People who go after other people's girlfriend!
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he steal your gf izzit?
next time i teach you...you see his gf coming u steal his back lah!
don't be dumb..it takes two hands to clap. no such thing as steal ok. and the guys in this forum ain't exactly your brothers...so just be careful who you introduce your gf too... -
I dunt blame the guy who go after ur gf,as everyone got his or her freedom to choose...ask urself why u lose to that guy?
That guy must be better than u....so be fair to ur gf...let her be. -
although wat u wrote sounded very fucked up.....but sadly it's quite true....it's all part of growing up.Originally posted by Ministry:I dunt blame the guy who go after ur gf,as everyone got his or her freedom to choose...ask urself why u lose to that guy?
That guy must be better than u....so be fair to ur gf...let her be. -
for some reason, I have to admit that I also agree wif this...Originally posted by CHAY:although wat u wrote sounded very fucked up.....but sadly it's quite true....it's all part of growing up.
This is all about commitment only, commitment won't make a person feelingless, but commitment just act as borderline where someone must not go beyond that line...
So if your gf commit to you, it doesn't mean "your gf will be feelingness", she still can be attracted to someone which may be better than you. Just like you, even though you are commited to your gf, you still admire someone which is prittier or nicer than your gf, but your *commitment* prevent you from doing so.
.. for your gf's sake... if breaking the *commitment* make her live more happily, you may have to accept her decision. anyway, GF and BF relationship is a *TOOL, DOOR, and FILTER* :
TOOL : to make both parties know each other, your weakness, her weakness, and strong points...
DOOR : door leading to MARRIAGE, and straight to "LIVING TOGATHER FOR A LIFETIME"
FILTER : whether both can ENDURE each other weak point, until both reach MARRIAGE stage.. Need understanding to acknowledge other parties' weakness, and to fill it with your strong point. But, if you can't better not continue, cos once get into MARRIAGE stage, all is too late ... you have to live with her weakness for the rest of your life.
So, if she find that she can't get along with you (*FILTER*) or find somebody have strong point which can cover her weakness, then, to break the commitment is not wrong, but it is a process of BF-GF relationship.
Unless you are in ENGAGED STATE (State excactly before marriage) or MARRIAGE STATE, the BF-GF commitment is breakable for the reason above ... for the sake of one of the party ...
rgds,
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abt my prev post... it really hurts to loose someone you love... but, don't give up ... my statement above don't have intension to make you give up ... Her new relationship with her new bf is also BF-GF relationship.
So, you can still go near to her, try to persuade her, don't give up easily. Maybe she find that you have more strong points than her new bf, than she can switch side to you... again.. there is still a *FILTER* between her and her new bf ...
.. and you can be one of the FILTER ... so, you still have the chance to take her back (not with muscle of course)... -
u r totally rite. i reli take my hat off u. (",)Originally posted by LexZEUS:abt my prev post... it really hurts to loose someone you love... but, don't give up ... my statement above don't have intension to make you give up ... Her new relationship with her new bf is also BF-GF relationship.
So, you can still go near to her, try to persuade her, don't give up easily. Maybe she find that you have more strong points than her new bf, than she can switch side to you... again.. there is still a *FILTER* between her and her new bf ... .. and you can be one of the FILTER ... so, you still have the chance to take her back (not with muscle of course)...
although im no longer wif her... all i wan to do nw is to get on wif my life.....lik wat u say in yr post. she may come back to me in a few years down the road.... but i cant let tat tie me down from getting on wif my own life... i mean we can nev stop learning and growing up.... if i can get on wif my own life, for all i know i may b a better person for her in the future or for tat other someone in store for me.....
i realised tat even though if u giv yr heart and soul to someone you love, tat does not mean tat you should giv up your life juz bcos the realationship had'nt worked out.....
juz be glad you had the chance once in your life to treat her good and be contented wif juz tat....
lik i said earlier...LIFE DOES NOT SUCK....it's juz all part of growing up and i have to face tat fact....
kevin
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You GUYs having an OUTING or something...? <- Go 'OUTSIDE' and 'SETTLE'..?? :p
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hah??.. I'm scared to meet you lor...Originally posted by Devil1976:You GUYs having an OUTING or something...? <- Go 'OUTSIDE' and 'SETTLE'..?? :p -
hmm it's like tt one lah..
dunno how many of my friends already kena this sorta case liao..
umm.. think it just wasn't meant to be..
urgh.. us NSFs have it bad..
just hafta wait until..
ORD LOH~
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Since you are in NS , means you are still young. CAn still get GFs one lah. so dun worry.
Plenty of gals out there that have better character. Not as if she is your wife, so if gone, gone loh. -
hi..
im a regular in the army..
hwever, if u r in ns n ur gf kana stolen away juz forget about her ...
mayb she is nt ur type..
bt hwever, if one wana be bf n gf ..
must b truthful to each other,..
or else y the F**K they wana b bf n gf rite?
hwever, concentrate on ur ns ..
SISPEC(suffer in silence + xtra confinement)
n this is to ppl out there too ,
plz b truthful to ur whoever, bf or gf..
dun play flirt ard..
or u will regret 1 day...
if tt day comes i will say ;
YESH.. well u can go ~@$$%!$%!