What the use of going after a Gal?
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What the use of going after a gal who say she don't believe that u like.
I really hate this. Why, tell me why?
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has a friend who met with tt problem, but hee~ paishe, too lazy to type out all tt i adviced him........
next time la.....sori....
but dun tink u wan ne advice frm me either rite?
cheer up la, if u tink she ain't worth it, den give up lo. hee~ -
Hi Thanks for ur reply and any way i would like to listen to ur advice. PlS reply ASAP
Thanks !
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{:-) Murphy d;-\ -
d;-) Thanks t|red! By the way i would like to listen to ur advice.
Murphy {;-*
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Murphy:
Maybe she is using that as an excuse to make you back off?
Or she wants you as a friend only?
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lexelle:
Thanks for ur reply...I also has the feeling of her that she wanted me to back off....recently a girl in my ite from drafting department fell in love with me. she a beautiful girl but i don't know her well some of my frens in her class say that she a nice girl...but i don't whether to go for her or not.....? :-&
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murphy......sighz........u know, (please don't mind me saying this, but i am getting rather sick of relationships...sighz.....been in 2 bad ones. tired out by them already...) anyway, just trust your heart man. please follow your heart. go where ever it leads you to. don't make choices just coz your frenz said something. i mean, yes of course you can take their opinions in, but do remember to ask yourself, what are you really doing this thing for? you or them?
ok, so what if she is pretty? you said so yourself, you don't really know her. do you think a relationship without the understanding of both parties can work out? it would be purely based on material stuff, or in this case, appearances, right?
and as for the other girl, whom u said says she doesn't think u really like her, ask youself if u think she's worth it. if you can say yes to this question, then show her that you really do like her. she's most probably insecure i think. wait, i stress again, this is in my own opinion, ok. she's feeling inferior, so therefore, she's not sure whether you are just playing with her feelings or not. or she could have been in a bad relationship before, so therefore, she doesn't want to make the same mistake twice. you know, "once bitten, twice shy" do take the gentle approach. =)
anywya, wat came out of that guy (my friend, the one i mentioned in my first post).........was that he gave up in the end. girl wrote a letter to him, asking him to back-off (i think. he didn't exactly tell me bout the letter, but it was most probably like wat i thought.) anyway, watever your decision, i wish you luck. =)
dun blame me if it doesn't work out. hee~ =D just doing my best to help you out here. =) -
Murphy:
Don't jump into a 7-11 relationship as the consequences will be even harder to bear.
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lex: wat's 7-11 r/s???
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I suppose a 7-11 relationship is a u want, u come sort of relationship. Such an impromtu relationship pattern usually ends up with disastrous consequences. Murphy, I suggest u try to know the drafting department gal better first before u jump into it. She likes u doesn't mean that u like her.
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agreed. murphy, if u really want to, get to know that girl who likes you. maybe you think she's more worth it. =) who knows? i for one, certainly don't know.
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Thanks PPL! In The past few days i have also been through alot of thinking whether to go for her and my answer is no until i know her very well enough. I also agreed that appearences is not the problem as long u really like the gal and the gal really like then go for it. THANKS! d:->
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to murphy, you are most welcome. =) glad to be of some help to you.
here's a poem for you! =)
--WatChFuL LoVe--
i thought i'd never
fall in love again,
until that night
when i felt your touch.
our hands brushed past,
there was a tingling sensation.
our eyes met briefly,
we held our breaths.
embarrassed by what we saw,
we looked away.
yes, it was love....
but we were both too proud to admit.
from that day on,
you shied away.....
from that day on,
i looked at you
only in the dark.
afraid to wake those feelings was i....
i hid in the darkest corners,
trying just to get a peek at you.
don't turn around,
for i fear u see me cry.
don't turn around,
for i don't wish to make you sad...
don't turn around,
just keep walking.
i'll always be there,
watching over you.
from the darkest corners,
of the school...
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Anyway thanks and by the way i will me disconnecting my isp in due time and i will no longer can come in her for about 2 to 3 months. anything just msg me in my icq and put down ur name and my icq no. is 26707157
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Murphy:
7-11 is a convenience store?
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Yes I Know
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I'm back ppl u all can start msg againg to me
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Why can't the gals just openly go after the guys??!!
Can the gals please reply?
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See Ya!
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shy???
not all gals are able to go after a guy openly la......think in most cases, they'd rather like the guy and admire him from a distance, than jump straight in and ask the guy if he likes her, or if he can be her boyfriend....quite paisehing wat.......anyway, gals are known to be weaker than men in a sense......if u know what i mean......a rejection may come to be a very harsh hit on her u know....
not that i'm saying that guys are not afraid of rejection, but it's just that sometimes, they are able to take the rejections better than us gals..... -
I do not take rejection very well and if a gal rejected i will be very paiseh lor and i dare not go near her again and i will try not to tok to her too much or.........
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err dont chase her loh.....
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if you think that she aint worth it...then forget it man....move on!
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HI ppl GD NEWS FOR ME.....U MUST BE HAPPY FOR ME FOR THOSE WHOM I HAVE SEEN U ALL THE FIRST TIME I POST THIS NEW TOPIC RIGHT..LIKE T|rEd AND LEXELLE.....I HAVE FOUND A GIRL IN MY SCHOOL I LIKE ....SHE ALSO LIKE ME TOO...BUT TILL NOW I HAVE NT ASK HER FOR HER HAND....ME PAISEH LEH.....HOW SIAO LIAO.....DONNO HOW TO ASK HER ALSO AND EVERTIME WHEN I TOK TO HER I MUST THINK ABOUT WHAT TO TOK.....HOW? SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE....PLS
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congrats to you loh murph. As for the holding hands.. perhaps u would like to hear from the more experienced ones around.
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Just grab her hand and walk together! She'll love you!Originally posted by Murphy:HI ppl GD NEWS FOR ME.....U MUST BE HAPPY FOR ME FOR THOSE WHOM I HAVE SEEN U ALL THE FIRST TIME I POST THIS NEW TOPIC RIGHT..LIKE T|rEd AND LEXELLE.....I HAVE FOUND A GIRL IN MY SCHOOL I LIKE ....SHE ALSO LIKE ME TOO...BUT TILL NOW I HAVE NT ASK HER FOR HER HAND....ME PAISEH LEH.....HOW SIAO LIAO.....DONNO HOW TO ASK HER ALSO AND EVERTIME WHEN I TOK TO HER I MUST THINK ABOUT WHAT TO TOK.....HOW? SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE....PLS