Originally posted by likeyou:Hi Mardiana, what your bf means is no sex no relationship? Can you tell by the looks whether a man is a virgin or not? Answer is NO. If your bf is a virgin, how come he initiate for sex? Something funny right? Dont fall into the trap of having sex to satisfy yuor bf.
To tell you the truth, guys lost nothing after sex. Guys can have many sex partners, ladies? If you are a virgin, you are done! Gone! Dirty.
So, why not tell your bf if your bf sincerely love and likes you, cant he dont talk about sex? Can the sex will delay till marriage?
Be extremely careful Mardiiana about this move. I just dont wish to hear you after some time posting here to say I get cheated.
no no im not...well he is not trying to equate r/s to sex. we just think that having sex in a r/s is fine as long it strenghtens the r/s. i will have sex with the guy whom im love. yeaa thats the part i dont get it. to think of it, he was the one who started all this up. my parents went overseas a month ago and since my eld sis is schooling, he will come over in the afternoons. first few times we were just casual, eating and watching tv and those stuffs. i took it to bedroom (not with the intend of getting laid) but when a place so cosy anything can happen. we make out and bit of petting but nothing further than that happened.
im not too concerned abt the long term issue like 'oh i was screwed and he left me' and im not that type. shit happens and it takes 2 hands to clap so i have to suck it up and move on. im worried abt pregnancy and STDs. my eld sis told me to bring him to do a blood test to see if he has STD or something. if he doesnt then should be 50% fine. the other half would be pregnancy and i heard theres female 'condom-like' latex for sale but is there any here in sg? plus taking contra pills 12 hrs before intimacy and having it during periods (gross) helps?
Since yr bf told you he is a virgin, bring him for blood test to confirm as what yr sis told you.
Anyway, do think twice about having sex ya.
Always remember we guys nothing to lost after sex.
I have a friend, he told us, "the coffee no smell liao" We pity his gf. He started to look for another will coffee smell. You get what I mean.
Yes you may love him so much, but if he really love you, he will not be asking for sex from you.
Please be careful, we can advise you and goes this far, but ultimately, it is your final decision whether you really want to go into sex with yr bf.
What if you get pregnant even you and your bf take all the precuations?
What is your next move?
Why not test him like asking him what if I pregnant, will we get rom or married? If your bf told you to abort it, then something not right.
i have friends to agreed to every safe sexy his girlfriends requested, just to fuck her
he got her pregnant and force her to go for abon
and end of the day he with another woman now.
there might be a chance you are next.
That is what I am worry for TS.
Please dont fall into this trap.
Dont make yourself dirty.
Many men can sweet talk to a lady about being faithful this and that.
After sex, all change. Of couse before sex, he will say "dont worry, I will love you even after sex, dont worry, I will take care of you even after sex, dont worry, I will take full responsbility after sex......
But that is your body and virgin, dont lost it cheaply.
Originally posted by likeyou:Since yr bf told you he is a virgin, bring him for blood test to confirm as what yr sis told you.
Anyway, do think twice about having sex ya.
Always remember we guys nothing to lost after sex.
I have a friend, he told us, "the coffee no smell liao" We pity his gf. He started to look for another will coffee smell. You get what I mean.
Yes you may love him so much, but if he really love you, he will not be asking for sex from you.
Please be careful, we can advise you and goes this far, but ultimately, it is your final decision whether you really want to go into sex with yr bf.
hmm yea but its obvious on what his reply is if i ask him to take the blood test just for one night pleasure u see. its not easy but i will find a way to bring him to get his blood tested if we wanted to get together badly.
i already thought twice. but i DO want to take my own precautionary measures. wow ur friend is such an ass for doing that. karma will get on him eventually.
i never thought of that! u mean asking him abt the worst scenario right? but then im not gd at interrogating bcos i trust him alot. thats why i love him. what else can i ask? questions that will not make him to give the same answers..
All guys are like that. Arss holle, have fun and move to next target, sweet talk till the
girl really thought he really loves her.
As I have said earlier, if he truly loves you, whatever you want (assuming you dont like the idea of have sex), he will support you.
Make a wise choice Mardiana...the fate is in your hand. You are wise enough to know what is right and what is wrong to do.
BTW, dont trust 100%. Dont ever TRUST 100%. Remember that.
sure, i hope my next few posts here wont be anything abt STDs or pregnancies :)
Originally posted by mardiana:sure, i hope my next few posts here wont be anything abt STDs or pregnancies :)
Getting std or pregnant is ok.
Worst is contacted AIDS. Your life gone. Just like that. Is it worth it? TRUST HIM?
Of couse you will laugh, where can? He's virgin and I trusted him. Remember you wont know one if one got AIDS.
yea guess i have to consider this really! :(
hi mardiana,
virgin guys give you a higher risk of pregnancy especially in first time of intercourse will be more excitement and will be ejaculate faster,,
regarding the safe sex, you must also now you cycle of menstruation and know your day of period, you must master the calendar method to have more safer and together with withdrawal method.
but by right, it is very safe and accurate in using condom, same thing when using the thinnest condom to have it higher feeling inside
hope that my post can help
we cannot turn back the time if ever
have you done it?
women have to give in to men needs whenever they need it
dun question your man. just give it to him
You already say he is a virgin. all the more you should worry.
Virgin ejaculate faster than non-virgin.
He might not have enough time to draw his penis out and fire. he wil just fire inside you with his inexperience.
Don't be a dumbass.
Originally posted by gunner77:You already say he is a virgin. all the more you should worry.
Virgin ejaculate faster than non-virgin.
He might not have enough time to draw his penis out and fire. he wil just fire inside you with his inexperience.
Don't be a dumbass.
get him to bang your girl friends first, gain exp then pop you.
case closed liao.
Originally posted by Ah Gong:get him to bang your girl friends first, gain exp then pop you.
try it
sialah, ts jambu uh!
I might come to suspect that your bf could be gay.
Originally posted by Breadpigjolly:I might come to suspect that your bf could be gay.
That is so mean.
TS's bf could probably be a virgin and just simply dunno how to have sex.
But like the rest of the guys here said, if he loves you, he wun mind the condom