Originally posted by Fireindahouse:
A description of my agony in this jobFinally today i was like zzzz again got scolded by manager infront of so many customers again.. in addition cuz new guys normally requires alot of training so before i joined them the staffs there already had many unhappy experiences with previous newbies le.. when i joined them the first day their greeting was already like zzz another new guy le.. then overheard some of their conversation i was already aware of their opinions le... it drags on everyday i forced myself to put on a optimist attitude towards it and initiated conversations with the staffs there apparently they just grew more doubtful of me each day.. oh ya there are some good staffs that had also been guiding and encouraging me as well... putting good words to me during closing everyday ..
well,i know its part and parcel of a working life initially i been constantly consoling myself battling and challenging my heart and tell myself that this #@$# would be soon over but today zzzzzz oh well.. i ask for a talk with the manager in the staff room and submitted my resignation.. althought i was told my pay will takes 2weeks to process
i left the workplace with grins on old staffs face and just a bidding from the manager.. many of the staffs which are getting good along with was off today.. i didn't want to end this way..
simple rules to live by:
1. when in doubt, always seek clarification (with people that matters, not necessary your boss, can be the customers too).
2. then match your expectations and logic (remember our own can be irrational too) against the answers given.
3. if match good, if not match, consider if you can make adjustments to accomodate the larger cause.
4. if cannot, leave and take it as lesson learnt, move on...
"life is about moving on and change"