Bodhisattva idea is not high up there , unfathomable but down to our daily lives
when our close fren need financial help , you have to weigh ur ability and how much he can return in due course
even down to our interpersonal relationship ,
frenship gets sour when both party quarrel over failed business venture
financial lending and interest conflict
and
most young people do , boyfriend and girlfriend problem
we must often let go of the concept " Please swear you will be my true fren !"
becos as exhorted in Buddha last words to us
"Subject to change are all things,Strive on with dilligence"