The best liar in the world will take their lies to their grave with them. Thus time canÂ’t help.
Dishonesty comes from all around us and in all forms. A white lie is still a lie.
Thus honesty is a measure set in pencil, editable when the situation requires.
A lifetime-built trust can just be washed away by a moment of indiscretion.
Thus trust is not concrete.
“Guys...would you mind if your partner tells you one day that she is not a virgin, had many sex partners before and even an abortion? She is willing to change every-thing for you...would you still accept her?”
Sinners have to repent in order to be forgiven.
Thus if my girl tells me about her past history and it is something I can live with,
then everything is wipe clean and she gets to start again afresh with me.
But if she commits the same discretions again, donÂ’t expect me to be just as okay to it as in the past.
”To Err Is Human.”
If I am in the wrong, I will seek for forgiveness.
Then I will justify the forgiveness given through my actions.
Btw I like Mahjong's "Shui Neng Fu Zhou, Ye Neng Fan Zhou."
If you are playing with fire, then prepare to get burn.
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~CloneMe~
It won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever. -
jAnY
no wonder ...Originally posted by jAnY:Dear Joy,
'coz we same horoscope mah ;P -
Wah CLone...chimalogy...but okie i do agree with you...Human do Err...but if they keep using this excuse to hurt me once and once again...I don't think it fair...
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Once bitten twice shy
unforgiven for repeated offence
Red Card ... OUT U GO!
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wahhh ... jAnY so firm
I had 1 ger friend ...
she said she will never give the person (who hurt her before) another CHANCE to hurt her ...
which was why she "ditched" me ....
hahahhaaaaa got chance then tell u the old old story of 2 good friends ..... -
Isn't THIS a chance?
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I brought popcorn and drinks liao... sitting in front of monitor awaiting Joy's story.Originally posted by Joylet:wahhh ... jAnY so firm
I had 1 ger friend ...
she said she will never give the person (who hurt her before) another CHANCE to hurt her ...
which was why she "ditched" me ....
hahahhaaaaa got chance then tell u the old old story of 2 good friends .....
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Well joy, a person can be forgiving the first time but not another time.....anyway i also waiting to hear the story!!
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/me got popcorns, nachos supplies ready...
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hehehehe ....
now then I know #zzzzland has so many ......... bxxxbxxxxx :p
aiyo ... this kind of story, write out not so interesting/exciting ... till we meet in person then tell u lah ...
okie end of topic :p -
ya loh joylet tell us the story leh
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Joylet,
Scared the next time someone organise meeting noone appear is it?