Still friends?
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Can you still be friends with a person who was your bf/gf? i.e. ur ex lahhh
Would you allow your bf/gf to meet his/her ex?? -
Depends on how you broke up.. 2nd question..haven't tried.. cannot answer
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Joylett,
Yes to ur Q1.
Perferably no to Q2. -
Well Joylet,
It depends on how you all break up lor, if things are not that ugly well still can be friends lar.
As for your 2nd question, I would prefer not to lor...I am also a woman mar, if I let my guy to meet his ex, how I know what they are doing....so better not meet best lor
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Q1. Yes, only if we parted amiablely.
Q2. Yes, if I can remain friends with my ex, why canÂ’t she? -
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CloneMe72:
[B]Q1. Yes, only if we parted amiablely.
Q2. Yes, if I can remain friends with my ex, why canÂ’t she?
i aGREE. -
I cannot remain as friends with my ex.
Doesn't matter how we broke up,
I prefer not to see my ex.
I do not allow my bf to meet his ex.
Selfish I am ... [JoyDa] -
hmmmm
if can, I will continue to befriend my ex.
if not den mai lor...
If my bf wan to continue meeting his X, den let him be lor...
coz no matter how i oppose or control him... he will still meet her...
There's a mean...
There's a way........
[This message has been edited by jAnY (edited 14 June 2002).] -
yah lah ... I do not wish my bf meet his ex lah ... who knows what will happen?
BUT if he die die wanna meet, and do so behind my back .. then I got no choice lorrr ... right?
then he will risk losing me lorrrr ...
simple as that. -
but hor if they are just friends den nvm lor.... afterall some couples can still be friends after breakup
but if my bf do sthg wrong leh...
he will end up like ur bf
losing me.... :p -
Read my face and you will know I am lying.Originally posted by jAnY:but hor if they are just friends den nvm lor.... afterall some couples can still be friends after breakup
but if my bf do sthg wrong leh...
he will end up like ur bf
losing me.... :p
Thus to be safe, I don't do stupid things.
My guilt will dig and dig at me until I confess.
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Oh it won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever.
[This message has been edited by CloneMe72 (edited 14 June 2002).] -
Wah...CLone....very chim leh...anyway i agree with jan and joylett lor...I oppose to letting my guy to meet his ex also no use cause if he really wants to meet up, they can lie to you.
But i prefer that they let me know if they really want to meet up..although it makes me angry but at least i am not kept in the dark...besides, if there is nothing wrong with them, my guy should not hide anything what...rite? -
i agree wif Hershey
If they have nothing to hide, my bf shd be able to "inform" me that they r meeting up
keep me in the dark n let me found out later will certainly make the matter worst...
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Yeap Jany...
In a relationship we have to be honest with each other...honesty and trust is important in maintaining a relationship...this is how i feel...but how far would you go to be honest and trusting each other?
[This message has been edited by Hershey (edited 19 June 2002).] -
This reminds me of Bananarama's song = Love Truth & Honesty
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Q1
i think whether after the break up we can still be frens or not depends on both party...mature enough and maybe not a sour breakup------of coz still can be frens
but if the bf/gf betray and lead to break up i dont think u will wanna be fren him/her even after a long time.
Q2
yes your partner can still befren his/her ex but metting up i think it is not a very nice idea. coz some time their love can be rekinder or maybe one of them (the guy/gal) still love ur partner n trying hard to get him/her back. then dont meet will be better
even if wanna meet i think best is bring ur new partner along. to assure the present one n to give clear message to the old one.
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Hmmz...
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Dunno lah...
*Chiam*
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[color=blue]I think no matter what happens, it's best that you and your present pratner comes to a conclusion before meeting up with your ex. This is called respect..like i said, if you have nothing to hide, then you should not be afraid to let your present partner know if you are really meeting up with your ex for a coffee...
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it is almost as ferocious as the real life environment that the British University put me into.
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However, it could get even worse and more extreme and total rip-off, the British universities are even worse than the gangsters, in the way that they exploit and extort SINGAPORE students in terms of Basic Rights and Family Fortune. Even more recklessnessly.
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hmm.. for a start, i'm actually very close friends with my first boyfriend.. we now like bro and sis cos we really noe each other inside out..
than, if my boyfriend wants to meet her ex.. firstly must see why they broke up, and also see whether the ex is that kind will try to snatch old bf back becos she jealous see him with other pple.. actually the best is to JOIN them when they meet eact other, in that case u can detect anythin thats suspicious
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hmm..dun see to be able to keep being frenz wif any of my ex..
and even if i was...wont' let my ex meet my current bf..its too wierd