Frustrated at being ignored
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During this lunar new year, me have been ignored and treated like nobody so many times. Me is getting very frustrating.
1) Office: one colleague came to me cubicle ask me about something. So me stop my own work for awhile out of respect and answer him. Before I finish my sentence, he ran off. So rude. Not the first time he did this to me.
2) Office: Me suppose to bring some auditor to see one ego logistic manager to check some stock. THe ego logistic manager tell me off to go bring the auditor to check stock myself.
3) I call a friend to chit chat. When me say goodbye, he never reply goodbye back. So rude.
4) CNY. Me own cousin who gone Hong Kong for work for 2 years, came back during reunion. So me took initiative to talk to her. As me talk to her, she impatiently look at her watch and then left abruptly before i can finish my sentence. So rude !
Action:
1) Go to the stupid colleague. Tell him off for being so rude. Reason he is rude to me: because I didn't want to join his church when he invite me. Tell him me don't want to be part of his stupid church and tell him off that me know that reason for him to be so rude is because he want to attack me for refusing to join his church.
2) Complain to my boss about this stupid logistic manager. Send out email, cc to all the big boss and scold this stupid logistic manager for not doing his job, instead ask me to do his dirty work. Next time when logistic manager need my help back, I refuse to come out under hot sun to help this jerk to check his stock.
3) Call this stupid friend more often and harass him. Make obscene phone call. Call until his phone explode and when he pick up, say a lot of complain complain complain. then slam phone without goodbye. This stupid indian friend, never even wish me happy new year.
4) Complain to uncle auntie about this rude cousin. Give no face wan.
Time to stand up for myself ! Time to defend myself ! From rude people. I Hate rude people.
Me going to be like Douglas. Must fight back ! Me am no pushover.
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Did you carry out Action 1 to 4?
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They say that if 1 person says you're ugly, that person is the uglier. If 2 person calls you ugly, then maybe you need a mirror to double check. If 3 person calls you ugly, then it's time to start grooming up.
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Dont add to reality and one is free.
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do u have BO?
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this world is 欺善怕�....and every one must learn to stand up for onself ...but instead of reacting to violence ....be smart and find better alternatives...if your superior is a jerk and your company leaves it to such jerks (which is common) ....u can see how u could sabotage him tactfully before u leave...
and those fwens and hypocrites around u....dun have to bother...becos they see and pray to superficial materialisms....
u ought to do what u can to get better in terms of your career and live life to the fullest than getting even...the more time u spent on thinking over such matters is opportunity costs u could use to get better than them....
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