had sex with someone with herpes

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 08:45

  ]Few days ago I having sex with someone who gt herpes. I was too naive to believe if I gt protection it will be safe. After doing I did check with the condoms.. It does nt have any holes n leaking out.. I did kiss with him but there is any sores or ulcer from him .. N when we kiss no saliva from him too.. Is it safe? I feel so worry Now already 3 days since doing.. Should I go for blood test? I was so worry n depress.. No matter how I msg him or call him no answer from him.. Don know is it I over irrated him or he just want to avoid me.. I have no one to talk to so no choice to come in this forum..
• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 09:18

  Sorry there is typing error as I was using iPhone.. Sorry
• Fire Cracker

  16 Feb 11, 10:16

  who is that guy?

   

  u doing prositution?

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 10:32

  I nt prositution.. I m just a normal girl.. He is a frenz whom I know very long ..
• Darkness_hacker99

  16 Feb 11, 15:18

  how old are you then?

   

• elindra

  16 Feb 11, 15:20

  Instead of worrying, go and get yourself tested

• Darkness_hacker99

  16 Feb 11, 15:23

  Dear Amber20,

  I would suggest you to look out for signs and symptoms to show up. That includes pain during urination, flu, fever, etc. Then you will see a doctor.

  He's avoiding you probably because he know he did something wrong to you; feeling ashame to see you, or perhaps he might have another fling already. I do not know about you or your friend, so I can't comment much on this. I'm sorry..

  If you need help or more information about Herpes, please feel free to PM me or search the internet for general information.

  Please come back again..... Thank you.

   

  Best Regards,
  Chin Seng
  Homework Forum Moderator

• ChoCoChips

  16 Feb 11, 15:27

  faster go see doc la. y got herpes still do it with him sia
• Darkness_hacker99

  16 Feb 11, 15:28

  I hope you're alright..

  Best Regards,
  Chin Seng

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 16:15

  I m 25 years old.. I was stupid to believe it is safe ..
• Darkness_hacker99

  16 Feb 11, 16:18

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  I m 25 years old.. I was stupid to believe it is safe ..

  
  Hey there..... are you okay?

  Best Regards,
  Chin Seng

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 16:26

  Darkness hacker 99 ... Thanks.. I really can talk to you? I feel very depress .. I did search the information online .. It did said as long as the person with herpes does not have any outbreak having sex with him with protection is safe but not 100% safe.. I really know my mistake.. I hope god will give me one more chance to change my ways..
• oromew

  16 Feb 11, 16:28

  hi ts, im new to this forum, but...

  
  

  U may want to take a look at this webbie. http://www.epigee.org/guide/herpes.html

  guide for all symptoms. i dont know if its a incurable disease or smth..
  

  sry thats the most i can do . not very experienced in this sex thing...

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 16:36

  Oromew.. Thanks.. I had read alot of herpes..
• 81

  16 Feb 11, 16:39

  Originally posted by Amber20:

  Darkness hacker 99 … Thanks.. I really can talk to you? I feel very depress .. I did search the information online .. It did said as long as the person with herpes does not have any outbreak having sex with him with protection is safe but not 100% safe..

  I really know my mistake.. I hope god will give me one more chance to change my ways..

  
  god will. herpes won't.

   

  believe you can google information on symptoms for herpes.

  if symptoms persist, never mind the paiseh n see a doc, that is if you hope for god to give you a chance.

• gunner77

  16 Feb 11, 16:47

  Just wanna ask, when you see his dick, did you saw any blister or like pimple like that?

  Or was it fully heal?

   

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 16:49

  Now so far still ok.. I did have discharge but I just finish my period.. Have to wait for few days then see how.. Now I everyday worry about those symptom will come out... Is really mental torturing.. But I hope if this mentally torture is god give me as a punishment n exchange I m safe.. I really willing to take it
• angel7030

  16 Feb 11, 16:52

  Why so stupid, suka suka give people sex leh?? Sg gal say them clever also very stupid

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 17:09

  Gunner77 when I saw his dick is normal..the whole body is normal.. Don have any outbreak.. He know he gt herpes is not because he gt any symptoms as his company send him for check up.. Then he discover that ..
• dukedracula

  16 Feb 11, 17:58

  since you knew he have the disease, why did you even go ahead with the sex?

  you need more than a check-up, you need more common sense...

• Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1)

  16 Feb 11, 18:01

  plz consult a  doctor

   

  ty

• killtheink

  16 Feb 11, 18:05

  please don't keep on worrying until you really fall ill from the worry and then you mistake the symptoms as that of herpes. that's not good either. just get tested in 3 weeks la.

• Ä«Õß:¸ïÀë

  16 Feb 11, 18:12

  you had sex with him for free?

  please go consult a doctor, if you are free of the disease, please contact me...... i wan FREE SEX also.....

  I confirm disease free.....

  

• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 18:25

  If I free of herpes .. I will learn my lesson.. Treasure my life n myself more. I will put more common sense in my brain too..
• Amber20

  16 Feb 11, 18:28

  I also wish to stop worry but I just simply cant do that.. He say won't get I really it is the truth as he know herpes more than me..